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I have worked with over 8 photographers last year alone and the common dialogue was which models they have screwed or they wish to have sex with. Is this that common in the industry? Feb 03 06 03:13 am Link Sex? What is this sex you speak of? Feb 03 06 03:34 am Link Sleeping with the models. Feb 03 06 03:44 am Link Why would I want to sleep with a model? I mean, they snore, right? Feb 03 06 03:45 am Link Can you say, "Hot Potato!!!"??? JAY carreon PHOTOGRAPHER Feb 03 06 03:45 am Link Its common but not encouraged. If both parties are attracted to one another people are still people aside from the working relationship. Now, take those attracted two people and have one of them removing clothing and the other one making them feel special with tons of awesome comments and compliments. Do the math. Feb 03 06 03:46 am Link yet another new thread of a tired theme...this has been discussed at least three times that I'm aware of and prolly a few other times that I'm not aware of. It happens now and then the vast majority of the time it is totally consentual No force on Earth can stop it sometimes it leads to goodness and mutual wonderfulness and sometimes it leads to badness and mutual pissyness just like in any other activity where boys and girls interact Feb 03 06 04:19 am Link vanscottie wrote: Oh Baby Oh baby Feb 03 06 04:35 am Link nature at its finest.....isnt that why people become photographers....lol...joking Feb 03 06 04:39 am Link Struggle Dezign Co wrote: I also noticed that common dialogue in the financial services industry. And in the cutlery sales industry. And in the unemployment industry. Feb 03 06 04:47 am Link Brian Diaz wrote: I guess then that its just men being men, right?! Feb 03 06 04:50 am Link What about the make-up girl, and the photographer's assistant? Can they join in as well? Feb 03 06 04:54 am Link Any models with any opinions? Thus far its a photographers world. Models speak up!? Feb 03 06 05:10 am Link Struggle Dezign Co wrote: It's a certain type of men. Personally, I hate that kind of talk (and already hated it long before I got married and was still dating) Feb 03 06 06:26 am Link Struggle Dezign Co wrote: Oh, yeah I am waiting for some female model to chime in..."Oh yeah, I banged the photgrapher right on top of his Mac."....LOL.. Feb 03 06 06:44 am Link Jamais! Keynmol! Nyet! No wonder my gender has such a bad rep. and women are so distrustful. Too bad I'm not an XX rather than an XY. Once you stop seeing the models you work with as artistic partners-in-crime, but as potential lovers, you've muddied the waters, possibly forever. Feb 03 06 06:51 am Link This is what gets the GWC's to place their bids on eBay for that used DSLR Feb 03 06 06:57 am Link it all depends on this thing called scruples... Feb 03 06 07:10 am Link Struggle Dezign Co wrote: Not all photographers are rude and unprofessional. No it is far from common in the industry. Feb 03 06 07:10 am Link as of this post 20 replies from men...0 from women...i guess women kiss but dont tell. Feb 03 06 07:26 am Link I have only slept with one lady I've ever photographed. We've been married almost 4 years now. ![]() Feb 03 06 07:37 am Link Well... how else is a photographer supposed to capture a "I just finished having sex" look to his photographs if that is the look he is going for? A good photographer should go to any extremes or sacrifice to capture that moment, no? Feb 03 06 07:48 am Link Struggle Dezign Co wrote: NO different than when guys go out and chat it up with their friends about the same stuff. Feb 03 06 07:57 am Link Sunil Joshi wrote: Spoken like a true guy......that's too funny, dude. And what's funnier is....I think you might be serious. Feb 03 06 07:58 am Link DawnElizabeth Moderator wrote: Spoken like a true guy......that's too funny, dude. And what's funnier is....I think you might be serious. Well, forgive me for trying to attain similar looks to many of your own pictures in your portfolio! Now a look like that comes with a lot of practice! Yes, Dawn, I was only kidding... Feb 03 06 08:13 am Link In my opinion fantasizing about the model may lead to a more creative photo shoot. Acting out that fantasy could lead to disaster. Feb 03 06 08:22 am Link Vance wrote: Well I am not a female model but I am a female photographer and I for one consider this to be a job and that behavior should not be tolerated...if I were to come across someone like that when I am meeting new photographers I can tell you that they would definatley not be a photographer that I would converse or work with... Feb 03 06 08:28 am Link RED Photographic wrote: I know a few stylists assistants and photographers assistants who have gotten in on the action...lol Feb 03 06 08:31 am Link Jordan May wrote: M + F = Hot Sex = Baby 9 months later ?? LOL Feb 03 06 09:14 am Link DanPhoto wrote: try using a rubber or pulling out.... Feb 03 06 09:22 am Link I've heard models yammer about what photographers they'd like to bang. Unfortunately my name was not in the discussion, but that's probably because they knew I was listening though the bathroom walls ![]() Feb 03 06 09:23 am Link i wish i were better looking so i could have a story to tell.... Feb 03 06 09:30 am Link The Don Mon wrote: pulling out doesnt work!...had a sex education lesson today about it Feb 03 06 10:18 am Link Sex with a model..I'm open. Honestly, it's been so long for me: a friend asked if I was 'getting any on the side?'. I wasn't even aware it had been moved! Paul Feb 03 06 10:37 am Link I find that being really rich and incredibly handsome helps a lot in seducing models. Since I'm neither, I don't worry about it much. Feb 03 06 10:44 am Link x-leila-x wrote: you mean all those pornos are lying to me? Feb 03 06 10:45 am Link These threads come up all too often. It is hard to distinguish the fantasies, from the realities from simple inappropriate conduct. Yes, there are plenty of photographers (and some models) who act inappropriately. It is the perception of the industry by the outside world which will determine the amount of acceptance we have. As long as that perception of the Internet is negative, threads like this will just continue to feed the fire. Feb 03 06 10:49 am Link I personally have never had a photographer that I was attracted to in any way so it would never cross my mind to do such a thing...even if they were interested (which to my knowledge none have been yet)... No a male photographers, male assistant thats a different story entirely! LOL (JK, I would think about it if he asked though, LOL) Feb 03 06 10:57 am Link I really find these subjects funny, I am not in the industry and I think it is clear where the boundaries are without the subject being so strung out. We know folks get down in all sorts of situations. If you don't want the drama, have another person at the shoot, it makes things a little more appropriate unless that extra person is a freak, lol. But honestly my girlfriend is a make up artist, and it was clear the reactions received could be troublesome during shoots, and having her there has made for simple reactions, just don't set yourself up for trouble. I want a career not some ass. Easy decision is it not?? Feb 03 06 10:57 am Link Struggle Dezign Co wrote: I certainly hope your kidding, how utterly unprofessional and disrespectful towards the industry. Feb 03 06 11:01 am Link |