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There's a house down the street from me they had their decorations I thought it looked all pretty with the snow so I snapped a shot....and well I thought I'd be nice and give them a copy of it, just cause I'm nice and it's the Christmas season. So I went today to give them the picture after all it IS their house, and I told her I was a aspiring photographer handed her the picture and she was very rude and said "I don't think so!!!" I was like errrr you don't have to buy it I just thought I'd give it to you since it is your house, I'm sorry if I made you mad" And she just said all pissy like "WELL THANK YOU BYE!" eesh last time I be nice....So my kind heart bites me in the ass once again. Can they do anything?? I'd hope not... sorry for the lame post...I probably should of just kept it to myself. This is the picture I took Dec 19 06 05:33 pm Link ungrateful bitches. you should egg her house and then reshoot. that would teach that biatch a hard lesson. Dec 19 06 05:35 pm Link Awwww!! Wow people can be grinchy around christmas time. Don't sweat it That was very kind of you. *Sandra Dec 19 06 05:36 pm Link lol@ egging....I'd rather not waste good food on a grouchy woman. At least she said thank you I guess but the tone was so cold and rude I was shocked. Dec 19 06 05:38 pm Link Search the web for 'property' releases. You may find something from a photographer or lawyer who is versed in their use. Now get your huge grain of salt handy, as I demonstrate the tried and true tactic of talking about a subject I don't have any real knowledge on. If you took the photo from the street, and did not trespass while taking the picture, and have no intention of selling or using the photo for commercial purposes, you are probably safe. Dec 19 06 05:39 pm Link see no good deed goes unpunished!!! Dec 19 06 05:39 pm Link do not fell stuped it was very nice of you do offer the photo Dec 19 06 05:39 pm Link Its not like you were selling it back to them. Some people dont appreciate kindness. Dec 19 06 05:40 pm Link drop a few needles on her lawn, maybe some baking soda in a small cellophane. then call the cops. Pretty red and blue lights to match the decorations will make one hell of a picture. Dec 19 06 05:41 pm Link I think it's great! And very kind of you to offer them a print. Don't let the b*tch get to you. If it makes you feel any better, I got flipped off in the Wal-Mart parking lot a couple of days ago by this manic Christmas shopper because I pulled into a parking space she wanted. Then got a dirty look from an old dude today when I offered to let him go through the door of the grocery store first so I could put money in the Salvation Army bucket. I hate/love the Holidays!!! Dec 19 06 05:41 pm Link TooCoolQueeniee wrote: how about some toilet paper? Dec 19 06 05:42 pm Link TooCoolQueeniee wrote: I think the house and decorations may be generic enough that they would be unable to PROVE it is their house. My non-legal opinion says that you probably do not need a property release. Dec 19 06 05:42 pm Link Not intending to sell at all just to have for my own collection of photos, and I took it from my property, we have a large triangle lot that isn't to far from the street and their house I was far enough away. I'll do some research, but damn that'd be petty if they did do something. It was completely harmless. But I feel bad now and stupid as I said. Thanks for making me feel better though everyone. Dec 19 06 05:43 pm Link Christopher Hartman wrote: I would agree that the reaction they had was unexpected, and rude. But, as for proving it is their house, they now have a copy of the photo and her word that it was of their house. Dec 19 06 05:45 pm Link KatieK wrote: Oh man I hear ya, I had a lady cursing up a storm at me and flipping me off cause I was trying to get out of target I was in my lane it isn't my fault she pulled out to face my vehicle so i sat there waiting for to get herself situated I was fine not angry things happen. But boy she gave it to me and then some. Dec 19 06 05:46 pm Link Cecil Sharps wrote: lol oh man that would be awesome! Dec 19 06 05:46 pm Link Wow that will be my next year christmas card !! Dec 19 06 05:47 pm Link Mike Vinereanu wrote: Teepee wouldn't be a bad idea, but I just can't see myself doing it, you can though:) Dec 19 06 05:47 pm Link Christopher Hartman wrote: Well here's to hoping. Thank you for the feedback. I would of thought so to, I mean you have it there for show..so why get mad? Dec 19 06 05:50 pm Link TooCoolQueeniee wrote: find an out of work highschooler. give him a 20 dollar bill and a bottle of thunderbird. Dec 19 06 05:51 pm Link or go back later when you see the husband. then he'll love the photo (he probably did all the work on the house) and later show wife. And she'll be, "That bitch!!!" and he'll be, "Damn woman, you're crazy. She was just being nice!!" and then'll be, "the photo goes or I go!" then he'll say, "Ok, the photo goes." Then they'll have sex that night. Then he'll say, "On second thought, you should go." Then he'll get a new wife. And she'll love your photo. Dec 19 06 05:51 pm Link That's a rad pic. It's sad when we're rejected even with the best intentions. But you know the saying: the road to hell is paved with good intentions. Next house you decide to shoot, ask them first and they might even want to pay you for it. Dec 19 06 05:53 pm Link Christopher Hartman wrote: Thank you you made me laugh quiet a bit job well done, the images were going through my head as I read. Dec 19 06 05:53 pm Link How can anybody that has that many lights outside their house be so rude around Christmas. Sheesh, people amaze me sometimes. Anyway, two things. I love the picture, you did a great job on it. It has a nice small town Christmas type feel to it and reminds me of when I used to live in a small town many years ago. Now, as far as whether or not she can do anything about it, here is my take on it. I just took an entertainment business class with my film degree and the previous poster was right, if you took it from the sidewalk, you are fine, because that is private property. BUT you actually DO have the right to sell that picture and make as much money off of it that you want to. If you took that picture from a public location, you can do whatever you want to with it. The only type of buildings that are protected against that are certain copyrighted buildings and other works of art, like an artist's statue, etc. So basically, you can take a picture of a modest home decked out in Christmas lights, but you can't come to Orlando and take a picture of the Epcot dome at Disney World or Hard Rock Cafe and sell that picture. Yes, you may get sued by the crazy lady living in that house, but you would win in the court case. Now, I have 2 suggestions of how you should handle this situation and how I would do it if it was me. 1. Right after you handed it to her and she said "I don't think so." You should have grabbed it from her, torn it up, and then started crying on her doorstep. and my personal favorite.... 2. I think you should print out about 50 of these photos and for the next week until Christmas, you should set up a little stand (much like a lemonade stand) outside her house on the public sidewalk and sell photos of her house for $1.00. But then again, that's just me and I like screwing around with people who go out of their way to be rude to other people. Keep up the good work, you have some great stuff. Dec 19 06 05:53 pm Link burn the house down that way it makes a limited edition..... karma's a bitch Dec 19 06 05:59 pm Link Thanks everyone for all your kind feedback, I think I am safe since I was still on my property when I took it I was out smoking. Well if I didn't have my kids in the car I should of done the crying thing, that's better. The dollar one I'd freeze my ass off lol and I have kids so I couldn't do that one. I will start asking from now on, just to save myself the trouble. Dec 19 06 06:01 pm Link The Don Mon wrote: hahahhaha oh my Dec 19 06 06:01 pm Link Mikel Featherston wrote: I'm not sure if that legally matters. I think I can take a picture of a UPS airplane, edit out the logos, and then do whatever the hell I want with it. I don't think even Boeing could come after me (assuming it was a Boeing airliner). Dec 19 06 06:05 pm Link Christopher Hartman wrote: It is a shame her gesture was treated with such disrespect. Dec 19 06 06:06 pm Link Christopher Hartman wrote: I'd have to look at the copyright website to be sure, but I'm pretty sure that you can use this photo for anything you want. If a building is visible from a public place it becomes fair game for photography. If you have to trespass in order to shoot then you will need a property release. I'm rather sure there is a provision for just this sort of thing in the copyright law... Dec 19 06 06:07 pm Link TooCoolQueeniee wrote: This is very sad -- the home owner should have been very happy for your photo; most sane people would be. And when you told her you weren't trying to sell it (I could see her being confused about this) the "normal" would be to laugh it off and offer you a beer. Well, I would anyway. People can be mean, and there's really nothing worse than a fake "thank you." It's all good -- her karma will come back and bite her in the ass. It always does. Dec 19 06 06:10 pm Link Christopher Hartman wrote: It is also very possible that the day before you snapped your shot, her husband of many years was killed in a car wreck. And he was the one that made her house so beautiful through the years. Dec 19 06 06:13 pm Link What a scrooge!! How disappointing is that to do something nice and then be recieved in such a way. *sighs* Just for that you ought to find a nice BIG greeting card company and sell them the image... when someone lets her know it was her house she'd be fuming, but you'd have money in your pocket. As others have said, its obvious that you were not going out of your way to shoot it, and it is visable from public property, so its public domain for images, and thus you can make money off of it Cool. I'd buy cards that looked like that. Nice message on the inside that says something about the light of the season... Anybody ever know how much the SUPER light guy made for allowing Miller Lite to use his house in their commercial last year???? (THis guy: http://www.snopes.com/photos/arts/xmaslights.asp ) Dec 19 06 06:16 pm Link Some people just want to be evil and horrible. They WANT to. Knowing that, don't let it bother you. It sucks, but at least you know you tried to do a nice thing. Dec 19 06 06:17 pm Link Wahoo, that was post 900... this means only 199 more to go!! Dec 19 06 06:17 pm Link Awwww I'd be so pleased if someone was nice enough to do that near my house! I would have invited you in for mince pies You should have made her feel guilty about being so horrid! But how, I don't know.. Dec 19 06 06:18 pm Link I know I would have been thrilled to have my neighbor bring that gorgeous picture of my house over. Dec 19 06 06:18 pm Link It's a beautiful photo. Sounds like she was in the middle of covering up a murder when you showed up at her house. Like she had set up an alibi else where and not supposed to be at home killing her husband for insurance money, for example. Blow up the photo and see if you can see anything unusual through the window Dec 19 06 06:24 pm Link I'm sure it's okay if the images are for personal use and not for sale or on display.....? Idk.. Dec 19 06 06:26 pm Link what a@#holes.... Dec 19 06 06:26 pm Link |