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Photographer

markEdwardPhoto

Posts: 1398

Trumbull, Connecticut, US

Would you show you Mom or Dad ALL your photo image???

Just wondering how proud you are of you work.


M

Jan 01 06 10:04 am Link

Photographer

D. Brian Nelson

Posts: 5477

Rapid City, South Dakota, US

My mother thinks the models should have more clothes on.

I think we did this thread not to far back.

-Don

Jan 01 06 10:05 am Link

Photographer

markEdwardPhoto

Posts: 1398

Trumbull, Connecticut, US

D. Brian Nelson wrote:
My mother thinks the models should have more clothes on.

I think we did this thread not to far back.

-Don

So....I missed it....lets do it again!!!!

Jan 01 06 10:07 am Link

Photographer

Mark Key Photography

Posts: 1346

HAVERTOWN, Pennsylvania, US

Are you kidding? They'd take away my allowance for a month!!

Jan 01 06 10:07 am Link

Body Painter

BodyPainter Rich

Posts: 18107

Sacramento, California, US

They love them, so does Grandma!

Jan 01 06 10:17 am Link

Photographer

Farenell Photography

Posts: 18832

Albany, New York, US

They get the Mother Seal of Approval. If I can't show any of them to her, they don't get posted.

Jan 01 06 10:29 am Link

Photographer

Far West Imaging

Posts: 436

Laguna Hills, California, US

My mom, my sisters and brothers, my friends, strangers I just met, all get to see them.  I need all the exposure I can get.

Jan 01 06 10:35 am Link

Photographer

Elaine Dunn

Posts: 1463

New York, New York, US

My grandparents didn't like my pictures as a model or as a photographer. More clothes, more clothes, more clothes! It's not like I was naked, sheesh. Bikinis/lingerie is where I draw the line.

I only show them my commercial stuff now. wink

Jan 01 06 10:36 am Link

Photographer

Amanda Schlicher

Posts: 1131

Milwaukee, Wisconsin, US

My mom has seen pretty much all my work, even my nude self portraits.  I think that's fine.  I hesitate to show her the "darker" stuff, for fear she'd think i was feeling tortured or something.  I'm not sure she understands that it's just an aesthetic, not a reflection of my mental state.

Jan 01 06 11:07 am Link

Photographer

Dogbone Alt-Process

Posts: 1016

Llano, Texas, US

When I proudly showed my ancient mother the accordion book of alt-process images I'd made as my final project (http://www.dgbn.com/mica_alt04/) for an alternative process course, she pronounced them to be pornography and slammed the book shut.

I now only share my landscape work with her.

Jan 01 06 11:15 am Link

Photographer

H Mills Photo

Posts: 94

Derby, Connecticut, US

The only time I've ever known my parents have been proud of me for something I've done, is when they ask me to bring my book to show their sisters and brothers (my aunts and uncles). They see most of my images and love them.

Jan 01 06 11:18 am Link

Photographer

Kentsoul

Posts: 9739

Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, US

She'd probably think they were silly, which is what I'm actually most afraid of.  My mother has a talent for embarrasing me in public.

Jan 01 06 11:23 am Link

Model

Coral Weber

Posts: 98

New York, New York, US

on some level they could appreciate them. on the other level theyd think "she was naked in front of the photog with her hands on her breasts!!!!!!!!"

Jan 01 06 11:29 am Link

Model

Model Sarah

Posts: 40994

Columbus, Ohio, US

MY mom and Dad are kind of "old fashioned". They would rather not see their "first born, nude"

My sisters love them.

Jan 01 06 11:41 am Link

Photographer

PATAAZ

Posts: 160

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, US

If my mother liked my model photos, I'd know I was doing something way wrong!

Jan 01 06 11:44 am Link

Model

Inferi

Posts: 12930

Eagan, Minnesota, US

My parents are both dead, but I know they would have no problems with them.  My mom was very liberal in her thoughts on just about everything and my dad just wouldn't care.  My mom would actually think they are cool.

Jan 01 06 11:55 am Link

Photographer

James S

Posts: 1103

Spokane Valley, Washington, US

My parents both see nudity as "evil", so there's no way I'd show them my photos.

Jan 01 06 11:55 am Link

Model

Shyly

Posts: 3870

Pasadena, California, US

My mama's reply to my images, and why I participate in creating them was, "You have the courage of your convictions, baby girl.  I'm proud of you."  Every time she gets into a conversation about self-acceptance, body size, etc she starts scribbling my URL down to show people.  It's pretty cute.

The papa?  I just keep my fingers crossed that he remains internet-challenged and never ever sees them.  He's old school, he would never understand.

Jan 01 06 12:05 pm Link

Photographer

Mark Key Photography

Posts: 1346

HAVERTOWN, Pennsylvania, US

My photography is kind of like going on a honeymoon -- my mom gets the general idea but doesn't want the details.

Jan 01 06 12:23 pm Link

Photographer

nathan combs

Posts: 3687

Waynesboro, Virginia, US

my mom and dad 5 brothers and my 1 sister are some of my best critic's i love when they give me input my mom and dad have see all my work and when they have a opinion about some thing i Lassen in fact my dad has a couple of the mags that i have been published in on his coffee table at his house and they both pass out my web site to people and are both proud of what i do

Jan 01 06 12:37 pm Link

Model

123455534343

Posts: 9488

Arthur's Town, Cat Island, Bahamas

Coral Weber wrote:
on some level they could appreciate them. on the other level theyd think "she was naked in front of the photog with her hands on her breasts!!!!!!!!"

ditto!

Jan 01 06 12:43 pm Link

Photographer

R. Olson (RO)

Posts: 971

Seattle, Washington, US

markEdwardPhoto wrote:
Would you show you Mom or Dad ALL your photo image???

Just wondering how proud you are of you work.


M

I guess she supports my work since she keeps handing out my business cards to people all over. Never turn your nose up at Bingo players, they have more connections than the telephone company. LOL

Jan 01 06 12:45 pm Link

Model

Inferi

Posts: 12930

Eagan, Minnesota, US

R. Olson (RO) wrote:

Never turn your nose up at Bingo players, they have more connections than the telephone company. LOL

*laughs*

probably quite true. smile

Jan 01 06 12:49 pm Link

Photographer

Gibson Photo Art

Posts: 7990

Phoenix, Arizona, US

I don't think I would care much what they thought. I left that behind long ago. More worried what my wife thinks my shots.

Jan 01 06 01:06 pm Link

Photographer

Boho Hobo

Posts: 25351

Santa Barbara, California, US

I don't think my parents really understand my work, but then again, they're not alone in that response.

Jan 01 06 01:57 pm Link

Model

Jenni L

Posts: 96

Westerville, Ohio, US

They have only seen the PG rated pictures.

Jan 01 06 01:59 pm Link

Model

_Blip_

Posts: 6703

Tampa, Florida, US

I don't do anything my mother wouldn't approve of, or that I wouldn't want my kids to see. I don't do nudes, and won't do anything that isn't tasteful, so there's absolutely no problem. Mum is incredibly supportive. In fact, she's always asking for printed copies of my pictures. It's almost embarrasing to walk into her apartment. She has pictures up everywhere!

When she saw my recent bikini pictures, her response was... three kids... and you still look like that? lol. But, I think she's just biased. ;-)

Jan 01 06 02:01 pm Link

Photographer

groupw

Posts: 521

Maricopa, Arizona, US

I worry more about what my wife and kids think than my parents. My parents know women stop at my home to have photos taken. My mom is not sure what to think but doesn't ask much. I don't show my dad because he likes to make dirty jokes out of anything. My wife and kids are supportive. They are just relieved that someone else is asked to get in front of the camera when I get a new idea...

Jan 01 06 06:36 pm Link

Photographer

Glamour Boulevard

Posts: 8628

Sacramento, California, US

Mom, being a Pentacostal Christian has often sacrasticly said to me " my my, Im sure you enjoyed the shoot that day, didn`t you son."

EDIT: I forgot though, she does love my fine art stuff. Speaking of which, I have to print a few things for her this week as requested.

Jan 01 06 06:39 pm Link

Photographer

Christopher Hartman

Posts: 54196

Buena Park, California, US

My parents have made their house available to me provided there are no nudes.  This is their front door and one of their chairs:

https://www.pbase.com/digitalcmh/image/46784129.jpg

My mom loves this picture and shows it off for me.

They are open-minded conservative Christians who are registered Democrats whose voted Republican since at least Reagan. ha!!

Jan 01 06 06:40 pm Link

Photographer

Rick Athearn

Posts: 492

Boulder, Colorado, US

It's like my old man used to say, "Your models are overexposed and underdeveloped". He knew his photography!

Jan 01 06 06:42 pm Link

Photographer

Glamour Boulevard

Posts: 8628

Sacramento, California, US

Dogbone Alt-Process wrote:
When I proudly showed my ancient mother the accordion book of alt-process images I'd made as my final project (http://www.dgbn.com/mica_alt04/) for an alternative process course, she pronounced them to be pornography and slammed the book shut.

I now only share my landscape work with her.

I love them. To me they are true to the meaning of the word photography, writing with light.

Jan 01 06 06:42 pm Link

Photographer

Glamour Boulevard

Posts: 8628

Sacramento, California, US

Model Sarah wrote:
MY mom and Dad are kind of "old fashioned". They would rather not see their "first born, nude"

My sisters love them.

They were blind folded when you were born and as they changed your diapers? smile

Jan 01 06 06:43 pm Link

Model

Josie Nutter

Posts: 5865

Seattle, Washington, US

My parents really enjoy my work.  It's part of the reason I keep it tasteful.

Jan 01 06 07:00 pm Link

Photographer

Justin N Lane

Posts: 1720

Brooklyn, New York, US

My mom, my grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins got to see shots of nearly all my female friends naked when I was in college...never flinched.

Jan 01 06 07:03 pm Link

Photographer

TnM Photography

Posts: 53

Huntington Beach, California, US

I was just showing my dad some of the sites I work for, and my mom walked in and told me not to show him that.  They've seen my work and support me.  My wife also looks through all my pics and likes to comment on the clothes.

Mike

Jan 01 06 07:21 pm Link

Model

Barbray

Posts: 885

Atlanta, Georgia, US

ROTFL...OOOOOOOO y'all thanks for the laugh.
It is SO nice to know that although we ARE
grown adults we are still for the most part
TERRIFIED of displeasing our parents...and our grandparents.

My parents and brother and sisters have always been supportive
and love my photo work. Now that is not to say some of the
results of designers/photographers/film shoots "creative ideas"
and "creative outcomes" have not made them blink, if not bite
their tongues to still the laughter.

Now my wonderfully mannered Southern lady to the fingertips grandmother
thinks if a young lady leaves her bedroom without a floor-length robe and
slippers on in the early morning hours...or leaves the house without being
completely and perfectly dressed and my face on and my hair styled...
I am horror of horrors considered...indecently naked...
((grinning))

Jan 02 06 12:03 am Link

Photographer

The Don Mon

Posts: 3315

Ocala, Florida, US

my mom tells everyone she can

my dad says  "thats my boyyyyyy"

my stepmom says "shoot any smart models lately?"

my sister says nothing

my brother tells all his buds i even took him on 3 shoots as well as an assistant....
he said " i will never doubt you again ....can i ask her for her number? " (he did and they went out on a date)....{ they both were 17 at the time}

my guy friends ask which have i dated

my guy friends wives they try not to talk about it ......lol

Jan 02 06 12:10 am Link

Model

Peggy Weidner

Posts: 124

Denton, Georgia, US

My parents are dead,so it doesn't matter.

Jan 02 06 12:15 am Link

Photographer

Glamour Boulevard

Posts: 8628

Sacramento, California, US

The Don Mon wrote:
my mom tells everyone she can

my dad says  "thats my boyyyyyy"

my stepmom says "shoot any smart models lately?"

my sister says nothing

my brother tells all his buds i even took him on 3 shoots as well as an assistant....
he said " i will never doubt you again ....can i ask her for her number? " (he did and they went out on a date)....{ they both were 17 at the time}

my guy friends ask which have i dated

my guy friends wives they try not to talk about it ......lol

I recently was contacted online via instant messenger by my cousin who was like a little brother to me and I have not heard from him im about 8 years. My mother gave him my screen names. Turns out he has started getting into photography and ever since I showed him some of my swimwear, lingerie and nude work there is barely a time I am online on AOL/AIM that he does not IM me seeming like a giddy kid wanting to see if I have anything new,lol.

Jan 02 06 08:24 am Link