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BF thinks my pregnancy shots are "porn" HELP!!!???
Erin-Lynn wrote: Erin-Lynn wrote: Earlier you stated that he didn't know what kind, so I was going on that. Feb 04 06 03:11 am Link Erin-Lynn wrote: I think if you're wanting to respect him, as well as show off your pregnancy to the world, do it clothed. Keep the nudes to look at in private. Feb 04 06 03:14 am Link Melvin Moten Jr wrote: Once again Mel, you have my utmost appreciation for pointing out the blantantly obvious Feb 04 06 03:17 am Link What a crock, next thing he will say is the sonagram is also porn. You are quite beautiful in your images, there is nothing degrading or demoralizing about your beautiful pregnant body. Your baby is in there, growing inside you and your body is showing the beautiful transformation it takes on for this to happen. Be proud of it. Feb 04 06 03:28 am Link There is absolutely nothing pornographic about your pregnant pics ,,,most of them are very sensitive and beautiful. Rigid people like you BF are a pain--- alas there are too many uptight people like him. I spent a few months on the Cote d' Azur in the south of France. Nudity on the beaches is EVERYWHERE and nobody raises a puritanical eyebrow. Lets face it the human body is a beautiful object and the added curves your pregnancy have added to make it even more beautiful. Tell your BF to go suck on a pacifier ( I am being polite)). Actually, I have just been approached by a model 3 months pregnant and I was seeking ideas for a shoot on this subject today. Mike P. Feb 04 06 03:42 am Link This is all a bunch of crap... my wife is pregnant... if she was to want to shoot pregnant pictures, I'd go with her or shut the hell up.... Sounds to me like there is a communication issue here... communication before the pictures would be the essential key here... are you out to please this forum of mostly men that love to enjoy the pleasure of female aestetics? Or are you out to please your man who you chose to carry a child by? I'm not saying nude modeling while pregnant is bad, I'm just saying that there is a certain amount of communication necessary here.... C'mon now guys, cut the crap here... we all wanna see some booty and chests once and a while, but real is real... She needs to OK flashing her nude body with her man, then proceed... perhaps you should be having a conversation with you man instead of running to a bunch of BIASED photographers... Don't hate me cuz I'm honest... Feb 04 06 03:50 am Link Dumas Photography wrote: That's what I've been trying to get across and I agree. Feb 04 06 04:19 am Link Take the pictures! They are something you'll always cherish. I only regret I don't have any pictures like that of me during any of my pregnancies. Pregnant women are beautiful, not disgusting.. Feb 04 06 04:53 am Link Those aren't porn. Feb 04 06 06:22 am Link Spanish Eyes wrote: Here, here. Couldn't have said it better myself. Feb 04 06 06:40 am Link Tomi Images wrote: easier said than done Feb 04 06 01:04 pm Link Erin-Lynn wrote: Lose the boyfriend. Keep the kid. Feb 04 06 01:09 pm Link Dave Krueger wrote: Easy for you to say... Feb 04 06 01:12 pm Link Well him and i have talked, he's much more understanding now and i made him read this whole thread...he hated that  He understands this a little bit more and relizes this is what i want to do and its makes me happy, so he said do it. Just let me know when. So that has been settled it seems, and he also now wants to join me for a shoot(he didnt want to beofre) so im excited to see if that hapens Wish me luck everyone and thanks to all teh ppl who posted in here.Feb 04 06 01:14 pm Link Erin-Lynn wrote: yep exactly easier said than done Feb 04 06 01:15 pm Link Melvin Moten Jr wrote: I disagree. Firstly, I didn't say the photo wasn't sexual - I said it wasn't porn. Even if the photos WERE sexual (which I don't think they are), that doesn't make it sexually suggestive. There is no ACT of sex occuring in the photo, nor position to indicate it - thereby, it is not porn. Feb 05 06 01:32 pm Link The pregnant woman goes through all sort of changes body wise during the near ten months. Some of them good ,some of them bleeding awful truth be told. However what is important is how she feels about herself... I know that I had my preggy shots done because after hell with hyperemisis and other stuff I wont go into I felt more attractive and happy with myself and my shape than I ever had previously,I gained boobs for a start . Having the pics done was a way to keep that good memory,To show the beauty in the pregnancy that otherwise I may have forgotten,lost under the varicose veins/heartburn/insomnia/nausea and other nasties that come with it. So that I could look back and see the good part that otherwise I KNOW I would forget.. having my other girls had shown me that all I really remembered(apart from the first movements and the kicks obviously) were the uncomfortable memories and then the birth. My husband was a little strange about my choice at first but he loves the shots now so perhaps it just needs time for him to get used to it? Its possible that the mix of mommy to be and oncoming role with the fact that naked often to most people means sexy or sexual and everyone knows moms dont have sex is to weird for him to get his head round as of yet. Your photos are beautiful and they will be a wonderful memory for you in years to come. Feb 05 06 04:19 pm Link |
