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Riannan the Artist

Posts: 99

Punta Gorda, Florida, US

How competitive are you?

Would you respond or not respond to a fellow MUA, photographer, model who asked you a question business related via MM?

Would you be afraid they would take some of your business?


I'm asking this because I asked another MUA on here a business question and they never responded.  I thought we were here to help one another out.  It's different for the TFP/TFCD assignments, but when it involves money, it seems to be another issue. 

What do the rest of you think?

Jan 14 07 01:45 pm Link

Model

Sarah Hutch

Posts: 84

Red Bank, New Jersey, US

people do seem to get touchy. i think there needs to be a medium between professionalism and competition. if it's a personal strategy or something, you can kindly decline to indulge. in any case, i think a response, whether with an answer or just saying no, should be given.

in the end, i can tell you that i'll try to always be kind, friendly, professional, and give some sort of response. i can't speak for anyone else.

Jan 14 07 01:50 pm Link

Photographer

Lucinda Wedge

Posts: 4315

Littlerock, California, US

I'm very competitive BUT...  I'm not afraid of anyone stealing business from me.  I share information all the time when people write me.  I even give them my phone number via the MM mail, cause I hate writing forever, it's easier on the phone.  There's more than enough business in this field to go around.  I don't think I have any patent on any super secret to doing well.  So, wtf, share.  But, I also think people are on here for different reasons.  Not everyone is here to share but to take and network without giving.  Others are soooo busy they don't have the time but once a week to sit down and answer the letters they find to be most important.  Some just want models some just want to build a better portfolio and don't want to make friends or be friendly.  There's so many different personalities on MM.  You can get that from reading these threads, LOL!  So, I wouldn't be offended or upset or believe everyone is the same.  Just move on and network elsewhere.  Some will be gracious and others have their reasons to keep to themselves. smile

Jan 14 07 01:57 pm Link

Photographer

Caspers Creations

Posts: 11409

Kansas City, Missouri, US

I've always responded to any question asked of me.
If I couldn't answer the question I tried to point them in the direction of someone that could.

Jan 14 07 03:29 pm Link

Model

Jessalyn

Posts: 21433

Denver, Colorado, US

I hate competition. I have zero competitiveness in me. If a model messages me asking a question I always politely reply to them. If a photographer emails me asking how a photographer did something in a picture, I always refer them to the photographer in question because it isn't up to me to give away any secrets that a photographer may be trying to keep.

Jan 14 07 03:33 pm Link

Model

little apple blossom

Posts: 7617

MCMINNVILLE, Oregon, US

The only time I was slightly perturbed is when a model commented on one of my poses and then I saw it later in their port. I didn't say anything and it doesn't really bother me now but when I first saw it I was a little taken back.

Jan 14 07 03:33 pm Link

Model

Jessalyn

Posts: 21433

Denver, Colorado, US

little apple blossom wrote:
The only time I was slightly perturbed is when a model commented on one of my poses and then I saw it later in their port. I didn't say anything and it doesn't really bother me now but when I first saw it I was a little taken back.

a photographer in Florida I worked with messaged me one day with a link to another photographer in Florida whom I don't know. They had obviously ripped off one of our picture concepts. Same pose, same outfit, everything. And the date they had uploaded it was about 3 weeks after we had. All I did was tag it "Hm. This looks familiar." though I'm sure I could have been much nastier and messaged them with something rude. But I didn't.

Jan 14 07 03:36 pm Link

Model

little apple blossom

Posts: 7617

MCMINNVILLE, Oregon, US

Jessalyn wrote:

a photographer in Florida I worked with messaged me one day with a link to another photographer in Florida whom I don't know. They had obviously ripped off one of our picture concepts. Same pose, same outfit, everything. And the date they had uploaded it was about 3 weeks after we had. All I did was tag it "Hm. This looks familiar." though I'm sure I could have been much nastier and messaged them with something rude. But I didn't.

although that sucks, at least it's that much more confirmation that the stuff you do rocks out loud.

Jan 14 07 03:40 pm Link

Model

AmberW

Posts: 189

Dothan, Alabama, US

If someone asks me a question I feel like I should help them out.

Jan 14 07 03:42 pm Link

Photographer

Matrix Photography

Posts: 269

Calgary, Alberta, Canada

Riannan the artist wrote:
How competitive are you?

Would you respond or not respond to a fellow MUA, photographer, model who asked you a question business related via MM?

Would you be afraid they would take some of your business?


I'm asking this because I asked another MUA on here a business question and they never responded.  I thought we were here to help one another out.  It's different for the TFP/TFCD assignments, but when it involves money, it seems to be another issue. 

What do the rest of you think?

If you're good, you can help others without fear. If they try to copy, rip off, etc., good luck to them. They are copying yesterday's work, while I've moved onto the next concept. They are always a step behind, and can't even match my old work if they try!

Jan 14 07 03:48 pm Link

Photographer

LeDeux Art

Posts: 50123

San Ramon, California, US

Riannan the artist wrote:
How competitive are you?

Would you respond or not respond to a fellow MUA, photographer, model who asked you a question business related via MM?

Would you be afraid they would take some of your business?


I'm asking this because I asked another MUA on here a business question and they never responded.  I thought we were here to help one another out.  It's different for the TFP/TFCD assignments, but when it involves money, it seems to be another issue. 

What do the rest of you think?

people can be strange and money seems to make them stranger

Jan 16 07 04:18 am Link

Photographer

Vance C McDaniel

Posts: 7609

Los Angeles, California, US

I dont mind answering questions..However, I don't like questions which seem to be copy and paste and feel as if it were dirtected towards 100 e-mails.

If a question is based on my body of work or in relation to how I present myself and my business, I gladly respond.

V

Jan 16 07 04:23 am Link

Photographer

David Poata

Posts: 421

Waitakere, Auckland, New Zealand

By helping others with kind intention we engage in the act of selfless giving, their is no greater compassion smile

Jan 16 07 04:23 am Link

Model

Maya A Lelani

Posts: 893

New York, New York, US

Jessalyn wrote:
a photographer in Florida I worked with messaged me one day with a link to another photographer in Florida whom I don't know. They had obviously ripped off one of our picture concepts. Same pose, same outfit, everything. And the date they had uploaded it was about 3 weeks after we had. All I did was tag it "Hm. This looks familiar." though I'm sure I could have been much nastier and messaged them with something rude. But I didn't.

Everything has already been done to some extent, though.  I would consider it flattery... unless they hijacked the idea and sold it for millions... smile

Jan 16 07 04:29 am Link

Photographer

Vector 38

Posts: 8296

Austin, Texas, US

Riannan, artist wrote:
How competitive are you? Would you respond or not respond to a fellow MUA, photographer, model who asked you a question business related via MM? Would you be afraid they would take some of your business?

i have no problem answering business related questions to my fellow photographers; they can't take my "vision" ...

~ F

Jan 16 07 04:35 am Link

Photographer

nathan combs

Posts: 3687

Waynesboro, Virginia, US

Caspers Creations wrote:
I've always responded to any question asked of me.
If I couldn't answer the question I tried to point them in the direction of someone that could.

i am the same way i happy to help if i can no biggy to me

and there is no one on hear that i have to compete with i shoot mostly photoj now a days and there are not that meny MM photographers around me that do the same thing and if they did so what it just make me that much better

Jan 16 07 04:36 am Link

Model

Aelah

Posts: 125

San Jose, California, US

I believe this MM network is meant to be a positive one...whatever we can do to help one another out is definitely a step in the right direction...that of progression.

Jan 16 07 04:44 am Link

Photographer

Nocturne Lumina Studios

Posts: 25

Bellevue, Washington, US

Riannan the artist wrote:
How competitive are you?

Would you respond or not respond to a fellow MUA, photographer, model who asked you a question business related via MM?

Would you be afraid they would take some of your business?


I'm asking this because I asked another MUA on here a business question and they never responded.  I thought we were here to help one another out.  It's different for the TFP/TFCD assignments, but when it involves money, it seems to be another issue. 

What do the rest of you think?

Me?? I tend to be non-competitive in life, and therefore in photography. Must be from way back when I was a musician. You can tell and show people exactly what you do and how you do it, yet when two creative people follow a similar process, the results are usually very different. The reality is that there is always competition, I figure that the sharing of information and technique will simply result in good things in the end....

Jan 16 07 09:54 am Link

Model

DawnElizabeth

Posts: 3907

Madison, Mississippi, US

Is this a competition? I had no idea.


*rolls up sleeves*

Jan 16 07 09:56 am Link

Model

DawnElizabeth

Posts: 3907

Madison, Mississippi, US

Dammit. I am wearing a sleeveless shirt.....

Jan 16 07 09:56 am Link

Photographer

WZ Photography

Posts: 584

Squamish, British Columbia, Canada

How can you get competitive when you're creating art?
Photography is a form of art, is it not? 

I get people asking me all kinds of questions, whether it's photography related or otherwise. I always try to help out with the knowledge that I've gained over the years.  I mean what's the point keeping your knowledge to yourself?  Knowledge should be passed on if you ask me.

Jan 16 07 10:05 am Link

Model

MelissaBaker

Posts: 1237

New York, New York, US

I have had many people help me and I try to pass on the kindness.For example I just posted polaroids to answer many questions I get about how, what etc to submit to agencys...

Jan 16 07 10:08 am Link

Photographer

LeDeux Art

Posts: 50123

San Ramon, California, US

Aelah wrote:
I believe this MM network is meant to be a positive one...whatever we can do to help one another out is definitely a step in the right direction...that of progression.

I wish more people had this young ladys attitude

Jan 16 07 10:29 am Link

Photographer

LeDeux Art

Posts: 50123

San Ramon, California, US

DawnElizabeth Moderator wrote:
Dammit. I am wearing a sleeveless shirt.....

thank you Dawn as always you brighten my day now go put on a shirt with sleeves by golly

Jan 16 07 10:30 am Link

Model

Stacy

Posts: 2505

Englewood, Florida, US

Riannan the artist wrote:
How competitive are you?

Would you respond or not respond to a fellow MUA, photographer, model who asked you a question business related via MM?

Would you be afraid they would take some of your business?


I'm asking this because I asked another MUA on here a business question and they never responded.  I thought we were here to help one another out.  It's different for the TFP/TFCD assignments, but when it involves money, it seems to be another issue. 

What do the rest of you think?

I dont mind helping others. But I wont say I'm not competetive either.

Jan 16 07 05:03 pm Link

Photographer

Gary Davis

Posts: 1829

San Diego, California, US

I'd like to think we're here to help each other out, but I can't help feeling most are here to help themselves out.  I like to help when I can, but I don't like to be taken advantage of either.  Not accusing the OP of anything, just saying in general...

Jan 16 07 05:29 pm Link

Photographer

215 Studios

Posts: 3453

Center Point, Texas, US

I certainly don't mind answering questions, be they about business or images in my portfolio or whatever.

[sarcasm]

If it's something that is beyond me, I can lie with the best of them!

[/sarcasm]


-Major

Jan 16 07 05:35 pm Link

Photographer

Rick Davis Photography

Posts: 3733

San Antonio, Texas, US

We have to remember that every pose has been posed and every shot has been shot and all we are doing is our own variation of each.

I often get emails asking about certain aspects of an image such as lighting, lenses, etc and I don't mind divulging some information.  What won't I answer?  Questions regarding contact info for photo editors or other potential clients.

Jan 16 07 05:38 pm Link

Photographer

Craig Thomson

Posts: 13462

Tacoma, Washington, US

Good question Riannan.

I don’t think I’m competitive.

As you’ve seen at the network meetings, I ask everyone to share with each other because I feel it will bring the giver rewards that can’t be bought.

When a person opens up and shares with others, that person has the chance to gain respect as well as other knowledge from the people he/she is sharing with. It may not be immediate, but I feel in the long run, the payoff is there.

Example: Last Saturday, I was able to share some lighting techniques while at the meeting and he wrote me a very nice and sincere thank you letter.

Jan 16 07 05:38 pm Link

Photographer

215 Studios

Posts: 3453

Center Point, Texas, US

I really don't mind helping out any time I can.  (It's actually very rare, so I kinda revel in it!)  I always ask questions.  Alot of the time, I sound like a moron when I ask them, but I don't mind so long as someone points me in the direction of an answer. 

I really enjoy collaborating with other photographers as well as models/MUAs/Stylists and so on.  Working with other people's input always seems to make for a more "well rounded" collection of images.  Besides, if someone takes one of my ideas and improves upon it, GREAT!  I wanna know how they did it, too.

-Major

Jan 16 07 05:48 pm Link

Model

Elaine Jacobsen

Posts: 933

Walnut Creek, California, US

Riannan the artist wrote:
How competitive are you?

Would you respond or not respond to a fellow MUA, photographer, model who asked you a question business related via MM?

Would you be afraid they would take some of your business?


I'm asking this because I asked another MUA on here a business question and they never responded.  I thought we were here to help one another out.  It's different for the TFP/TFCD assignments, but when it involves money, it seems to be another issue. 

What do the rest of you think?

I guess it’s different for models then for MUA’s. A model has something unique that cannot be reproduced – her look, while MUA’s marketability is dependent on their techniques that could be learned.

Jan 16 07 05:48 pm Link

Model

Brandy

Posts: 1353

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

I really don't feel like I have a ground to stand on to be competitive. There are people who are always going to be better than me, people who are always going to have better bodies or nicer hair or a better smile... I'm happy with the work I create in the time I have to create it.

When I was in High School... I was competitive about my sports but now I realize I accomplished a lot and I had no reason to compete with anyone or try to make myself better.

To this day I have a certain female friend who feels that our friendship is a competition... not because I compete with her but because I tend to be more of "one of the guys" and generally get attention for it... not because I try but because it's where I fit in. It's a never ending battle with her to see that I am not competing but just hanging out where I'm comfortable.

Jan 16 07 05:56 pm Link

Photographer

Daguerre

Posts: 4082

Orange, California, US

Riannan the artist wrote:
How competitive are you?

Would you respond or not respond to a fellow MUA, photographer, model who asked you a question business related via MM?

Would you be afraid they would take some of your business?


I'm asking this because I asked another MUA on here a business question and they never responded.  I thought we were here to help one another out.  It's different for the TFP/TFCD assignments, but when it involves money, it seems to be another issue. 

What do the rest of you think?

I believe that this is not a matter of competitiveness-- I am very competitive!

It is a matter of self confidence.  If you pay attention to the stylist forum, depending on who's in the box that day, the MU artists can be quite defensive.  Even about simple, basic stuff.  The more that people struggle (even if its only in their own minds), in general, the less confidence they have in themselves, and the more defensive they tend to be.  This is all relative.

Having said that, there are 2 kinds of info-- public and proprietary.  I will help anyone (time permitting) with info that is basic and generic, to help them get to that next level.

My proprietary stuff is that which I have either invented or stumbled across in a drunken stupor.  This proprietary info, in many cases, is why I am hired by my clients and one of the reasons why in certain circles I have no competition.

Jan 16 07 06:14 pm Link

Model

MELissaMOORE

Posts: 1939

Fairfield, California, US

I respond to everyone on here, no matter what, it is business.
One very popular model on Mayhem said to me, "there are no real models on Model Mayhem!"
Kisses,
MELmoore

Jan 16 07 06:18 pm Link

Photographer

Daguerre

Posts: 4082

Orange, California, US

ElaineD wrote:
...A model has something unique that cannot be reproduced – her look...

Actually, models have much that can be reproduced.  In many cases, its not about the look because quite often, looks overlap.  Many times I've hired models not for their specific looks... but something else.

Jan 16 07 06:19 pm Link

Photographer

Gary Davis

Posts: 1829

San Diego, California, US

Daguerre wrote:
My proprietary stuff is that which I have either invented or stumbled across in a drunken stupor.  This proprietary info, in many cases, is why I am hired by my clients and one of the reasons why in certain circles I have no competition.

Do you make everyone that works with you sign an NDA? wink

Jan 16 07 06:20 pm Link

Photographer

Sophistocles

Posts: 21320

Seattle, Washington, US

Life is not a zero-sum game.

Jan 16 07 06:24 pm Link

Photographer

Carpe Imago Photography

Posts: 1757

Dousman, Wisconsin, US

I am totally competitive.  I can run so fast that you'll feel ashamed just to be you! ;>

Seriously though, anyone so concerned about their "trade secret" or "specific style" that they won't talk to other photographers is painfully insecure, and just sort of pathethic.  Now I'll go on record as saying that I find my own work to be about as skillful as that of a lowland gorilla with bad cataracts.  But the guys that I know that are truly among the best are also the most willing to mentor and teach. 

I point to guys like Robert Sanders, Bob Randall, and Walter Iooss.  I had the privilege of having dinner with Walter at spring training two years ago and the guy couldn't stop giving me information that dramatically helped my sports and fast action shooting.  This weekend I had the privilege of taking part in the Michael Lee Hide House shoot in Milwaukee, and the suggestions and feedback that I received from Michael Lee and Michael Obradovich (MikeyBoy) were unbelievable.  I will never hold a candle to the skill of these guys, but I could certainly put a crimp in their "sales" if I tried.  Did they hesitate to share information based on that?  Not even for a second.

In the words of Mikey, when photographers as a whole get better we all get better.  Kudos to you MikeyBoy, and to all those just like you!

Jan 16 07 06:36 pm Link

Photographer

Daguerre

Posts: 4082

Orange, California, US

Daguerre wrote:
My proprietary stuff is that which I have either invented or stumbled across in a drunken stupor.  This proprietary info, in many cases, is why I am hired by my clients and one of the reasons why in certain circles I have no competition.

Gary Davis wrote:
Do you make everyone that works with you sign an NDA? wink

You better believe it-- and my lawyers ain't Sissies, either...  smile

Jan 16 07 06:56 pm Link

Photographer

studio kgm inc

Posts: 727

Nashville, Tennessee, US

ive never had a problem sharing anything i can to help.  whether it be photoshop tricks that save a lot of time, to lighting setups.  ive never worried about it.  i think half of the reason i dont worry about it, is because i figured it all out on my own.  through figuring something out, i think you gain a lot more knowledge about how it really works.  much more than than just how to do it.  also, i think experimentation is really the only way to improve.  so i dont worry about them surpassing me.

Jan 16 07 06:59 pm Link