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Arizona Shoots

Posts: 28822

Phoenix, Arizona, US

I'm setting up a shoot and everything's going great when I tell her "I do not allow escorts on my shoots" She wigs out and tells me, "How dare you call me a hooker!" Before I could clarify my statement, I was blocked. Perhaps from now on I should use the word "Chaperone"

Nov 25 06 10:04 am Link

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Kimberley

Posts: 175

Brighton, Alabama, US

What?
Why do people adapt such attitudes! Dont worry about it, she obviously isnt professional, or commited if she acts like that! She could of atleast been adult about it, and let you explain, or say she wasnt comfortable not having a chaperone!

Nov 25 06 10:06 am Link

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STUDIOMONA PHOTOGRAPHY

Posts: 33697

Avon, Minnesota, US

John Jebbia wrote:
I'm setting up a shoot and everything's going great when I tell her "I do not allow escorts on my shoots" She wigs out and tells me, "How dare you call me a hooker!" Before I could clarify my statement, I was blocked. Perhaps from now on I should use the word "Chaperone"

lol gives "escort" an entirely new meaning smile

Nov 25 06 10:09 am Link

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Veteres Vitri

Posts: 1994

MAYLENE, Alabama, US

guess it wasn't a happy ending

Nov 25 06 10:11 am Link

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M Pandolfo Photography

Posts: 12117

Tampa, Florida, US

Please tell me you're kidding lol. I think this might relate to the other "escort" thread. The Ford Escort.

Nov 25 06 10:14 am Link

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Bryan Benoit

Posts: 2106

Miami, Florida, US

this reminds me of the time I told a model that I was going to 'shoot' her in an open field. She spoke very little english and her eyes got real wide and started to back away from me.. took a little while to explain that I was going to use a camera.. ;o)

Nov 25 06 10:14 am Link

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Creativity Farm

Posts: 1772

Westville, New Jersey, US

StudioMona wrote:

lol gives "escort" an entirely new meaning smile

No, I think "escort" has had that meaning for a long time.

By any chance was the model a blonde? wink

Nov 25 06 10:15 am Link

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Lotus Photography

Posts: 19253

Berkeley, California, US

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Nov 25 06 10:17 am Link

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Curt at photoworks

Posts: 31812

Riverside, California, US

Bryan Benoit wrote:
this reminds me of the time I told a model that I was going to 'shoot' her in an open field. She spoke very little english and her eyes got real wide and started to back away from me.. took a little while to explain that I was going to use a camera.. ;o)

sounds like a scene from Borat!  wink

Nov 25 06 10:26 am Link

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c_d_s

Posts: 7771

Lubbock, Texas, US

I saved this little gem from a model's profile on OMP:

"Accomplice may be present but will not interfere with shoots."

Nov 25 06 11:30 am Link

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Maya A Lelani

Posts: 893

New York, New York, US

John Jebbia wrote:
I'm setting up a shoot and everything's going great when I tell her "I do not allow escorts on my shoots" She wigs out and tells me, "How dare you call me a hooker!" Before I could clarify my statement, I was blocked. Perhaps from now on I should use the word "Chaperone"

Haha... that's hilarious. What a crazy bitch...lol.

Nov 25 06 11:35 am Link

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Isabelle Du

Posts: 353

Los Angeles, California, US

HAHAHAHAH, perhaps a guilty conscience caught up.

Nov 25 06 11:36 am Link

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Rp-photo

Posts: 42711

Houston, Texas, US

John Jebbia wrote:
I'm setting up a shoot and everything's going great when I tell her "I do not allow escorts on my shoots" She wigs out and tells me, "How dare you call me a hooker!" Before I could clarify my statement, I was blocked. Perhaps from now on I should use the word "Chaperone"

I also thought that this could have been a language issue, except for the fact that the model was immediately familiar with two slang words for a prostitute: "Escort" and "Hooker".

Perhaps it was more the result of inexperience and lack of terminology knowledge.

Nov 25 06 11:38 am Link

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Golden Light

Posts: 951

Miami, Florida, US

Why would you imply she was a hooker? She already felt like a hooker. So why would you bring it up? You should have dove onto your knees and begged for forgiveness proclaiming that it was all a misunderstanding.

Nov 25 06 11:46 am Link

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UnoMundo

Posts: 47532

Olympia, Washington, US

hookers, escorts, strippers, models...just a blur.
explain the difference

Nov 25 06 11:48 am Link

Photographer

Images of Distinction

Posts: 72

Longmont, Colorado, US

C David Stephens wrote:
I saved this little gem from a model's profile on OMP:

"Accomplice may be present but will not interfere with shoots."

LOL

Nov 25 06 11:51 am Link

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Anne of Ohio

Posts: 4391

Columbus, Ohio, US

LOL....hilarious

Nov 25 06 11:52 am Link

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ang m

Posts: 511

Chicago, Illinois, US

Bryan Benoit wrote:
this reminds me of the time I told a model that I was going to 'shoot' her in an open field. She spoke very little english and her eyes got real wide and started to back away from me.. took a little while to explain that I was going to use a camera.. ;o)

smile   sweet

Nov 25 06 11:54 am Link

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K Ann

Posts: 713

Renton, Washington, US

LMAO! How old was she? At least you didn't have to wind up working with her. It sucks getting stuck with someone who snaps like that and has such an attitude. Not to mention immature.

Nov 25 06 12:04 pm Link

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Angelus

Posts: 3642

Atlanta, Georgia, US

Isabelle Du wrote:
HAHAHAHAH, perhaps a guilty conscience caught up.

lol
I was gonna say that....people tend to recoginze the meaning of words based on the things they'er mst involved with/exposed to. Maybe her friends are...or she's a former and is trying to live it down. She was waayyy too quick to get offended and defensive.

Just like you don't want to tell a cop you're going to shoot him. (Even while holding cara in hand.. tongue )

Nov 25 06 01:19 pm Link

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studio36uk

Posts: 22898

Tavai, Sigave, Wallis and Futuna

UnoMundo Photography wrote:
hookers, escorts, strippers, models...just a blur.
explain the difference

The rates they charge?

Studio36

Nov 25 06 02:30 pm Link

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Rik Austin

Posts: 12165

Austin, Texas, US

C David Stephens wrote:
I saved this little gem from a model's profile on OMP:

"Accomplice may be present but will not interfere with shoots."

Actually might have been the right word.

Nov 25 06 02:40 pm Link

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Scribe of Souls

Posts: 564

Bonner Springs, Kansas, US

Crazy-Evil Angelus wrote:

lol
I was gonna say that....people tend to recoginze the meaning of words based on the things they'er mst involved with/exposed to. Maybe her friends are...or she's a former and is trying to live it down. She was waayyy too quick to get offended and defensive.

Just like you don't want to tell a cop you're going to shoot him. (Even while holding cara in hand.. tongue )

Or spot your friend Jack in the same plane with you and holler "HI JACK!"

Nov 25 06 02:47 pm Link

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CrazyRussianHelicopter

Posts: 3256

Madison, Alabama, US

Bryan Benoit wrote:
this reminds me of the time I told a model that I was going to 'shoot' her in an open field. She spoke very little english and her eyes got real wide and started to back away from me.. took a little while to explain that I was going to use a camera.. ;o)

big_smile

Nov 25 06 02:50 pm Link

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Scribe of Souls

Posts: 564

Bonner Springs, Kansas, US

UnoMundo Photography wrote:
hookers, escorts, strippers, models...just a blur.
explain the difference

In my experience, hookers, escorts and stippers won't work for TFCD.

Nov 25 06 02:50 pm Link

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M Pandolfo Photography

Posts: 12117

Tampa, Florida, US

Scribe of Souls wrote:

In my experience, hookers, escorts and stippers won't work for TFCD.

Sure they do. TFCD stands for "Titties For Couch Dances" right?

Nov 25 06 02:56 pm Link

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Scribe of Souls

Posts: 564

Bonner Springs, Kansas, US

Michael Pandolfo wrote:

Sure they do. TFCD stands for "Titties For Couch Dances" right?

Damn, they told me no....wouldn't even take a check...wanted cash!

Nov 25 06 03:07 pm Link

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NC17

Posts: 1739

Baltimore, Maryland, US

C David Stephens wrote:
I saved this little gem from a model's profile on OMP:

"Accomplice may be present but will not interfere with shoots."

Heh... I might have to borrow that one! tongue

Nov 25 06 04:59 pm Link

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La Seine by the Hudson

Posts: 8587

New York, New York, US

StudioMona wrote:

lol gives "escort" an entirely new meaning smile

And not one with entirely the wrong implications, either.

Nov 25 06 05:00 pm Link

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Amanda Padilla

Posts: 1772

New York, New York, US

agH That is so sad, i feel bad for her. HAHAHA she is going to know in a few hours what u really ment and be off block im sure HAHAHA

Nov 25 06 05:04 pm Link

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Fifi

Posts: 58134

Gainesville, Florida, US

Cecil Sharps wrote:
guess it wasn't a happy ending

This made me choke on my hot tea.... thanks...lol

Nov 25 06 05:10 pm Link

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Fifi

Posts: 58134

Gainesville, Florida, US

John Jebbia wrote:
I'm setting up a shoot and everything's going great when I tell her "I do not allow escorts on my shoots" She wigs out and tells me, "How dare you call me a hooker!" Before I could clarify my statement, I was blocked. Perhaps from now on I should use the word "Chaperone"

Why couldn't you have posted this in the pit so you could provide some linkage... Dammit John.... sad

Nov 25 06 05:11 pm Link

Photographer

Jim Ball

Posts: 17632

Frontenac, Kansas, US

UnoMundo Photography wrote:
hookers, escorts, strippers, models...just a blur.
explain the difference

The likelihood they will show up?

Nov 25 06 05:14 pm Link

Photographer

Brandon Ching

Posts: 2028

Brooklyn, New York, US

UnoMundo Photography wrote:
hookers, escorts, strippers, models...just a blur.
explain the difference

Hookers = you pay for pleasure
Escorts = you pay for "company"
Strippers = you pay for the tease
Models = ...still haven't thought of a reason to pay them wink

Nov 25 06 05:20 pm Link

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Tikeya

Posts: 8075

Edgewood, Maryland, US

John Jebbia wrote:
I'm setting up a shoot and everything's going great when I tell her "I do not allow escorts on my shoots" She wigs out and tells me, "How dare you call me a hooker!" Before I could clarify my statement, I was blocked. Perhaps from now on I should use the word "Chaperone"

That's funny.  smile  But yeah, seriously, I think we should get rid of that word "escort" and use a word like "chaperone"  instead.

Nov 25 06 05:52 pm Link

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Brandon Ching

Posts: 2028

Brooklyn, New York, US

I believe the term in professional wrasslin' is "valet." Hmmm.... not much better..

Nov 25 06 06:11 pm Link

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LeDeux Art

Posts: 50123

San Ramon, California, US

could it have been a case of P.M.S.?

Nov 25 06 08:28 pm Link

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A BRITT PRO-AM

Posts: 7840

CARDIFF BY THE SEA, California, US

Nov 26 06 01:42 am Link

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Wynd Mulysa

Posts: 8619

Berkeley, California, US

John Jebbia wrote:
I'm setting up a shoot and everything's going great when I tell her "I do not allow escorts on my shoots" She wigs out and tells me, "How dare you call me a hooker!" Before I could clarify my statement, I was blocked. Perhaps from now on I should use the word "Chaperone"

Ahahahahahahahaaaa.  big_smile.

Nov 26 06 01:47 am Link

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Jason McKendricks

Posts: 6025

Chico, California, US

Bwahahahahahahaha!

AT least she flipped out before the shoot. She likely would have found some reason to go off on you on the set!

Nov 26 06 04:49 am Link