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OK...this is something that very few people know...even my closest friends...and I have decided to bring it out on this forum because while I have been embarassed and debilitated from this for years, I'm tired of it "owning" me in terms of creativity.... I am fully prepared for juvenile comments, harassment and general mean-spirited-ness that comes with almost each and every post here on this forum, but I also know that I have met some wonderful people here and I know that there is someone out there who would be willing to help me...I think the good people here far outweigh the bad ones... So...here goes...when I was 29 years old I suffered from bacterial spinal meningitis. Besides the fact that it caused me to almost lose my life, it also caused some permanent learning disabilities that I am unable to overcome. For instance, I can't read a map, or find my way through a building with a lot of hallways. I have to have my faucets marked with "HOT" or "COLD" because I can't remember simply that you turn hot one way and cold the other. I have never been able to learn how to operate my camera manually or learn how to use lighting properly...everything I do takes me 5 times longer than the average photographer. I can live with the camera problem, but what I really am longing to know how to do is Layers in Photoshop. Thus...the problem that I am requesting help for... I have bought probably a dozen books on photoshop and downloaded lots of directions from the internet, but I have yet to come up with a way of it being explained to me so that I can understand it. I have tried to follow step by step instructions and even ones with the illustration...but always I get to a point where I get confused and can't go any further. I have tried to find classes in my area to learn...but nothing is available. I know this might just seem like a minor inconvenience to some...but for me, it would mean everything if someone would take the time to spell it out as if you are spelling out to a 5 year old how to use layers. I would even pay someone a reasonable fee if they could help me. I feel quite ridiculous and ashamed as I write this, to let the entire community here in on my secret....but I have hopes that someone will be able to help. Thanks so much for any help you can give! Toria Dec 08 06 02:36 pm Link Aww, don't feel ashamed. We all have our issues. Sadly I don't know anything about PS other than how to rotate a pic, hehe. I'm sure there will be someone on here that can help ya' out ; ) If you're willing to pay someone maybe you can hire a college student in your area to tutor you or something? Just a thought. Dec 08 06 02:40 pm Link I don't want to embarrass you or make you think I am taking pity on you, but I think this is really brave to just come out and say. You shouldn't be ashamed by any means but I know I would feel too self conscious to come out and say it here. Dec 08 06 02:41 pm Link Kiddo, I can't help you, but I can tell you that at 54 years old I can't figure it out either. I have tried and tried and have all the books, but I don't get it. You are not alone in this. All those pallete things are off my screen, because I don't know how they work. Dec 08 06 02:42 pm Link If you know nothing about PS than who did all your photo work in your portfolio, They seem pretty good at it, ask them to help you out? Dec 08 06 02:43 pm Link Dec 08 06 02:43 pm Link Toria wrote: Okay ~ heres the deal... Rarely am I ever serious, about anything. HOWEVER ~ as one who has suffered 5 concussions, I have to write stuff down all the time or it goes kaput. Not only that as a PPA memeber, we encouraged to help others learn to do things they may not know. Instead of dealing with all of the silliness here, if you like PM me, and lets see what we can't do to get you up and running. Dec 08 06 02:44 pm Link jasontheartist wrote: I agree Dec 08 06 02:44 pm Link I love you Simply because I admire you to be able to face your fears. Dec 08 06 02:44 pm Link Toria wrote: why dont you make a cheat sheet just like what you do with Dec 08 06 02:45 pm Link Shadowscape Studio wrote: Sure you can ~ first tip ~ before blowing HUGE money for Photoshop CS2, Get Photoshop Elements 3 (I don't think 4 is all that they crack it up to be, it has more issues than anything). PE 3 has 75 perecent of CS2 does, costs a fraction, and is way easier to use. Hung up someplace using it? Gimme a shout, always glad to help! Dec 08 06 02:47 pm Link Toria wrote: You just described the average male .. jk Dec 08 06 02:48 pm Link That's actually a good idea. Always try to have someone with you when you're shooting. Someone who's dedicated and willing to spend his/her time. What you'd do great with is a PA: photog assistant, like a production assistant. Lots of people are looking for experience becoming an assistant. I admire you for sharing this information. Even with all the idiots on MM who find nothing better to do than make a harmless forum thread more than it should be. Your work is great!! *~Lelah~* Dec 08 06 02:49 pm Link check your mail...I sent you my phone # and would be glad to help you for a few -troy Dec 08 06 02:52 pm Link Is there someone near you that can actually sit at a computer with you, and talk you through it? I doubt that any books will deal with the problem in a way that meets your particular needs, but a knowledgeable Photoshop user could. Dec 08 06 02:53 pm Link Oh, god, honey, PLEASE don't be embarrassed! Hell, I'd be happy to teach you layers if I knew how (I know how to do it in PSP, but not PS; let me know if you're interested in learning how to do that. I'm LOCAL! ) I've got PScs open right now re-familiarizing myself with the program... *hug for you* Dec 08 06 02:57 pm Link I don't have have those issues, and I am still struggling to learn PS... lol Personally, I get the most benefit from just watching photographer friends work with the program, and just learn by osmosis... Dec 08 06 02:58 pm Link TXPhotog wrote: That was my first thought, too. Failing that, is it the learning to master it yourself that's the most important to you, or the final image looking a certain way that's most important to you? It might be worth hiring a retoucher sometimes if you have a specific vision but can't learn how to realize it. Dec 08 06 02:59 pm Link Bravo for you bringing this out and asking for help; especially here on MM. However, your problem could be helped along with some simple things. Let me explain and maybe something will help you along. I had a stroke at 32 and suffered much with motor skills and reading and yes remembering things. Here is something that I found worked for me long term. Buy a digital recorder and use it. Great way to remind yourself to do things and also to relearn things. It is difficult I know because if you may know how to do something right now and in four hours not have a clue. I don't know if your illness impacted your life the way mine did and of course I realize you had something completely different from a stroke. However, the brain is amazing. Have you tried rehab services? Even on your own. Learning centers can help. I have found that relearning is something I do over and over again but if you keep up with something that does work, like writing things down or using the recorder or even having someone call you on the phone or visit with you and assist you in learning or relearning that over time it becomes much easier. Oh and one more thing. Please do not think you can't overcome or at least learn to live fully with these problems. They are only as big as you make it. You do have the power to turn this around. I KNOW how difficult it is and how depressing it can be but once I made my mind up to live the work began for sure, but the determination drives me daily. good luck ak Dec 08 06 03:06 pm Link Toria wrote: I don't have any learning disabilities... but am kinda glad to know that I'm not the only one that can't remember which way to turn the handle!!! Toria wrote: I've met 'professional photographers' that have spent many years in the business that don't know how to operate their cameras, and have no clue about lighting! Toria wrote: I wish we lived closer together. I'm pretty good at taking very technical terms and translating 'em into concepts that everyone can understand. (I've taught people how to use a computer without having a computer anywhere around us)! Dec 08 06 03:12 pm Link I doubt I can help you in Photoshop, pissed away my 600 bucks and I'm clueless. Just wanted to say when a person is brave, honest and humble it really brings out the best in all of us. Thank You. heart heart Ron Paulsen Dec 08 06 03:16 pm Link Well I will offer you this...feel free to message me whenever you have any type of question at all, and you can send me emails with the images if you are confused. I can even send your files back to you. Send me a message with your personal email address and I'll send you some of my tutorials that I give my students and maybe some that I can make just for you. the biggest thing to remember with layers is that which ever layer is on top...that's the image that is closest to you...like stacking pictures in a pile...the top of the pile is the one you see most. that's a good start for understanding layers. Mark Dec 08 06 03:20 pm Link Message me and I'll give you my # I teach PS at AIS here in Seattle. BTW I was born in KC MO âMichael Dec 08 06 03:21 pm Link Layers is like looking through 2 or more slides. You can change the color or exposure or contrast or many other things to each slide. The other slides are not effected. Eric Dec 08 06 03:28 pm Link TXPhotog wrote: Me...I just sent you an email with my number...use it...I will sit down with you and help you go through it....not a problem...we can get layers working for you! Dec 08 06 03:29 pm Link And to this point not one single negative or silly comment...bravo! Apart from the subject of your request for help which many capable people have addressed and expressed an interest in assisting you...I would have to say that even though the forums are a breeding ground for sarcasm (I count myself as one of the culprits), there are caring people who I certainly hope are above insulting someone with a true disability of any type. I think you're seeing that MM'ers CAN rise above the mayhem. And for what it's worth, it's not a learning disability to struggle with Photoshop. Actually, I think it's a necessity. Good luck... Dec 08 06 03:30 pm Link Toria wrote: I have not read every post, so if this was said I do not know. I want you to really think about this as an approach. Dec 08 06 03:31 pm Link Trust me when I say we all struggled with PS. It is nearly impossible to learn on your own. The obvious paths to take are often the worst. I think it is a conspiracy! Let me know if I can help. Aaron Dec 08 06 03:54 pm Link http://www.lynda.com is very helpful for this as well. For about $20 you can watch all the movies you want for a month. Dec 08 06 04:00 pm Link lotusphoto wrote: yes yes and It is also a fun web site to get involved with Dec 08 06 04:18 pm Link "Press on, nothing in the world can take the place of persistence, talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men and women with talent; genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb; education will not, the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and Determination are omnipotent." These are the wise words spoken long ago that are so applicable to becoming a successful photographer ! Remember " Persistence and Determination are omnipotent ", with it you WILL succeeded in everything you do. Frank Dec 08 06 04:24 pm Link get the photoshop VIDEO...so that you can REPLAY it over and over. And you are way smarter the 90% of the numbnuts here. Dec 08 06 04:28 pm Link My number is on my profile. Call me and I'll be glad you help you. Dec 08 06 04:31 pm Link jasontheartist and the don mon have some good suggestions, as well as TX. And you should definitely call Scott Anderson (anderson artwork) he is awesome with PS and has taught me a few things even when I worked with him! And you have nothing to be embarrassed about Dec 08 06 04:35 pm Link I tell ya what guys...I am totally and completely overwhelmed with everyone's responses and kindness through this forum and my email. I am at the point of almost being speechless...and for those who know me...well THAT takes something big! I plan on getting back to each and every one of you individually within the next couple of days and I have had so many wonderful offers and ideas, that it's going to be hard to choose even how to pick someone to help me. But, I wanted to tell you all how very much I want to thank you for showing what kind and wonderful people you are. I have often been disillusioned by these forums because of some of the ways the threads turn out, but everyone who answered here sure did raise above and beyond what I ever imagined I would get from this. And, I know that I will make several new friends...people who care about others...and that really makes me happy. For those who asked about the work on my site presently...except for a very few manipulations that digital artist friends have done for me (and labeled so if it is in my portfolio)...I have done it all myself through trial and error...but never layers. I do have several methods that I am comfortable with...but layers has always been this distant thing that I have not been able to achieve. (Sounds sappy and corny...I know..lol) For those who asked about other disabilities and limitations...you would never know a thing was wrong if it wasn't for this part of my brain that was damaged. Oh...I forgot to mention that I can't do math either...but hell...most of the population can't either...so I don't care about that! Anyway, I wanted to thank you all and I promise to get back to each of you individually and we will go from there. You guys are completely wonderful!!!! Dec 08 06 08:13 pm Link P.S. Layers really isn't all that difficult / mind-over-matter. Step by step Dec 08 06 08:21 pm Link SayCheeZ! wrote: Excellent layman's description. This could be in "PhotoShop for Dummies". The only thing I would add here is this: one of the cool things about layers is that with each layer your create (whether it's a new text or effect layer, or a duplicate of an existing layer image) you have the ability to apply any or all of PhotoShop's other tools, styles, and techniques to that one, specific layer. Dec 08 06 08:24 pm Link When I hear about how MM is deteriorating, and the rudeness is out of control... I will read this thread. A lot of classy people are still here. Nicely done, MMers! Dec 08 06 08:30 pm Link UnoMundo Photography wrote: There are actually several companies that do them, and they will vary in quality and level of difficulty. The local libraries here at least, have several PhotoShop DVDs. Dec 08 06 08:32 pm Link www.lynda.com I can't say enough good stuff about that site... http://movielibrary.lynda.com/html/modPage.asp?ID=149 The first few movies of each subject are free so try a few and see if you like it...the site let's you stream unlimited training videos each month for a whopping $25.00 a month... Good luck...hopefully you have the full Photoshop and can use layer masks as well... Dec 08 06 08:34 pm Link |