Cary K wrote:
Ewwwwwwwwwwwww!

Exactly.

Jaedyn wrote:
**IF THE PERSON IM TALKING ABOUT IS A MEMBER OF THIS SITE, THEN I WILL NOT RETRACT THIS POST.. AND YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF**

I recieved an email a while ago from a London based photographer, asking if I'd be interested in a Fetish shoot, sort of feet orientated.
Anyway, at the time I wasnt modeling - taking afew months off - so kindly refused and asked him to let me know if he was ever up in the North of England.

I woke up this fine sunny morning, made myself a coffee in my favourite pink mug, and sat down to read through my emails. I nearly choked on my Nescafe when I read his follow up email..

The exact email read this:

"hi there. I am planning the proposed shoot we were arranging last year for the end of this month at box studios in London.

could we include a little interaction including your fet and hands? It will be solely for personal use and will include the penis (me as the photographer as I cannot afford a male model) to be seen next to the feet/hands, hands/feet grabing, and ejaculation on nylon clad feet..

Let me know about your availability and the rate in your mind...
regards of the kindest...

k"



Now I'm sorry if I seem to have taken this a little hard.. but where the hell do blokes get off telling us they like to ejaculate on us for "Personal Use"?? Is that the new phrase they're using to justify their pathetic and pervy needs and make it sound more professional?
I have never done Adult work and would not, this is stated on my website so why ask??
I was also angered by the fact he has tried acting like we have already started arranging a shoot, I assume he was hoping I'd forgotten who he was and that I'd just go along with his imaginary shoot.

MEN..TAKE NOTE.. WE DO NOT APPRECIATE SUCH FILTH IN OUR INBOX!!

If your portfolio specifically states that you do not accept adult work then every photographer who gripes about negative attitude undertones in the models profile when stating such things should take note of this. Of course some people wake up on the wrong side of the bed every single day...but many times when trying to be nice and cordial about your wishes and desires...filth is still recieved in inboxes and in all actuality model mayhem should have a report for spam feature so that if you click that you (do not wish to recieve) certain inquiries and yet you recieve them you can click the spam feature and this person will not be allowed to send emails for about a week. I bet that would stop them from flooding our inboxes with questionable material, fake casting calls and pervy notes.

Another thing I hate is when I recieve a note like this:

Hey, baby I want to see how much skin you'd like to show. Give me your number so that I can kum (replace the K with a c) and see you. Send me three naked pics so that I can get you some work and make sure you have front, back and rear.

Talk to you soon sexy,
Perv

That's so irritating on so many levels...unless im dating a guy I really have no need for him to take such a personal tone with me....ever.

Click Hamilton wrote:
Hahaha ... LMAO

Who cares? Just hit your delete button.

Do you realize how many hookers, strippers, lap dancers, escorts, etc., are foraging around as "models"

So you got a proposition. It's not the first or last time women have been propositioned. Other women jump at the opportunity. That's why it happens.

Modeling has a dark side. It's naive to think it doesn't. What do you think the enormous porno industry is all about?

That doesn't mean you have to participate.

Frame that email and stick it on your wall for a laugh.

Its aggravating thats why I care...its spam..just a (model site spam) type of thing. Spammers should all have their computers confisgated and be banned from typing forever.

Hip Hip ....Horaaay...
Hip Hip.....Horaaay...
Ucky spammers!

Plus, its just plain gross on so many levels...nobody should have their stomach turned like that...I should sue for the cost of a perfectly good meal...lost to spamming.

Care to mourn with me?

:-(

That was a darn good cheeseburger too...what a waste.

Tom Sullivan wrote:
Okay it is gross but you couldve tried negotiating a price with him just to see how much he would be prepared to pay.  Some of these guys have got a lot of money and you might be surprised at how much he might offer you.

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Click Hamilton wrote:
BTW Jaedyn, you display nudes and nude body painting, laying naked in your bed, and you sign the first all caps paragraph of your portfolio introduction with "XXX" .... which can be construed as a discrete invitation to negotiate.



"IF YOU LIKE MY PICTURES - THEN TAKE A MINUTE AND LEAVE A COMMENT. IT HELPS ME TO KNOW WHAT PEOPLE THINK LOOKS GOOD AND WHAT DOESNT..AND IT ONLY TAKES A SEC TO LEAVE ME A COMMENT SO DONT B LAZY! xXx"
************************************************* [/quote

They're kisses!! And I should think that its pretty obvious.
Also, yes there are naked pics of me on there, but they are tasteful. Do you see any where I am laying there, playing with some blokes Manhood covered in his mess?? No I think not. Also, if you're referring to the Red body painting, it wasnt nude as I had my knickers on, luv.

Yeah there are lots of pervs out there who hit on women given the chance.. but does that make it ok?? You may get a thrill off weird women coming on to you, but I dont like weird men emailing sh*t like that to me.
In the UK there are hundreds of weirdo's trying to trap women by pretending they're photographers, and I have had the unlucky experience of running into one of them. My friends have too, and not been so lucky.. so I think emails like that shouldnt be taken lightly.
If some naive, inexperienced model was to agree and go along, whats to stop the bloke getting too carried away with hiself???
In my opinion, people like him should not only have their computer taken from them, but their madhood too.
Chop it off with a gilloteen I say!!

Claire Elizabeth wrote:
I can think of a few other places where he should put his penis that arent quite as enjoyable.....cheese grater, pizza oven, machinery gears......lets see how he likes that. Idiotic ass.

Looooooove the Cheese Grater thought!!

Xx

Jaedyn wrote:

Click Hamilton wrote:
BTW Jaedyn, you display nudes and nude body painting, laying naked in your bed, and you sign the first all caps paragraph of your portfolio introduction with "XXX" .... which can be construed as a discrete invitation to negotiate.



"IF YOU LIKE MY PICTURES - THEN TAKE A MINUTE AND LEAVE A COMMENT. IT HELPS ME TO KNOW WHAT PEOPLE THINK LOOKS GOOD AND WHAT DOESNT..AND IT ONLY TAKES A SEC TO LEAVE ME A COMMENT SO DONT B LAZY! xXx"
************************************************* [/quote

They're kisses!! And I should think that its pretty obvious.
Also, yes there are naked pics of me on there, but they are tasteful. Do you see any where I am laying there, playing with some blokes Manhood covered in his mess?? No I think not. Also, if you're referring to the Red body painting, it wasnt nude as I had my knickers on, luv.

Yeah there are lots of pervs out there who hit on women given the chance.. but does that make it ok?? You may get a thrill off weird women coming on to you, but I dont like weird men emailing sh*t like that to me.
In the UK there are hundreds of weirdo's trying to trap women by pretending they're photographers, and I have had the unlucky experience of running into one of them. My friends have too, and not been so lucky.. so I think emails like that shouldnt be taken lightly.
If some naive, inexperienced model was to agree and go along, whats to stop the bloke getting too carried away with hiself???
In my opinion, people like him should not only have their computer taken from them, but their madhood too.
Chop it off with a gilloteen I say!!

Hey Hey Hey...
Lets keep everything real, in perspective and credible here.
Major Point:
Nude photography has less to do with pornography then a three leged skunk.
If you think so (as a photog) then you should never have a nude photoshoot because there is a hint of perv in ya.

Im delving into photog so I can speak from both perspectives.

If a lady agrees to do a nude photoshoot with you then take it as that much and stick to professionalism...if you don't...feelings or your pockets could be hurt (rejection or lawsuit).

XXX (one letter of the alphabet written three times, perhaps used to elicit sexual arousal or interest...not to be considered an invitation unless you are a date, a hubby or its stuck on the front cover of a porno)....

BTW how come the sexy guys always are the ones to not read every little thing as a come on? Is it becaus they aren't desperate ole muckies???

The world may never know... :-(

Jaedyn wrote:
MEN..TAKE NOTE.. WE DO NOT APPRECIATE SUCH FILTH IN OUR INBOX!!

No pun intended I assume.

Click Hamilton wrote:
Jaedyn, I mean no disrespect, luv, but you also say you were a

"*Dancer for Spearmint Rhino (2003)."

I don't know what the Spearmint Rhino is in England, but here in California the Spearmint Rhino is a trademark name for a place with strippers and erotic dancers.

Are you advertising that you were a stripper or erotic dancer? Lots of strippers are also hookers, so there's another suggestion you've made to solicit propositions.

And again, you say nowhere in your portfolio about the limits you stated in your rant at the beginning of this thread.

By the way you present yourself, I'm not surprised you got that letter. It looks like you are fishing, and it looks like that guy sent you a fishing letter as well.

He even signed his proposition politely.

Cool your jets. You asked for it. There is no harm done. You just like the drama of complaining about men who are jerks and talking about putting some guys penis in a cheese shredder.

She asked for it? Seriously? Now I didnt know what the "Spearming Rhino" was but still how does working for them make it ok for creeps to ask to beat off on her feet?

Click Hamilton wrote:
Jaedyn, I mean no disrespect, luv, but you also say you were a

"*Dancer for Spearmint Rhino (2003)."

I don't know what the Spearmint Rhino is in England, but here in California the Spearmint Rhino is a trademark name for a place with strippers and erotic dancers.

Are you advertising that you were a stripper or erotic dancer? Lots of strippers are also hookers, so there's another suggestion you've made to solicit propositions.

And again, you say nowhere in your portfolio about the limits you stated in your rant at the beginning of this thread.

By the way you present yourself, I'm not surprised you got that letter. It looks like you are fishing, and it looks like that guy sent you a fishing letter as well.

He even signed his proposition politely.

Cool your jets. You asked for it. There is no harm done. You just like the drama of complaining about men who are jerks and talking about putting some guys penis in a cheese shredder.

Hey, let all the desperate guys who can't get a date to save their lives harrass the ex dancers that want nothing to do with them...

There...now is everyone happy???

CUnique wrote:

Hey, let all the desperate guys who can't get a date to save their lives harrass the ex dancers that want nothing to do with them...

There...now is everyone happy???

That might be all the action they will ever get...that has to be tough.
Sad...just sad.

But HILLARIOUS!!!!
LOL!!!!!

All of the guys in my family are handsome...im glad they don't have to resort to harrassing and disrespect to get a *drizzle* of attention from attractive females. lol

Click Hamilton wrote:
Jaedyn, I mean no disrespect, luv, but you also say you were a

"*Dancer for Spearmint Rhino (2003)."

I don't know what the Spearmint Rhino is in England, but here in California the Spearmint Rhino is a trademark name for a place with strippers and erotic dancers.

Are you advertising that you were a stripper or erotic dancer? Lots of strippers are also hookers, so there's another suggestion you've made to solicit propositions.

And again, you say nowhere in your portfolio about the limits you stated in your rant at the beginning of this thread.

By the way you present yourself, I'm not surprised you got that letter. It looks like you are fishing, and it looks like that guy sent you a fishing letter as well.

He even signed his proposition politely.

Cool your jets. You asked for it. There is no harm done. You just like the drama of complaining about men who are jerks and talking about putting some guys penis in a cheese shredder.

I asked for it?? And I am fishing for it??? LMAO.. You are so wrong fella it makes me laugh.
Spearmint Rhino in the US may be fulla hookers.. but in the UK, the men cannot touch you, even when you give them a private dance they have to sit on their hands and there is also a bouncer present. You are also not allowed to take mens phone numbers, and the bouncers will make sure you get home safely (ie/ walk you to your car, order you a taxi and wait with you til it comes, or take you to the station and wait with you for your train).

I really dont see how I can anyway be seen as 'fishing for it' or anything similar. I dont have any porn like images on my port, or have ever advertised as a porn model.
Yes I do poledancing. And its shown on my site as in the UK, poledancers are used for runway shows, promotional shows, etc. NOT AS HOOKERS.

Lens N Light wrote:
You know, when Don Juan was once asked about his phenominal success with the fair sex, he replied that he hit on every woman he met. He said that sure, he got turned down a lot, but if just 1 woman in 10 answered yes, he was getting laid a lot.
Maybe this guy's a Don Juan fan?

Lol you could be right but I don't think Don Juan used this sort of pick up line.....

Lens N Light wrote:
Maybe this guy's a Don Juan fan?

Or just a mucky perv..

Jaedyn wrote:

Or just a mucky perv..

There's a difference?

Jaedyn wrote:
Spearmint Rhino in the US may be fulla hookers.. but in the UK, the men cannot touch you, even when you give them a private dance they have to sit on their hands and there is also a bouncer present. You are also not allowed to take mens phone numbers, and the bouncers will make sure you get home safely (ie/ walk you to your car, order you a taxi and wait with you til it comes, or take you to the station and wait with you for your train).

I really dont see how I can anyway be seen as 'fishing for it' or anything similar. I dont have any porn like images on my port, or have ever advertised as a porn model.
Yes I do poledancing. And its shown on my site as in the UK, poledancers are used for runway shows, promotional shows, etc. NOT AS HOOKERS.

Yes, lap dancing and pole dancing is basically the same here, from what I've heard. My interest in the idea of lap dancing is nil, or less, so I have no personal experience with this. I have seen "pole dancing" but it's not a place where I care to hang out and waste time or money.

Yes, vice comes down on them for prostitution when they catch them. "Escorts" seem to be a different industry that's less regulated, or more difficult to regulate. This is the more likely venue here where your friend might find his foot & hand job. I've also never hired an escort, so I don't know this as a customer. I have no need for kinks like that.

Several escorts and dancers have modeled for me for their modeling portfolios, so this is where I absorb this information. A very sweet foot & latex madam has booked me to make content for her website. She would love to receive that letter from your customer. She "LOVEs to make every man her "Toe Bitch" .. LOL

I'm an equal opportunity photographer. Everyone has a beautiful side. I aim to please.

Click Hamilton wrote:
BTW Jaedyn, you display nudes and nude body painting, laying naked in your bed, and you sign the first all caps paragraph of your portfolio introduction with "XXX" .... which can be construed as a discrete invitation to negotiate.



"IF YOU LIKE MY PICTURES - THEN TAKE A MINUTE AND LEAVE A COMMENT. IT HELPS ME TO KNOW WHAT PEOPLE THINK LOOKS GOOD AND WHAT DOESNT..AND IT ONLY TAKES A SEC TO LEAVE ME A COMMENT SO DONT B LAZY! xXx"


And FURTHERMORE .... you state in your introduction:

"WE ONLY BITE IF YOU LIKE IT *WINK*"

Well, duhhhhhh ....

And FURTHERMORE ....

"a lack of confidence in myself led me to believe I had nothing more to offer except my body"

"I find modeling and photography are a great way of being able to express the many different sides of my personality"

AND Furthermore, ....

You do NOT say anywhere in your introduction that you don't do nude or adult content. Nowhere do you post the "I don't do nudes so don't ask"

It's the opposite ... you look like you are encouraging nudes, body painting and who knows what else.

Read it yourself objectively and report back to us.

i've never seen someone use "and furthermore" so many times in one sitting.  Good job

Jaedyn wrote:
**IF THE PERSON IM TALKING ABOUT IS A MEMBER OF THIS SITE, THEN I WILL NOT RETRACT THIS POST.. AND YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF**

I recieved an email a while ago from a London based photographer, asking if I'd be interested in a Fetish shoot, sort of feet orientated.
Anyway, at the time I wasnt modeling - taking afew months off - so kindly refused and asked him to let me know if he was ever up in the North of England.

I woke up this fine sunny morning, made myself a coffee in my favourite pink mug, and sat down to read through my emails. I nearly choked on my Nescafe when I read his follow up email..

The exact email read this:

"hi there. I am planning the proposed shoot we were arranging last year for the end of this month at box studios in London.

could we include a little interaction including your fet and hands? It will be solely for personal use and will include the penis (me as the photographer as I cannot afford a male model) to be seen next to the feet/hands, hands/feet grabing, and ejaculation on nylon clad feet..

Let me know about your availability and the rate in your mind...
regards of the kindest...

k"



Now I'm sorry if I seem to have taken this a little hard.. but where the hell do blokes get off telling us they like to ejaculate on us for "Personal Use"?? Is that the new phrase they're using to justify their pathetic and pervy needs and make it sound more professional?
I have never done Adult work and would not, this is stated on my website so why ask??
I was also angered by the fact he has tried acting like we have already started arranging a shoot, I assume he was hoping I'd forgotten who he was and that I'd just go along with his imaginary shoot.

MEN..TAKE NOTE.. WE DO NOT APPRECIATE SUCH FILTH IN OUR INBOX!!

okay, you totally one-upped my horny guy who would only describe himself and offered up a descript of his penis.

Sinsazia wrote:
i've never seen someone use "and furthermore" so many times in one sitting.  Good job

Thanks Sinsazia :-)
It was for emphasis

Click Hamilton wrote:

Thanks Sinsazia :-)
It was for emphasis

Yeeees, I saw that.  Splendid job.

Starview Studio wrote:
I guess I shouldn't be surprised, but it is shocking the sort of things some people will just e-mail to a stranger: "Hi, we talked before about your modeling for me - mind if I whack off on your feet? "

I agree along the lines with Claire Elizabeth. Send him a reply like:  "Hi, maybe we can make a deal - I want some pictures for my personal use too: I want to use a hammer and bash your penis a couple of times. Also, I've always wanted to kick a bloke hard in the bullocks. Is Saturday good for you?"

Then again, never mind that advice. Some pervs would actually get off on you doing something like that, lol...

THAT'S GREAT   classic   LMAO  she should send that  LOL

Jaedyn wrote:
MEN..TAKE NOTE.. WE DO NOT APPRECIATE SUCH FILTH IN OUR INBOX!!

Or hands or feet .. etc

Collin J. Rae wrote:
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH I swear it wasn't me! I HATE nylons.....!

hahahahaha!  ugh..sheesh, i said no laughing, it hurts.

Jaedyn wrote:
MEN..TAKE NOTE.. WE DO NOT APPRECIATE SUCH FILTH IN OUR INBOX!!

MMDesign wrote:
No pun intended I assume.

From the rest of the post, I could only assume the same.

Jaedyn wrote:
... WE DO NOT APPRECIATE SUCH FILTH IN OUR INBOX!!

I didn't think he was interested in your inbox — he wanted your feet.

There are certain jobs that I really don't enjoy.  Take weddings for example.  They are a lot of work and Aunt Tessa from Nebraska is going to start jerkin' you around as if she hired you and you are her personal photographer.

I have a special price for jobs like this:  Two million dollars.

For two million dollars, I will shoot your ceremony AND reception as long as they are within three miles of each other.  I will shoot in RAW and use up to two, one gig cards.  You will receive your images within 12 months.

Perhaps you should consider terms that are similar to mine.  Include a line about expenses.  You will obviously need an armed escort (not cheap), and you are going to need a place to clean up.  Don't forget about the soiled clothing — I'm sure you won't want to wear those clothes again.

Sheesh!  If you played your cards right, you could be the wealthiest fetish model in the world.