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sex between the lens ?
I think it's ok. I mean I am old enough to make up my own mind on what I want to do. I have slept with both models and photographer both male and female. It's just a one night/day stand. So what, happens in the bars every weekend. But this way at least you have one thing in common  Jun 25 06 09:52 am Link My Rules: Rule #1: Never shoot a person whom you'd like to f***. Rule #2: Never f*** a person whom you'd like to shoot. I've had models come on to me two times in the past. I don't work with either model anymore. Jun 25 06 10:03 am Link I'm with Katie on this one......... work is work, play is play. Plus, I havent found any model sooo damned blind that they would want to have sex with me. so I guess my self-righteous position on this is based on having never been approached. I doubt I would be willing to put the camera down until I had the shot I was going for anyway. Plus why would I want to ruin all my wonderful memories of when I was racing Formula cars and discovered the drivers suit was a babe magnet... now... THOSE were the days, but I digress. Jun 25 06 10:08 am Link Jeff Marsh wrote: Join the club, most of the guys on here couldn't get laid if they crawled up a chickens ass and waited their turn. Jun 25 06 03:35 pm Link It happens for sure, but the way I see it, it's like having sex with a co-worker. Typically not the best idea as it may hurt other work down the line. Models talk to each other and photographers do the same. Word will get around and it may hurt your reputation. Jun 25 06 04:31 pm Link jackfrost wrote: Unfortunately, it often leads to being listed on places like this: Jun 27 06 02:10 am Link Always ! Jun 27 06 02:15 am Link Should I or shouldn't I reply to this?  ) I think if they're both over 18 years old...there's nothing that should stop them. But of course....they should shoot first, since afterwards if there's something weird going on....the shoot is not going to be too great...But I would not advise any model to sleep with photographers....This is an industry where everyone knows everyone....and no one wants such reputation...We should all act like professionals....but if it does happen once, it's not the end of the world, and we are all people....But this site....has too many perverts with cameras on it...and too many are just looking for dates...so girlies, think twice before you break that line...You might always regret it!Jun 27 06 02:18 am Link Not on the first shoot  I feel safe, because I can't imagine a model getting interested in me. As a general rule, I'd suggest that it's a bad idea, but I consider sex between co-workers in any industry a bad idea - too big a risk. I understand the references to relationships that have worked, but I suspect there were quite a few modelling sessions before the relationship developed. Jun 27 06 02:27 am Link You're better off looking out for yourself if you want to make it professionally. No amount of lust is worth a big break Jun 27 06 02:55 am Link jackfrost wrote: I'd imagine for some, that's the point of being on MM! Jan 20 07 01:01 am Link D. Brian Nelson wrote: What he said. Jan 20 07 02:21 am Link LOL you think some young hot model wants your wrinkled old fat ass after you have spent enough time behind a lens and in a dark room to get good enough to be any good? LOL (rolling on the floor) Jan 20 07 02:31 am Link Im shackin up with a photographer as we speak.... We're actually about the head to bed.... So, I guess what I'm saying is no, there's nothing wrong with models and photographers having relations. Jan 20 07 04:06 am Link I've been knocking boots with the same model for over 26 years; so, it must be ok.  Bill http://www.pbase.com/slowpokebill Jan 20 07 09:49 am Link I'm still trying to figure out how to get "between the lens" let alone have sex there. Jan 20 07 10:36 am Link Generally speaking, it's not wise policy to have sex with employees, customers, tenants, models or photographers meeting on a professional basis. However, it's nice to take creative pictures of anyone you date, and post them here for the rest of us to enjoy. Jan 20 07 11:04 am Link von Seidl's zombie thread love strikes again Jan 20 07 11:11 am Link Ed Stevenson wrote: Does that mean that all the sex orgies that go on around here are stag parties? Jan 20 07 11:13 am Link jackfrost wrote: I think it has more to do with their frustrations in real life of not really getting any. hahahhahaa... Jan 20 07 11:19 am Link Is that what all the outrage about escorts? An escort service....I get it now... Jan 20 07 11:23 am Link Ed Stevenson wrote: Maybe it's because many of them do and if in saying "Sure!!!111oneoneone" in this thread, they would open themselves up to being referred to by "other" names. Just a thought. Jan 20 07 12:09 pm Link Ed Stevenson wrote: Click Hamilton wrote: Ouch... Jan 20 07 12:38 pm Link the relationship you pass up may be the "big break" lust being what it is, if it crops up during a shoot imo, one should explore it to it's fullest ... VISUALLY. mucking up that kind of energy with body fluids is such a waste, imo. if the tension is still there after bopping off to a restaurant, then revisit it in bed. and good luck, the world needs more/better love stories. kudos to the ladies who replied here. you are a credit to your sex. rich Aeon Elysian wrote: Jan 20 07 01:01 pm Link I find that it's always better to keep professional relationships professional, and personal relationships personal.... bad things can happen if you mix the two... besides.... if I slept with my models, I think word would get around... and then I'd have a million GWG's (guy's with guitars) knocking down my door. haha Jan 20 07 02:21 pm Link When I was starting out and a young single guy I tried to have sex with all the Models. Its natural for 17 year old boy. It was my motivation to find models and shoot with them. Today, I am older and wiser and married. Of coarse I fantasize about my models, that is the fuel to my art work, but I would never try to sleep with them now. Though muy wife loves it when I come home from a shoot all sexxed up! The important thing is to respect each other. Have fun and make great art. E Jan 20 07 02:28 pm Link |
