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Photographer

Vegas Alien

Posts: 1747

Armington, Illinois, US

If I answered this honestly, some people might have a bad image of me. So, no.

Oct 08 06 02:24 pm Link

Photographer

Ivan S Harris

Posts: 96

San Diego, California, US

bzckry foto wrote:
So many photographers I talk to says it happens to them. Some of them go as far as to say it happens "regularly". I can only say that it has happened once. but that was by default...she was my lady.

yeah same here! LOL I wish that would happen at LEAST once just to see how it feels! lol

Then again maybe its more trouble then its worth because then They will not want to pay because we are "both benefiting" BLAH!

Oct 08 06 02:27 pm Link

Photographer

GDS Photos

Posts: 3399

London, England, United Kingdom

e-string wrote:

If you're talking to me, this guy isn't on MM.

It wasn't the guy I wanted you to hook me up with.

Oct 08 06 03:46 pm Link

Photographer

Photocraft

Posts: 631

Ann Arbor, Michigan, US

Chris Soriano wrote:
oh it's just sex. once the modeling lamps go off, we ain't nothing but mammals.

So what lighting ratio works best? Should I go with infrared?

Oct 08 06 05:11 pm Link

Photographer

oldguysrule

Posts: 6129

CareLyn Anita wrote:

If theres wronkled bedsheets chances are it had already happend that day.....

*prefers wronkling his own bedsheets

Oct 09 06 03:00 am Link

Model

AuLa

Posts: 1176

West Hollywood, California, US

Vegas Alien wrote:
If I answered this honestly, some people might have a bad image of me. So, no.

Wow.

Oct 09 06 03:05 am Link

Photographer

Brandon Zackery Imagery

Posts: 355

Charlotte, North Carolina, US

DigitalCMH wrote:

Dang, now I know why you're asking.  You've got some pent up frustration and you're needin' it.  Go hire an escort.

really? I ask because I get the offers from time to time. Always some young model flirting really hard and testing just how far she can go. I bet you never get that. Sorry to hear about that. Maybe you just arent handsome anymore. Maybe you never were...

Oct 09 06 03:11 am Link

Photographer

FMfoto

Posts: 1577

Los Angeles, California, US

Happens more in Chatsworth, CA. wink

Oct 09 06 03:23 am Link

Photographer

Merlinpix

Posts: 7118

Farmingdale, New York, US

This is like: in an office do some bosses ever screw there asssistants?
The law of averages say's yes it occurs. How often; well thats another story.
Me I'm Bisexual, I'm lucky to have sex twice a year.

Paul

Oct 10 06 01:51 am Link

Photographer

Lotus Photography

Posts: 19253

Berkeley, California, US

Merlinpix wrote:
Me I'm Bisexual, I'm lucky to have sex twice a year.

Paul

gud'n

Oct 10 06 01:53 am Link

Model

e-string

Posts: 24002

Kansas City, Missouri, US

gdsandy wrote:
It wasn't the guy I wanted you to hook me up with.

You didn't specify hooking up, nor did you even quote me so I could know what you were referring to. I thought you wanted to see who the sleazeball was.

And I'm not ratting out the model, as she has a boyfriend.

Oct 10 06 02:08 am Link

Photographer

27255

Posts: 975

San Diego, California, US

Aussie Guevara wrote:
Have faith, my friend, and your faith will become your reality.

Pat Thielen wrote:
What exactly are you saying...?

  wink

Aussie Guevara wrote:
He who looks too deeply into things gets cross-eyed. And looks silly.

If you get tired of modeling, you would be great at writing fortune cookies.

Oct 10 06 08:53 am Link

Photographer

27255

Posts: 975

San Diego, California, US

Experimental Photoworks wrote:
Sex happins everyplace that two or more people can fit in and move about a little.

If you can have sex in an airplaine bathroom why not a studio set?

Iona never fails to get straight to the point!

Oct 10 06 08:54 am Link

Photographer

Patrick Lebeda

Posts: 282

Mechelen, Antwerp, Belgium

bzckry foto wrote:
first or second meeting and BAM...it happens...right there in the studio or on location. This is a GWC's dream but what about advanced amatures and pro's? Does it happen to them? Enlighten me please.

I think it's private and everyone's own business if he/she has sex with a photographer/model.

P...

Oct 10 06 09:11 am Link

Photographer

Click Hamilton

Posts: 36555

San Diego, California, US

OK, now the truth:

Exactly last Wednesday, I was offered money AND sex in return for a photo shoot. It was from a girl who wanted to be my customer, not a model. She said she wanted to get aroused modeling nude for me, then take me orally on the set. After the photo session was over, she wanted me to take her aggressively for myself as part of my payment.

I guess that means she likes my portfolio. I've never met her before.

It was a sweet, honest and flattering offer. It's a nice fantasy to play out as well, and especially because I love all photo challenges.

Sadly, I have no interest in her in this regard.

Another time, another place, another person, ... perhaps,
...  but for now, no banana.

Oct 10 06 09:11 am Link

Model

Hacked Account

Posts: 492

Houston, Alaska, US

photomovement wrote:
Myth or Reality ? I say stupid unprofessional and unethical....

No sex with photographers ! What am I gonna do now? lol

Oct 10 06 09:55 am Link

Photographer

Christopher Hartman

Posts: 54196

Buena Park, California, US

Vegas Alien wrote:
If I answered this honestly, some people might have a bad image of me. So, no.

That means yes!!!  oooh, you're going to hell.

Oct 10 06 10:18 am Link

Photographer

Christopher Hartman

Posts: 54196

Buena Park, California, US

jennifer lockstedt wrote:

No sex with photographers ! What am I gonna do now? lol

smile ahem...excuse me miss...big_smile

Oct 10 06 10:19 am Link

Photographer

Christopher Hartman

Posts: 54196

Buena Park, California, US

bzckry foto wrote:
really? I ask because I get the offers from time to time. Always some young model flirting really hard and testing just how far she can go. I bet you never get that. Sorry to hear about that. Maybe you just arent handsome anymore. Maybe you never were...

You're right, I never do.  Or least, I never notice.  As for not being handsome...at least I know how to work my camera to get a good photo. wink

Oct 10 06 10:24 am Link

Photographer

House of DL

Posts: 523

Ottawa, Ontario, Canada

DigitalCMH wrote:

smile ahem...excuse me miss...big_smile

Stand in line, it starts behind me!!!!

Oct 10 06 10:25 am Link

Photographer

Frank McAdam

Posts: 2222

New York, New York, US

bzckry foto wrote:
first or second meeting and BAM...it happens...right there in the studio or on location. This is a GWC's dream but what about advanced amatures and pro's? Does it happen to them? Enlighten me please.

All you've accomplished in your OP is to let everyone on MM know where your true interests and aspirations lie.

Oct 10 06 10:26 am Link

Photographer

Christopher Hartman

Posts: 54196

Buena Park, California, US

Kristin Excell wrote:
Being forward, if you were comfy
with me, and you were being paid well for your photoshoot, are you able to bend
a little after the shoot like these other models are doing for me?

He didn't hide his intentions at all, did he? big_smile

Oct 10 06 10:27 am Link

Photographer

BCPrints

Posts: 340

Brookfield, Illinois, US

my mom said i couldn't have sex cause it will make you go stupid.
I beleieved her cause i had to look no farther than her.
Sex is over rated.. power eating is where its at!

Oct 10 06 10:31 am Link

Model

Hacked Account

Posts: 492

Houston, Alaska, US

BCPrints Com wrote:
my mom said i couldn't have sex cause it will make you go stupid.
I beleieved her cause i had to look no farther than her.
Sex is over rated.. power eating is where its at!

lol.....now thats funny!

Oct 10 06 10:33 am Link

Photographer

Christopher Hartman

Posts: 54196

Buena Park, California, US

Dan Howell wrote:

I didn't realize that the FBI got involved with local and state laws.  Not to doubt your story, but it doesn't sound like the kind of operation that the FBI would get involved with unless there were national implications.  If it is true, I can think of about a hundred more pressing national problems that the FBI should be devoting their (our) resources to.

The FBI wouldn't.  That would be for the local police and they typically work the streets.  nailing photographers that will accept sex instead of payment for a photoshoot is not going to do much for cleaning up the streets.

Oct 10 06 10:33 am Link

Model

Brandy_Lynn

Posts: 121

Lexington, Kentucky, US

This thread is halarious.. I've often thought what if this photographer is really sexy and we connect.. and I just have to take my clothes off.. and one thing leads to another.. LMAO. Well, please God if that happens, let him not be a jerkoff announcing it on MM. smile

Seriously, you know hook ups happen, it's like any other working atmosphere. I like to believe most men are gentleman, and only go there if she is also flirting/sending signals to him. Two adults, ya know.

WHAT HAPPENS AT THE SHOOT STAYS AT THE SHOOT!! LOL

Oct 10 06 10:42 am Link

Photographer

Christopher Hartman

Posts: 54196

Buena Park, California, US

Jack Checkowy wrote:

Stand in line, it starts behind me!!!!

Eeew, I ain't standin' behind a man. wink

Oct 10 06 10:47 am Link

Photographer

Christopher Hartman

Posts: 54196

Buena Park, California, US

Brandy Love wrote:
WHAT HAPPENS AT THE SHOOT STAYS AT THE SHOOT!! LOL

Unless there's photos...no matter what you do, they'll leak out one way or another. wink

Oct 10 06 10:48 am Link

Photographer

LWF

Posts: 345

Bellingham, Washington, US

Lol, I definately take the 5th.....

Oct 10 06 10:49 am Link

Model

Brandy_Lynn

Posts: 121

Lexington, Kentucky, US

DigitalCMH wrote:

Unless there's photos...no matter what you do, they'll leak out one way or another. wink

LOL... true, that's why I would only do nudes if he was my boyfriend.. someone I completely trusted.

Oct 10 06 10:53 am Link

Photographer

Christopher Hartman

Posts: 54196

Buena Park, California, US

Brandy Love wrote:

LOL... true, that's why I would only do nudes if he was my boyfriend.. someone I completely trusted.

I'm single big_smile

Oct 10 06 11:12 am Link

Photographer

SLE Photography

Posts: 68937

Orlando, Florida, US

Christopher Ambler wrote:
My lawyer advises me that I do not remember. :-)

Seriously, though, I've had two propositions in the past ten years, both of which I politely turned-down.

That's such a lie
you have sex with one of your models all the time
I think you even got her pregnant
Her name's like Carlise or something...

wink

Oct 10 06 11:52 am Link

Photographer

Trevor Borchelt

Posts: 126

Bechtelsville, Pennsylvania, US

The eye contact the suggestive posing.  If I am not mistaken that has the ingredients for a hookup.

I shoot weddings and the occasional bridesmaid/ tipsy, has gotten fresh.  But that is not going to happen.  With a woman at home, there is no need to pick up another.  One is enough trouble.  Sorry to break up the heat of the thread, I love her and would not ever want to hurt her that way.

Two single pros... why not.  After the work is done.

Oct 10 06 12:13 pm Link

Photographer

photographybyStavros

Posts: 5402

Bainbridge Island, Washington, US

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Oct 12 06 01:53 am Link