Forums > General Industry > critique at risk of death threat?

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oldguysrule

Posts: 6129

i get lots of 'hate' mail from the humorless who find my comments in the forums distasteful, but i had yet to get death threats until i posted an honest critique. i don't take the threat seriously, but that does pretty much say what it is that people want out of a critique... the kind of bullshit they've grown used to at sites like this.

Sep 04 06 09:54 pm Link

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rickOPIOLA

Posts: 415

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

oldguysrule wrote:
i get lots of 'hate' mail from the humorless who find my comments in the forums distasteful, but i had yet to get death threats until i posted an honest critique. i don't take the threat seriously, but that does pretty much say what it is that people want out of a critique... the kind of bullshit they've grown used to at sites like this.

hate mail for comments and critiques is hitting pretty low already... but death threats?
can someone actually be that afraid of the truth? to stoop so low? even if they don't really mean it...

i would welcome an honest critique from someone like yourself...
but i warn you, if it's too harsh and not all flowery and full of praise and oohs and aahs then i may just have to resort to downloading a copy of your avatar, drawing a set of horns on it and emailing it back to you... ;-)

Sep 04 06 10:08 pm Link

Photographer

oldguysrule

Posts: 6129

hehe i'd enjoy that

Sep 04 06 10:11 pm Link

Photographer

Tog

Posts: 55204

Birmingham, Alabama, US

Really?  Wow..

Never had anything close to that..

Sep 04 06 10:14 pm Link

Model

Mz Machina

Posts: 1754

Chicago, Illinois, US

Yes , hate mail is a pretty far stoop below human level , but a death threat is pretty ignorant...what a drag ... but you have written evidence of a threat ... should it get that far.Or was it verbal...

"hi please look at my stuff and tell me i am great or else " sounds like a pretty weak individual.

Sep 04 06 10:15 pm Link

Digital Artist

Koray

Posts: 6720

Ankara, Ankara, Turkey

forward that threat and all the info about that person(s) to all your friends and family so incase smtg happens you make sure they cant get away tongue

but let me first check my sent messages folder to make sure thats not me big_smile

Sep 04 06 10:18 pm Link

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rickOPIOLA

Posts: 415

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

oldguysrule wrote:
hehe i'd enjoy that

well don't you think for a minute that i'm kidding here mr richard oldguysrule g.

i know who you are and i know where you live (nomad of the world, living out of a suitcase huh? nice try...)

you give me a nasty critique and that doctored avatar pic will be arriving in your email post haste...

aaah... but first could you.... aaah... please... like give me your email address? ;-)

have a good one...

Sep 04 06 10:24 pm Link

Photographer

oldguysrule

Posts: 6129

W.G. Rowland wrote:
Really?  Wow..

Never had anything close to that..

*snort... keep working on it, bill... hehe

Sep 04 06 10:42 pm Link

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Boho Hobo

Posts: 25351

Santa Barbara, California, US

Mr. G.  You can critique me anytime.   I know how much you love us artsy fartsy types.


Just remember though....insult my mother you end up in the chipper!





On second thought, give us the name of that lame ass and our pervert posse will hunt him down and treat him like the escort that he really is!

Sep 04 06 10:42 pm Link

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oldguysrule

Posts: 6129

Koray wrote:
but let me first check my sent messages folder to make sure thats not me big_smile

shhhhh i wasn't gonna say anything! geez

Sep 04 06 10:45 pm Link

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Year of the Dragon

Posts: 3418

San Francisco, California, US

You got to love those people to who ask for honest critiques ,  say don't worry about my feelings, and please be brutal,  then when you critique them honestly, they fall apart.

Owning a camera does not make you a photographer, even if its a real good camera.

I can look at a book and say in 5 seconds if this person has an eye or any potential, its so obvious.  You have to wonder wtf some people were thinking the day they got the notion they were a photographer.  There are a lot good photographers here and a lot learning who have potential and then there are the ones that will never see it, get it, or grow, and those are the artists that are beyond our realm of understanding in their own minds.  We simpletons are just not capable of understanding these masters of over exposure, poor lens choices,  total lack of composition and lighting,.....so it goes

Sep 04 06 10:45 pm Link

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Jessalyn

Posts: 21433

Denver, Colorado, US

people get too worked up over the forums. anyone who sends death threats needs to get a life!

Sep 04 06 10:50 pm Link

Digital Artist

Koray

Posts: 6720

Ankara, Ankara, Turkey

oldguysrule wrote:

shhhhh i wasn't gonna say anything! geez

my threat would be cause of envy not hate though big_smile

Sep 04 06 10:51 pm Link

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Brian Diaz

Posts: 65617

Danbury, Connecticut, US

We have a special banning stick for those who toss around threats.  They're frowned upon around here.

Just let us know:

https://www.modelmayhem.com/contactamod.php

Sep 04 06 10:56 pm Link

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aye provide

Posts: 1330

New York, New York, US

oldguysrule wrote:
i get lots of 'hate' mail from the humorless who find my comments in the forums distasteful, but i had yet to get death threats until i posted an honest critique. i don't take the threat seriously, but that does pretty much say what it is that people want out of a critique... the kind of bullshit they've grown used to at sites like this.

Wait for thr hate mail to arrive when you have neither given nor asked for a critque.

Sep 04 06 11:14 pm Link

Photographer

S

Posts: 21678

Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, US

Are you serious?  Good grief.  You can hide out with me, Rich.  *brow waggle*

Sep 04 06 11:15 pm Link

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Alyssa Richard

Posts: 65

Sacramento, California, US

oldguysrule wrote:
i get lots of 'hate' mail from the humorless who find my comments in the forums distasteful, but i had yet to get death threats until i posted an honest critique. i don't take the threat seriously, but that does pretty much say what it is that people want out of a critique... the kind of bullshit they've grown used to at sites like this.

i wouldn't mind an HONEST critique
...i won't threaten you or anything

haha smile

Sep 04 06 11:16 pm Link

Photographer

Satan Bug

Posts: 127

Hell, Nord-Trøndelag, Norway

Hey!  How about I critique you?  You won't take it personal, will ya?

Sep 04 06 11:18 pm Link

Model

Alyssa Richard

Posts: 65

Sacramento, California, US

Satan Bug wrote:
Hey!  How about I critique you?  You won't take it personal, will ya?

go for it
...i'm always up for some constructive criticism

Sep 04 06 11:22 pm Link

Wardrobe Stylist

stylist man

Posts: 34382

New York, New York, US

oldguysrule wrote:
i get lots of 'hate' mail from the humorless who find my comments in the forums distasteful, but i had yet to get death threats until i posted an honest critique. i don't take the threat seriously, but that does pretty much say what it is that people want out of a critique... the kind of bullshit they've grown used to at sites like this.

Become a mod,  I have had five rather serious death threats against me.

Funny thing is Three of them were from people who thought I banned them but someone else did.


But Threats are taken seriously by MM and maybe more so by me not just because of the ones I received here.

Word to the wise,  do a bit of research on whom you are threatening before you do.
Hint, hint,  you might just shut the fuck up if you did.

Mhana moderator.

Sep 04 06 11:23 pm Link

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Boho Hobo

Posts: 25351

Santa Barbara, California, US

I wonder though why I haven't received any hate mail for my part in the escort pate thread.

Maybe because I don't write prose like OGR does.

Sep 04 06 11:25 pm Link

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S

Posts: 21678

Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, US

KM von Seidl wrote:
I wonder though why I haven't received any hate mail for my part in the escort pate thread.

Maybe because I don't write prose like OGR does.

You're too cute for death threats.

Sep 04 06 11:26 pm Link

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Tog

Posts: 55204

Birmingham, Alabama, US

Weird.. If I ask for a critique these days it's along the lines of "does this do anything for you" or "does this get across a certain emotion"..  And I usually take into account the ports (which I hope represent the tastes) of the person responding..

I find it more valuable to harrass those who's work I like about how they do it.  But it's occasionally nice to know your tastes haven't completely left the planet..

Still, it boggles my mind the ones who ask for it, and then argue with it..  (And there's a lot of those.. And I'm betting just for irony's sake that burried in the critique forum somewhere is me doing the same..)

But I've never killed any critiquers that you know about.

Sep 04 06 11:27 pm Link

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S

Posts: 21678

Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, US

W.G. Rowland wrote:
Still, it boggles my mind the ones who ask for it, and then argue with it..

You gotta be emotionally ready for the critique forum, man.  It's a shark frenzy in there sometimes.  And, after all, in this case you are asking for it.  ("You" in a general sense, not "you" Bill specifically.)

I've found that if you have honest questions and are willing to entertain even the critiques that take the wind out of your sails, there's all kinds of opportunities to learn.

I heart constructive critiques.

Sep 04 06 11:31 pm Link

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Vance C McDaniel

Posts: 7609

Los Angeles, California, US

Awe shit..

Yeah, Im itchin to whoop me spome "Death Threat Ass"..Who it be? Where de' at? And where would you like the body disposed?

Sep 04 06 11:31 pm Link

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Tog

Posts: 55204

Birmingham, Alabama, US

Sita Mae Edwards wrote:

You gotta be emotionally ready for the critique forum, man.  It's a shark frenzy in there sometimes.  And, after all, in this case you are asking for it.  ("You" in a general sense, not "you" Bill specifically.)

I've found that if you have honest questions and are willing to entertain even the critiques that take the wind out of your sails, there's all kinds of opportunities to learn.

I heart constructive critiques.

I want to get back in there, but to be honest I haven't shot anything for a while..  And certain books and Chicagoan friends have filled my mind with such wonderous ideas that I'm all kerfluffled and flusterbated..

I'd like to set up a shoot with Shyly, but she's elusive.. And I won't lie.  I haven't gotten to meet her and figure out what the idea that fits both our tastes would be..  Maybe if you'd be willing to sit down with me at some point we might find the perfect idea to entice her.. smile

Sep 04 06 11:38 pm Link

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stylist man

Posts: 34382

New York, New York, US

KM von Seidl wrote:
I wonder though why I haven't received any hate mail for my part in the escort pate thread.

Maybe because I don't write prose like OGR does.

Damn my mail does not work again.

Sep 04 06 11:40 pm Link

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Iona Lynn

Posts: 11176

Oakland, California, US

ya know I'll be in SD soon maybe shyly iona and roland  can come up with something???

Pm me.

Sep 04 06 11:42 pm Link

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Boho Hobo

Posts: 25351

Santa Barbara, California, US

MHana wrote:

Damn my mail does not work again.

God and I would LOVE to get hate mail from you.   Just no linking to previous hate mails you've  sent!  wink

Sep 05 06 12:08 am Link

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Boho Hobo

Posts: 25351

Santa Barbara, California, US

Sita Mae Edwards wrote:

You're too cute for death threats.

Just wait until we're in the same part of the state!  You'll see how cute I am.

More like pensive and moody.

Sep 05 06 12:09 am Link

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oldguysrule

Posts: 6129

KM von Seidl wrote:

God and I would LOVE to get hate mail from you.   Just no linking to previous hate mails you've  sent!  wink

*snort now thats funny shit

Sep 05 06 12:20 am Link

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Joseph D Castleberry

Posts: 188

Chicago, Illinois, US

Alyssa Richard wrote:

i wouldn't mind an HONEST critique
...i won't threaten you or anything

haha smile

Nor would I !!!!!

Sep 05 06 12:24 am Link

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e-string

Posts: 24002

Kansas City, Missouri, US

What the hell? You seem pretty cool from what I've seen so far.

Sep 05 06 12:28 am Link

Photographer

SLE Photography

Posts: 68937

Orlando, Florida, US

I LOATHE the dearth of honest critique
I usually get NO comments or critiques, gratuitous gladhanding, or ugly assaults
No "Here are positive & negative points"
I've had one guy go thru my port & post "This f'ing sucks" on like half my shots, and that offended me but I never threatened anyone lol

Sep 05 06 12:36 am Link

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Josh Separzadeh

Posts: 116

Venice, California, US

death threats are an adults way of being a crybaby

Sep 05 06 12:38 am Link

Wardrobe Stylist

stylist man

Posts: 34382

New York, New York, US

KM von Seidl wrote:

God and I would LOVE to get hate mail from you.   Just no linking to previous hate mails you've  sent!  wink

Then where is the fun in that.
I just NEED to link

Sep 05 06 12:41 am Link

Model

Lapis

Posts: 8424

Chicago, Illinois, US

Where is Bob Randall when we need him?

Sep 05 06 12:49 am Link

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LeDeux Art

Posts: 50123

San Ramon, California, US

Lapis wrote:
Where is Bob Randall when we need him?

as long as we have lapis we are ok

Sep 05 06 01:32 am Link

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studio36uk

Posts: 22898

Tavai, Sigave, Wallis and Futuna

oldguysrule wrote:
i get lots of 'hate' mail from the humorless who find my comments in the forums distasteful, but i had yet to get death threats until i posted an honest critique. i don't take the threat seriously, but that does pretty much say what it is that people want out of a critique... the kind of bullshit they've grown used to at sites like this.

ROTFLMAO - you should see MY hate mail.

Studio36

Sep 05 06 02:40 am Link

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Pat Thielen

Posts: 16800

Hastings, Minnesota, US

I've never gotten hate mail... well, actually I did once so I sent it to the mods. I wasn't the only one this person sent hate mail to and they were eventually banned (but they're back now, just not posting anymore). And I've never received a death threat. That's the sort of thing I'd consider forwarding on to the FBI; it's not a cool thing to do.

  -P-

Sep 05 06 02:46 am Link