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Holley Dorrough, a small town Alabama girl (MM 8932), is featured as the April centerfold in Playboy. There may be one or two models on here who would characterize that as no small accomplishment. Maybe even something to write home about. But, according to a story in the Birmingham News, Holley's Southern Baptist parents cried for two months when Holley told them about it, her mother saying, "...she'll have to answer to the Lord for what she's done...". Her father reportedly took it the hardest. In letters to the local news paper, one high school librarian wrote that her students were disgusted and one of Holley's high school teachers wrote asking Holley not to ever mention where she went to high school for fear of the shame it will bring to the school. It goes on and on. Here is the story Sorry folks, but the attitude toward sex and nudity in this fucking country is so juvenile that it borders on insanity. Add to that, a healthy dose of guilt dipped in fanatical religious hypocrisy (the South's most important export) and you have a shining example the kind of hate filled mind control so typical of all of "God's chosen people" everywhere on the planet. I find it disturbing, in the extreme, that a girl should attain an enviable measure of celebrity and success only to be persecuted by the community where she grew up. It makes me ashamed to be a part of this backward, zealot-dominated state. *end of rant* -Dave Apr 01 06 02:52 pm Link This is always problem.Somebody will take it somebody not. My father doesn't talk to me because of naked pictures more than 2 years. Apr 01 06 02:59 pm Link Not to be a buzzkill or anything but put yourself in the PARENTS shoes. Forget "god" and religion.. all that aside.... If you had a daughter (don't know if you do) would you be proud she was getting into the porn industry? and please don't start with the playboy isnt porn crap. It is what it is. Just considered high profile porn. If I had a daughter.... I think I would cry too. I think MOST parents would want their children to aspire for something BETTER than posing nude....????? But that's just me what the F do I know. Apr 01 06 02:59 pm Link Many fathers would say, "You? Playboy wants you?" Apr 01 06 03:01 pm Link Seems like there's too much anger on both sides of the issue. It's always a shame when anyone speaks in "overgeneralizations." I don't beleive that everyone that shows their body should go to hell anymore than I beleive that those who are offended by it are all hypocritical religious zealots and hate mongers. I hope that at some point there can be some tolerance from people on both sides of the fence. Apr 01 06 03:02 pm Link I believe that some people of the christian faith need to remember that god has already forgiven them (and others) for their "sins" So personally, I think God's answer will be, "No Problem..." Apr 01 06 03:03 pm Link Well Dave. . . The choices you make are your own. I'm sure Holley's hometown and family values didn't just magically mutate into what they are now overnight. No doubt she's grown up with that her entire life. I would like to think that she's a grown woman and can make her own decisions. Unfortunately, all decsions have consequences. My father is a minister. His father is a Theologist. My mother is actively involved in the church. Get where I'm going with this?? Every decision I make has an impact on them. It's called public scrutiny. There are some things that I'm dead set against doing b/c I don't want them to be involved in the backlash. But. . .if/when I decide to do something that is considered "taboo" for any of them it's a conversation that I would have with them. . .starting with "Hey, i'm going to do ___ and I know you're not going to approve, but I'm doing it anyway so here's your head's up." But that's just me. I'm sure she won't be disowned. In time the whole town will get over it. But until then. . .consequences. This is something I'm pretty sure she knew would happen. Apr 01 06 03:03 pm Link Dave Krueger wrote: Yup... That's right. God made her with her clothes on, and she took them off. Shame on her. Apr 01 06 03:04 pm Link Her parents are from a differnet time frame. Times are changing but when they were growing up nudity for the most part was probably not acceptable. I'd imagine that it would be hard for people who grew up with the notion that nudity wasn't acceptable to switch their thinking. While nudity is not a direction I choose to pursue, if I did my parents would be shocked and most likely not happy with my desicion but would ultimatly support my choice. Apr 01 06 03:07 pm Link If nudity didn't mean anything in this country then neither would Playboy and the aspirtations of so many models and likely more photographers would be non-existant. Every time I read something like this I ponder how many people are in this game for the vice of it. Apr 01 06 03:08 pm Link I thought you got to make your own life decisions once you reached the age of 18 in this country. Apparently if your Baptist, you have to remain a child forever. Apr 01 06 03:10 pm Link Hey to paraphrase comedian Jim Gaffigan, when she ends up in heaven she can say "Bet you didn't expect to see me here!?" Apr 01 06 03:12 pm Link how about you try being in your parents shoes but not any kind of parent... a hardcore religious parent thinking, "my baby is showing off her naked self to the world! in a PORN magazine of all things! Good lord she isn't covering herself!!! She's showing off her genitalia to the world! Like a Piece of MEAT!" That's what they are thinking. Oh yes yes, when most people think of Play Boy and Pent House they do think of the big "P" word!!! PORNOGRAPHY!!!!! O_O omg, why is it so hard for people to understand others??? Just because there is a community that is close minded does not mean you have to resent them. If you hate it so much you wouldn't be living there now would you? O.o All I'm saying is, understand them before hating them. They may not do the same but you can. Apr 01 06 03:17 pm Link Nate Boguszewski wrote: You get the post of the day award! Would anyone in her home town or her parents mind if she were in a film where she was killling people? Yet its not Apr 01 06 03:21 pm Link FabioTovar wrote: What's BETTER than posing nude? Being a doctor? or a lawyer? Or a herbologist? Or working fries at McDonald's? Apr 01 06 03:24 pm Link I have met Holley and have photographed her as well. She is one of the most photogenic models that I have ever worked with. She is truely exceptional. In addition, she is one of the nicest, kindest, loveliest young woman that I have ever had the pleasure of meeting. I can only wish her the very best. But, with her lovely and outgoing personality and drive to succeed, I beleive the she will create a great career for herself and I truely expect great things from her. Apr 01 06 03:31 pm Link Apr 01 06 03:32 pm Link My problem with all this is that Playboy is BARELY even considered porn these days. It's more of an artsy nude mag. Now Hustler, Gent, Swank, Genesis, ect., that's PORN. I love porn, I love Playboy. I love them both for compleatly different reasons. It's so wierd to think people are getting so bent out of shape over Playboy still. I'd be proud of my kids in whatever they do as long as they didn't have to have sex with someone in order to get there. Playboy doesn't even do toys, fingers, or other people. I don't see the problem with it. Apr 01 06 03:44 pm Link I always thought God made us in his image. If so, why do so many find the naked human form to be offensive? The human body is a remarkable and beautiful creation, why not celebrate it? As a country we really need to get off our morality high horse and focus on more important matters such as feeding the hungry and sheltering the homeless. You really think that God will judge us in a more harsh fashion when we show a little skin as opposed to ignoring the nameless face that asks us for spare change on the way to work? Think about that... Apr 01 06 03:45 pm Link I am not particularly religious but since God has been brought into this, I would say that the only ones she has to answer to are God and herself. Everyone else should just get a frickin life. Apr 01 06 03:59 pm Link Nate Boguszewski wrote: Tony Lawrence wrote: Actually yes. My dad, the southern Baptist minister, lobbies against movies that have ludicy and excessive violence. He doesn't like those violent killing video games, nor does most of his congregation. So in the SB community. . .violence is just as bad. Remember, these are the same kinds of individuals that pushed for TV ratings for every show on TV. So it's not just nudity. Apr 01 06 04:02 pm Link Nate Boguszewski wrote: By your agument people in China should be thanking tyrannical censorship for creating an underground press. Apr 01 06 04:03 pm Link Jayne Jones wrote: So , Jayne how does your father react to your tasteful nudes Apr 01 06 04:06 pm Link IvyLynn wrote: So are you saying that you honestly believe there is no "casting couch" for Playboy? Hmmm. Interesting. Almost as interesting as the concept that there are no GWC's. Apr 01 06 04:06 pm Link UnoMundo Photography wrote: I'm not disowned. He understands that God and I are in charge of my life. He's not happy about it at all, but he knows he can't control what I do. Apr 01 06 04:08 pm Link I will say this I was born and raised in Mobile AL I move to CA about 9 years ago. Alabama prides itself on being a family orientated state they really would like to keep it that way. The value system in that state is so different than larger cities like chicago, LA and new york. I don't think being in playboy is a major achievement at all a stepping stone maybe but far from a major achievement. I would expect ppl to have such an attitude in AL so it's no surprise to me at all. I am not bashing AL I just know how the ppl are so that's the reason I left. So Dave you can either deal with it or seek to change it ! Apr 01 06 04:15 pm Link Jayne, Hate to pop your bubble but there is no casting couch for playboy... And Holly can't help it that shes from Alabama.... Apr 01 06 04:16 pm Link LMAO how pathetic... Lemme see now.... "God gave us our bodies. Did the design of the ultimate machine." MAN gave us clothes to cover it up. I dunno about the rest of you. But I think that covering it up is like saying you are ashamed of what "God" gave you. But it cracks me up at the small minded people that exist today. Apr 01 06 04:23 pm Link Jayne may have been talking about Hef's girlfriends. Hands up for all those that find that real creepy!!! Yet I've never heard any casting couch stories about Playboy in fact I've always heard they were really cool. I know a few models who were featured and they were treated well. Apr 01 06 04:26 pm Link Exactly...and you can bet the farm that most of the men in her home town who openly condemmed her for it, scurried out in the night to get that issue. There's countless "holier than thow" people living in glass houses throwing stones. Apr 01 06 04:26 pm Link Jayne Jones wrote: Yes, all decisions have consequences. If you decide to be naked in Alabama, you should be prepared to be hated by "God's children". I guess we should all be celebrating the fact that at least we don't make women wear burqas (although burqas probably didn't happen overnight either). Jayne Jones wrote: My point is that her modeling for Playboy doesn't have an impact on them. Their reaction isn't coming from her, it's coming from within them. It's their own self-righteous intolerant mob mentality bubbling to the surface. By "them", I mean everyone in the town who feels like she did something evil (not just her parents). Apr 01 06 04:27 pm Link IvyLynn wrote: If that's art... the cartoons maybe... the photography... it's posturing. It's trying to be something it is no longer and trying to stay in business in changed times. I haven't heard of anyone having fun on a Playboy shoot since the 60's. Apr 01 06 04:28 pm Link luv2bfitt wrote: that's pretty simplistic, and wrong, in my opinion (you're forgiven when you repent, not do nothing or ask for forgiveness without any plans on not doing the same action in the future) Apr 01 06 04:31 pm Link What does God want with a stroke mag? Apr 01 06 04:42 pm Link On the other side of the coin, if you espouse Christian politics, it seems you can do no wrong. There are those who would say Tom DeLay lost his job as House majority leader because he was indicted by a Texas grand jury for money laundering and conspiracy, or because of his extensive ties to lawbreaking lobbyist Jack Abramoff. But they would be wrong. Apr 01 06 04:54 pm Link I have a daughter I have 18 years to teach her my values when she moves out of my home and supporting herself what she does is up to her. My love for my children is unconditional and if she chooses to pose in playboy the only thing I would have to say about it is 'have you really thought out all of the pro's and cons of this?' At that point in time her decision is her decision. Now if she were dealing crack or doing something that physically harmed her or other people I'd have bit stronger opinion of her behavior but I'd still love her. My thing is if you decide to put on the black robe and judge someone you should be prepared for someone elst to put on that same robe and judge you. On a personal not the subject of this thread is quite a lovely young woman. I'm not suprised she was approached by Playboy nor will I be suprised to see her doing more projects nude or not in the future. Apr 01 06 04:57 pm Link Dave Krueger wrote: Every action has a consequence. Some good. Some bad. That's just how life is. You should weigh that out before you perform the action. Apr 01 06 04:58 pm Link What troubles me the most in all this is that I think her parents did more harm to her then anyone! Forget religion or personal beliefs, as a parent if I were in the same position with similar beliefs there is no way in hell my daughter's choice to pose nude in Playboy would end up as the local news story! Any parent who would be quoted in a newspaper saying that they are disgusted by her actions instead of protecting her should be ashamed of themselves. They threw her to the wolves clearly to make themselves look better instead of caring about their child. Purely selfish intent. In small towns everyone is always on a witchhunt. The fact that they participated is so sad. If it were my daughter and she decided to pose for Playboy I would be concerned about her underlying intentions. If she were doing it because she believes a womans body is beautiful and should be celebrated...great..no problem. If it were because she was looking for negative attention...I'd be concerned. Their daughter should have come first not what their neighbors thought! Yes, I'm ranting and I'm done:) Apr 01 06 05:12 pm Link C'mon man. You can't really blame or hate her hometown for reacting that way. Wouldn't you be the same way if Moses threw exploding, earth shattering rocks at your ancestors too? Dave Krueger wrote: Apr 01 06 05:26 pm Link FabioTovar wrote: I agree with you Fabio, I would be devestated if it were my daughter. I think people need to understand that people have different standards and values, we do not all share the same values and the ones you are brought up with are the ones your parents expect you to have forever....it doesnt happen that way but we all raise our kids in our own value system. Apr 01 06 05:27 pm Link |