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What I think about escorts...
*edit* If you are here to: a) Bitch about how escorts are bad...go away b) Bitch about how escorts are good...go away c) Bitch at me for absolutely no reason about starting a thread you dislike even though YOU'RE the asshole who obviously just clicked on this thread because it contained the word ESCORT in the title and you're just here to bitch when I'm the one trying to spread a positive message...go away. For those who won't read past the first paragraph because you're lazy and just want to make knee-jerk comments, the point of this thread is that escorts are not an assurance of safety. Period. In my first few months of modeling, I had 3 experiences with creepy photographers. Nothing too awful...just people who were pervy...tried to give me naked massages...made uncomfortable comments...here's the thing though The only times I ever had problems with photographers were when I did have an escort present. An escort will not solve all your problems. Models, if you're bringing an escort, I'm sure you're way more likely to blow off all the other things you should be doing to ensure your safety...I know I did when I didn't know better. Even if you're bringing an escort (which obviously I'm not an advocate of), talk to other models, check tags for things like "It was great working with you", and then made sure that someone knows where you're going, and how long you'll be gone just in case. If you just do your research, there really isn't that much to be afraid of. There's way more fear on MM than there are reasons to actually be afraid. Jan 17 07 03:53 pm Link Yay for smart chicks. Jan 17 07 03:55 pm Link e-string wrote: Yourself included...I bet YOU check references Jan 17 07 03:57 pm Link Just the same, If I were a young model, I'd never go to a shoot alone. I have been a photographer for many years and the sickest craziest people I have ever met were some of my peers. Jan 17 07 04:00 pm Link I like it when the eascort provides my lunch Jan 17 07 04:01 pm Link Colegrove Photography wrote: Thank goodness I live in Minnesota Jan 17 07 04:02 pm Link Colegrove Photography wrote: That's fine...I'm not saying people can't bring escorts. I'm merely saying an escort is not an assurance of safety nor is a lack of one an assurance of danger. You need to do your homework regardless. I bet the percentage of girls who always check references and have been in a situation where they needed an escort is way lower than you think. Jan 17 07 04:06 pm Link Colegrove Photography wrote: Clearly you keep good company. Jan 17 07 04:06 pm Link StudioMona wrote: And Frank Zappa said: Who could imagine they'd freak out in Minnesota Jan 17 07 04:07 pm Link Christopher Ambler wrote: Lol...really...I've only been a model for a year...but it's been my experience that some of the sanest, kindest, most down to earth people I've met have been photographers. Jan 17 07 04:07 pm Link Christopher Ambler wrote: wander around PPA for 20 years, you'll see. Jan 17 07 04:08 pm Link I love strong women Jan 17 07 04:08 pm Link Colegrove Photography wrote: Come to court with me sometime. I'll show you what an actual knuckledragging-sicko-rapist really looks like. I know a couple photographers that might be off center a little, but nothing compared to what you see on the jail docket. Jan 17 07 04:08 pm Link Colegrove Photography wrote: Your peers, eh? Jan 17 07 04:08 pm Link Bring and escort, Don't bring and escort, Makes no difference to me. But yes.... Please do your research in checking up on people before you shoot with them, and I mean both models and photographers should check. Models need to avoid creepy or unreliable photographers and photographers need to avoid crazy or flaky models. Jan 17 07 04:09 pm Link Escorts? Just bring bacon! Jan 17 07 04:11 pm Link Kaitlin Lara wrote: Sure do! But you said it very well, and a fair number of people here seem to pay attention to what you say. Jan 17 07 04:11 pm Link LarryB wrote: I was an evidence photographer for the AZ. State Police. You may or may not belive what I've seen Jan 17 07 04:12 pm Link StudioMona wrote: Thank goodness I live in Iowa Jan 17 07 04:12 pm Link Jan 17 07 04:12 pm Link Kaitlin Lara wrote: Exactly. Jan 17 07 04:14 pm Link The only time I bring an escort is when I'm going to be going to a bondage shoot. I bring an escort to a bondage shoot when A)either the photographer has no references or I can't get the references in time (IE at a convention like Fetishcon where shoots are made on the floor) or B)It's a big shoot or a guerilla shoot and I want an extra set of hands and or someone who's familiar with my brand of gag speak. I don't ever want to be falling over while tied up and have the photographer have to snap decide whether to let his camera drop or the model drop. Jan 17 07 04:14 pm Link Image K wrote: ha ha haaa! It'll never stop! It's like the pro-choice, pro-life debate of modeling! Jan 17 07 04:17 pm Link Jan 17 07 04:22 pm Link Colegrove Photography wrote: It's always heartening to see how much photographers support others in their profession, and how the ones who say "bring escorts" are quick to insist that they're the only safe ones. Jan 17 07 04:25 pm Link LarryB wrote: Man, you are spot on with that. Jan 17 07 04:25 pm Link LarryB wrote: Hmm, that looks familiar. Jan 17 07 04:28 pm Link Image K wrote: Hey...at least I'm not saying I'm right and everyone else on MM should agree with me I'm just pointing out that escorts aren't an assurance of safety, and research should be done regardless of what you choose to do. Jan 17 07 04:31 pm Link e-string wrote: Yeah -- I think Erin checked my FBI file as well. She's a very resourceful person. Jan 17 07 04:34 pm Link Kaitlin Lara wrote: I understand that, Kaitlin... Jan 17 07 04:34 pm Link SLE Photography wrote: so basically, what you're saying is that most photographers have a propensity to don banana man costumes while parading in the public dirty dancing and waving around these POOP posters? Jan 17 07 04:35 pm Link SLE Photography wrote: No, not most only a handfull. Jan 17 07 04:38 pm Link Pat Thielen wrote: mwahahaha Jan 17 07 04:39 pm Link Image K wrote: The existing ones are so clogged up with arguments and drama that no one would ever read what I have to say if I did. That escorts are not an assurance of safety is something that I think is important for models to understand, and I'm sorry if it bothers people to see another escort thread, but if it helps even one model stop behaving in dangerous behavior (ie not checking references) then I don't care how many angry emails I get. Jan 17 07 04:39 pm Link Image K wrote: tee hehe Jan 17 07 04:44 pm Link Has anyone here heard the name Chuck or Charles Rathbun? Edit: Met him a few times, seemed to be a nice guy to me, He had tearsheets up the wazu, good refs. And gee look what happened. Jan 17 07 04:45 pm Link Colegrove Photography wrote: Why? Jan 17 07 05:02 pm Link Kaitlin Lara wrote: I knew him, I even worked on shoots with him. Jan 17 07 05:07 pm Link Isobel Wren wrote: I thought that was no-show models versus no-show photographers? Jan 17 07 05:08 pm Link Colegrove Photography wrote: Rather than testimonials/instances why not offer a statistical perspective on the dangers? Should the name Harold Shipman be used to frighten the sick? Jan 17 07 05:11 pm Link |