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Erin-Lynn Lavallee

Posts: 18

Hamilton, Ontario, Canada

Why is it that alot of models think its hot to be like 100 pounds and 5'8?
Honestly i think it look kinda ewww when you see ribs. I'm not jelous just want to know what people see in women this skinny.

Oct 13 06 08:19 pm Link

Photographer

former_mm_user

Posts: 5521

New York, New York, US

i prefer 5'10"+

but seriously, this has been covered a zillion times - samples are made to fit that body type, they're easy to see from the runway, etc.

Oct 13 06 08:23 pm Link

Model

Ashley Haven Nudes

Posts: 2442

Queen Creek, Arizona, US

Many models don't think its "hot"... that's just the way their body was made, and how their metabolism works. I've been 5'9" and 115lbs since i was 16, and no matter what i eat or how i work out, I stay the same.

I'm comfortable with myself. Period. It's not about thinking it's hot.

Oct 13 06 08:25 pm Link

Photographer

Fotticelli

Posts: 12252

Rockville, Maryland, US

Hey, I would go back to my 145 lb at 6'2" any time.

Oct 13 06 08:25 pm Link

Model

123455534343

Posts: 9488

Arthur's Town, Cat Island, Bahamas

A lot of us don't choose to be this skinny. It just happened that way, genes, metabolism, etc.

Oct 13 06 08:25 pm Link

Model

Ashley Haven Nudes

Posts: 2442

Queen Creek, Arizona, US

Rena wrote:
A lot of us don't choose to be this skinny. It just happened that way, genes, metabolism, etc.

Exactly

Oct 13 06 08:26 pm Link

Model

Erin-Lynn Lavallee

Posts: 18

Hamilton, Ontario, Canada

I guess i have explained that wrong. What i meant was, why do so many othe rpeople find it "hot". I know models are made that way, i used to be 5'7 and 80 pounds about 3 months before i gto pregnant.  I am glad i gained weight, fianlly. I just want to know why women my size have more trouble just because were"thick".

Oct 13 06 08:27 pm Link

Model

LORA

Posts: 5067

Washington, District of Columbia, US

Some people find it attractive and some don't. It's just a preference. I don't understand what you're really asking.

Oct 13 06 08:29 pm Link

Model

Erin-Lynn Lavallee

Posts: 18

Hamilton, Ontario, Canada

Lora wrote:
Some people find it attractive and some don't. It's just a preference. I don't understand what you're really asking.

I just want to know why women my size have more trouble just because were"thick".

Oct 13 06 08:30 pm Link

Photographer

Fotticelli

Posts: 12252

Rockville, Maryland, US

Rena wrote:
A lot of us don't choose to be this skinny. It just happened that way, genes, metabolism, etc.

See but that's different. Apparently some people think it's OK to tell a skinny person that they are too thin but for some reason it's not OK to tell a fat person that they are too fat.

Can you imagine someone posting a thread saying "What's up with those fat bitches, do they think that those rolls of fat are sexy?"

It's just ignorance. It pisses me off because I was at one time told a milion times that I should eat more and now my daughter, who by the way inherited my genes, is going through the same.

Oct 13 06 08:30 pm Link

Model

Ashley Haven Nudes

Posts: 2442

Queen Creek, Arizona, US

Like christopher said...

As far as runway goes, the clothes only (usually) fit that body type (tall, and thin). I guess it depends on what market you're trying to get into.

Oct 13 06 08:31 pm Link

Model

LORA

Posts: 5067

Washington, District of Columbia, US

Erin-Lynn Lavallee wrote:

I just want to know why women my size have more trouble just because were"thick".

More trouble with what??

Oct 13 06 08:31 pm Link

Model

Erin-Lynn Lavallee

Posts: 18

Hamilton, Ontario, Canada

i suppose i guess i just think that more "thick" women need to get ou there too. Dont get me wrong Skinny is still hot, but women need to be proud of what they have, fat or not.

I know i have a nice face, just hope someone is looking for my body type as well i guess

Oct 13 06 08:33 pm Link

Photographer

former_mm_user

Posts: 5521

New York, New York, US

Fotticelli wrote:
It's just ignorance. It pisses me off because I was at one time told a milion times that I should eat more and now my daughter, who by the way inherited my genes, is going through the same.

yep - that shit is irritating.  i used to have some serious skinny guy rage.  i mean, i'm still pretty thin, but i used to be REALLY thin (like, size 28 waist at age 25, 6ft tall).  i ate like a pig.  i'm about a 32 now...

Oct 13 06 08:33 pm Link

Model

SavannahB

Posts: 8

Charlottetown, Prince Edward Island, Canada

Fotticelli wrote:

See but that's different. Apparently some people think it's OK to tell a skinny person that they are too thin but for some reason it's not OK to tell a fat person that they are too fat.

Can you imagine someone posting a thread saying "What's up with those fat bitches, do they think that those rolls of fat are sexy?"

It's just ignorance. It pisses me off because I was at one time told a milion times that I should eat more and now my daughter, who by the way inherited my genes, is going through the same.

Kudos.

Oct 13 06 08:33 pm Link

Model

Erin-Lynn Lavallee

Posts: 18

Hamilton, Ontario, Canada

Lora wrote:

More trouble with what??

MODELING

Oct 13 06 08:33 pm Link

Photographer

Fotticelli

Posts: 12252

Rockville, Maryland, US

Lora wrote:
More trouble with what??

Oh, hello Lora!!! >:-<

Edit: Never mind, I just saw it.

Oct 13 06 08:34 pm Link

Model

LORA

Posts: 5067

Washington, District of Columbia, US

Erin-Lynn Lavallee wrote:
i suppose i guess i just think that more "thick" women need to get ou there too. Dont get me wrong Skinny is still hot, but women need to be proud of what they have, fat or not.

I know i have a nice face, just hope someone is looking for my body type as well i guess

You first ask why people find it "hot"... then you wonder why thicker girls have it so hard as models. You're back and forth here. Skinny girls are runway models because that is the body type preferred for the clothing. Not because people find it hot.

Then you say women should be proud but you are the one who can't figure out why anyone would find skinny girls "hot".

Oct 13 06 08:36 pm Link

Model

123455534343

Posts: 9488

Arthur's Town, Cat Island, Bahamas

Fotticelli wrote:
It's just ignorance. It pisses me off because I was at one time told a milion times that I should eat more and now my daughter, who by the way inherited my genes, is going through the same.

I know what you mean...both my sister and I inherited the skinny gene and we both got tons of crap for it growing up.

Oct 13 06 08:58 pm Link

Photographer

La Seine by the Hudson

Posts: 8587

New York, New York, US

Funny how people have insisted on making this non-issue an issue.

(And for fashion work, which is my primary metier, I shoot tall, skinny girls with a basically fashion editorial look. I hope this doesn't offend, but if it does, um, sorry...)

As usual, misinformation and misconceptions about the whys and hows of this abounds.

Oct 13 06 09:01 pm Link

Model

Iona Lynn

Posts: 11176

Oakland, California, US

Welcome back to MM.

What have you done differently than the last time you posted several months ago you could not get work modeling?

What changed in your local market that makes it easer for you to get modeling work?

I'd guess nada...

If you really want to get work as a model you need to stop whining and take a good hard look at who are the successful models on MM.

You still have snapshots up, you still have images that have your children in your portfolio, you are still losing the baby weight, you are still over 20, you are still under 5’9”, You still have piercing & scars, you still don’t work nude….

What have you done to market yourself?
Have you?
Answered any casting calls?
Posted any casting calls?
Contacted photographers for TFP?
Done any networking at all?

Oct 13 06 09:03 pm Link

Photographer

A Traveler

Posts: 5506

San Francisco, California, US

Erin-Lynn Lavallee wrote:
i suppose i guess i just think that more "thick" women need to get ou there too. Dont get me wrong Skinny is still hot, but women need to be proud of what they have, fat or not.

I know i have a nice face, just hope someone is looking for my body type as well i guess

well... the point of modeling is not to be a self esteem booster for girls and boys who are "thick" so they can feel proud of themselves

Oct 13 06 09:04 pm Link

Model

Ashley Haven Nudes

Posts: 2442

Queen Creek, Arizona, US

Couture Imagery wrote:
well... the point of modeling is not to be a self esteem booster for girls and boys who are "thick" so they can feel proud of themselves

LMAO... omg i think i love you.

Oct 13 06 09:06 pm Link

Photographer

A Traveler

Posts: 5506

San Francisco, California, US

Couture Imagery wrote:
well... the point of modeling is not to be a self esteem booster for girls and boys who are "thick" so they can feel proud of themselves

oh wait...
my bad....

that IS the point of internet modeling.

o_O

Oct 13 06 09:06 pm Link

Photographer

udor

Posts: 25255

New York, New York, US

Erin-Lynn Lavallee wrote:
Why is it that alot of models think its hot to be like 100 pounds and 5'8?
Honestly i think it look kinda ewww when you see ribs. I'm not jelous just want to know what people see in women this skinny.

WHO???

Seriously, who thinks like that?

As strange as it may sound, I am not even checking your profile, but this post of yours gives me the (prejudiced!) impression that you are a model with a fuller figure (weight problems?) who is seeking approval for her size and over-exaggerates her negative idea of slender models.

Is this one of those skinny-models-bashing-threads?

I am sorry, I had a long day, and may have been unfair and judgemental... maybe just mental... but I don't feel like sugarcoating right now.

Accept yourself as what you are and find the market that is looking for your size!

Check my advise thread on "Research" at https://www.modelmayhem.com/posts.php?thread_id=76842

Oct 13 06 09:10 pm Link

Model

Shyly

Posts: 3870

Pasadena, California, US

Couture Imagery wrote:
well... the point of modeling is not to be a self esteem booster for girls and boys who are "thick" so they can feel proud of themselves

Well, it's been really good for my self-esteem.  Don't get me wrong, I'm not an egomaniac or anything.

Yet.

Oct 13 06 09:10 pm Link

Model

Shyly

Posts: 3870

Pasadena, California, US

Erin-Lynn Lavallee wrote:
Why is it that alot of models think its hot to be like 100 pounds and 5'8?
Honestly i think it look kinda ewww when you see ribs. I'm not jelous just want to know what people see in women this skinny.

I'm hoping you'll hear me, because I have significantly more girth than you do, and if anyone on this website knows what it's like to model when you're atypical, I do. 

Here's the thing: it's really uncool to start a thread using words like "ewww" to talk about a large segment of the community you're trying to be a part of.  Someone did it awhile ago on a thread bashing fat models, and it was really hurtful.  Can you see how the same kind of speech about slender models is equally hurtful to them? 

I really wish we could talk about size acceptance without resorting to negativity about those with different body types.  sad

Oct 13 06 09:12 pm Link

Photographer

A Traveler

Posts: 5506

San Francisco, California, US

Shyly wrote:

Well, it's been really good for my self-esteem.  Don't get me wrong, I'm not an egomaniac or anything.

Yet.

and you kickass at what you do, but i'll venture a guess to say you didn't become a model to feel good about yourself. I'd have to say you felt good about yourself already and became a model. correct me if i'm wrong...

that's the way it should be.

Oct 13 06 09:13 pm Link

Model

Antonina

Posts: 83

Atlanta, Georgia, US

Ashley_Haven wrote:
Many models don't think its "hot"... that's just the way their body was made, and how their metabolism works. I've been 5'9" and 115lbs since i was 16, and no matter what i eat or how i work out, I stay the same.

I'm comfortable with myself. Period. It's not about thinking it's hot.

same here, my body is just that way, i don't follow any diets or over-excersice just so i stay in this shape- i've been like that for a while, and I think it will always be like this- which i'm happy with

Oct 13 06 09:15 pm Link

Photographer

picturephoto

Posts: 8687

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Erin-Lynn Lavallee wrote:
Why is it that alot of models think its hot to be like 100 pounds and 5'8?
Honestly i think it look kinda ewww when you see ribs. I'm not jelous just want to know what people see in women this skinny.

What I see in a skinny fashion model is someone that a fashion client may want to book to sell a fashion magazine or a designer's fall collection.  I see in an average-sized model with great teeth someone that a commercial client will want to sell toothpaste on tv.  I see in a model with big boobs and lots of curves someone that Maxim magazine may want to book.  A person's personal taste has no bearing in a forum on the fashion industry.

Oct 13 06 09:16 pm Link

Model

LORA

Posts: 5067

Washington, District of Columbia, US

Shyly wrote:

I'm hoping you'll hear me, because I have significantly more girth than you do, and if anyone on this website knows what it's like to model when you're atypical, I do. 

Here's the thing: it's really uncool to start a thread using words like "ewww" to talk about a large segment of the community you're trying to be a part of.  Someone did it awhile ago on a thread bashing fat models, and it was really hurtful.  Can you see how the same kind of speech about slender models is equally hurtful to them? 

I really wish we could talk about size acceptance without resorting to negativity about those with different body types.  sad

Well said!

Oct 13 06 09:16 pm Link

Photographer

udor

Posts: 25255

New York, New York, US

Erin-Lynn Lavallee wrote:
Why is it that alot of models think its hot to be like 100 pounds and 5'8?
Honestly i think it look kinda ewww when you see ribs. I'm not jelous just want to know what people see in women this skinny.

Shyly wrote:
I'm hoping you'll hear me, because I have significantly more girth than you do, and if anyone on this website knows what it's like to model when you're atypical, I do. 

Here's the thing: it's really uncool to start a thread using words like "ewww" to talk about a large segment of the community you're trying to be a part of.  Someone did it awhile ago on a thread bashing fat models, and it was really hurtful.  Can you see how the same kind of speech about slender models is equally hurtful to them? 

I really wish we could talk about size acceptance without resorting to negativity about those with different body types.  sad

Although, Shyly is sometimes thinking I have alterior motifs, I recommend that you have a private email exchange with her. You do have some issues, and I think that there is no-one better suited to give you advise than her!

Oct 13 06 09:17 pm Link

Photographer

D. Brian Nelson

Posts: 5477

Rapid City, South Dakota, US

... gotta love 'em.

-D

Oct 13 06 11:24 pm Link

Photographer

Ransomaniac

Posts: 12588

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

Christopher Bush wrote:

yep - that shit is irritating.  i used to have some serious skinny guy rage.  i mean, i'm still pretty thin, but i used to be REALLY thin (like, size 28 waist at age 25, 6ft tall).  i ate like a pig.  i'm about a 32 now...

Yup.  It is irritating as hell.

I'm 6'3" and have a 29" waist.

It really bothers me when i see these threads.  People always seem to think it's ok to say it's gross or disgusting for a model to be too thin, yet if there was a thread bashing fat models, the local thread police would be on it like white on rice.

Oct 13 06 11:31 pm Link

Photographer

Visions Photography

Posts: 352

Corona, California, US

Erin-Lynn Lavallee wrote:
Why is it that alot of models think its hot to be like 100 pounds and 5'8?
Honestly i think it look kinda ewww when you see ribs. I'm not jelous just want to know what people see in women this skinny.

Personally I LOVE ribs, and the shadows they create, especially when the model is stretching. In fact Lora (who posted above) has a beautiful shot like this, hanging from a fire escape. Love it!

Oct 13 06 11:34 pm Link

Model

LORA

Posts: 5067

Washington, District of Columbia, US

Visions Photography CA wrote:
Personally I LOVE ribs, and the shadows they create, especially when the model is stretching. In fact Lora (who posted above) has a beautiful shot like this, hanging from a fire escape. Love it!

Thank you so much! I'm very proud of that shot (and the ribs that helped make it)!

smile

edit: i'm actually hanging inside of an abandoned silo!

Oct 13 06 11:37 pm Link

Photographer

Gold Rush Studio

Posts: 384

Sacramento, California, US

Funny, now that I'm getting gigs for catalogue shoots that are requesting fuller size models I'm having a hard time finding models with a little meat on them who don't look hideous. Yes, hideous is the word I'm using here. I see attractive fuller size women all the time but when I do a casting call what I get are women who have some sort of axe to grind at the industry who really aren't that attractive to begin with and then you add their awful personality and....well... I'd rather slit my own throat before working with them. Then there's the rolls of fat, the piercings, the gross tattoos that are near impossible to cover up - a requirement for the Asian market I work with - and then the personalities.

Bear in mind that I've HIRED these 'models' to work with and, save but for one, they've uniformly had severe problems that interfered with or required the cancellation of a shoot. Jobs are hard enough for ME to come by without having to mess with some self-proclaimed diva screwing up an expensive location shoot.

There, you wanted to rant and you did. Now you know what it's like on my side of the camera.

Oct 13 06 11:51 pm Link

Oct 14 06 12:11 am Link

Photographer

Jack D Trute

Posts: 4558

New York, New York, US

Shyly wrote:

I'm hoping you'll hear me, because I have significantly more girth than you do, and if anyone on this website knows what it's like to model when you're atypical, I do. 

Here's the thing: it's really uncool to start a thread using words like "ewww" to talk about a large segment of the community you're trying to be a part of.  Someone did it awhile ago on a thread bashing fat models, and it was really hurtful.  Can you see how the same kind of speech about slender models is equally hurtful to them? 

I really wish we could talk about size acceptance without resorting to negativity about those with different body types.  sad

oohhhhh,  look, look, look,
Do you see it?

Do you?

See this is a poster WITH a brain and she uses it.
Come on, it is not that hard is it.

The rest of you can continue to pick up my poop.

Oct 14 06 12:20 am Link

Model

RDawkins

Posts: 4532

Breckenridge, Colorado, US

Ford has an excellent plus size division. It's not about the size (except for height, you can't get around that one...unless it's the petite division, and that's 5'6" to 5'8" and you can't be a petite AND plus), it's about the presentation of the size.

The high (or higher, meaning reputable and not some porno-incarnation) fashion industry wants a clean canvas to work with. Piercings, tattoos, poor skin, scars, all of these lessen your chances of getting professional work.

Oct 14 06 12:23 am Link