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I don't mean to be offensive. I'd really appreciate if someone could explain me and maybe broaden my perspectives about the knots, torture devices and women in photography. It's something that has been haunting me for quite a while now. I'm honestly questioning this matter trying to put aside any judgements. I would like to get opinions from those who actually are involved in that trend (if I should call it that way), those who are against and those who simply don't care. I think this is a thread that could evolve in smart and artistic dissertations. Aug 08 05 08:44 pm Link I assume you are referring to fetish photography? Never done it myself and occasionally the images scare me a bit. I do know that soe find it to be a bit arousing. Aug 08 05 08:57 pm Link Gabriel Rodz wrote: On this forum? You're dreaming... Aug 08 05 09:00 pm Link Hello Gabriel; With your question, you enter a field of art, that is directly linked to human sexuality and one of it's diverse practices. You are right, there will be many responding that will condem the idea of bondage and use arguments against it. Many of the people who are against it (not just: "it's not my cup of tea" like in my case... really being AGAINST it) don't know much about human nature and the interactive play of control and giving up control, to satisfy the practitioners intrinsic need and/or fantasies. Hence, a topic like that is easily considered a taboo in our society and the practices are considered fringe. Some cultures have extensive traditions that deal with that practice. Although I am not a practitioner or a connoisseur of that practice... I am a student of all kinds of human behaviours. As such, based on my own readings, bondage is a form of giving up... or taking control of or giving up control to the other person, and in this is a certain erotic stimulus. Hence those "fetish" photos, that deal with exactly that issue and may reach people that have that kind of fantasy, without the chance of living it. Just my two cents. Udo Aug 08 05 09:03 pm Link Aug 08 05 09:34 pm Link The internet has always been a place for people to live out their sexual vices... then there are those who rip off the image of the lifestyle because it's "edgy". Ever stop to ask why almost all fetish photography looks the same? Aug 08 05 09:39 pm Link Udo, very elocuent. Nice. We're getting to my concern. My problem with fetish photography has nothing to do with the obvious freudian conducts that most people "suffer" of. I must agree with Makayla that some kind of light bondage or handcuffing as Gary mentioned, is part of our quest in search of new sensations. Probably most of us experimented with that part of our sexuality where control roles are given in major or lesser degree. My concern is more simple. When did we start considering it art? At what point we draw the line between doing an art piece and just satisfying some saddistic-opportunistic conduct of a sick photographer?(this one is gonna get a lot of smoke ;-) I'm not going to deny, there are some amazing shots of fetish here and generally on the web, where you can see a great production and professionalism. But in most cases I feel that I'm seeing the journal of some pervert psychopath. Of course I know I can just ignore it and not support it. The issue is beyond the excercise of freedom of speech. I just want to know if there's an ulterior motive. Maybe someone that practices this "art" can defend their expressions. I'm not sure if I'm expressing myself clearly. Anyway, it would be nice to continue discussing. Aug 08 05 10:19 pm Link if it was a sculpture would it be art? a performance piece? watercolor? video installation? look at the few pieces of my work that explore the subject, tame compared to most, and see if they have artistic merit. Art to me is a visceral (sp?) reaction to a piece be it two dimensional or three. Beauty, love, danger, sex, anything that makes us feel. Aug 08 05 10:33 pm Link Gabriel Rodz wrote: I have done some bondage photography since 2000, when a new model brought up the idea. I showed these first tied images to a few of my collectors, and some of them ordered prints. (I sold a tied image tonight on Ebay) Aug 09 05 12:41 am Link I've had some theories about bondage photos. Women models who go for that kind of modeling are strong character types in real life who have a firm grip on life. They go for bondage work to fullfill a visual need to see themselves submissive and not in control. Exactly the opposite of their real lives. Men who do bondage photography are probably very successful in life are financially secure and maybe own properties, businesses, etc. Their interest in bondage fits perfectly in their world where they pretty much have been in control of it and have some degree of power. The photography of bound women reflects the comfort and confidence they have with that degree of power, or could be the need to be in total power over the so-called, weaker. Man, heck if I know. Aug 09 05 12:50 am Link Sometimes my photographers have found that tying me up is a good way to keep me from moving during shoots. Oh, and I like it, and think it can be art. I have a lot of rope pics I have taken down because of the overdone aspect. However, as a jewelry designer, I can tell you that shibari (I have even tied myself up when bored, just to look at the shapes that happen when lines intersect human skin) can be a beautiful art form. As for the way it feels as opposed to the way it looks...that is a whole different world, and a whole different thread. For many 'lifestyle' bondage people, collections of women rigged up is just that, a collection of their hobby, documented. Also many pics of men bound, but somehow we don't see much of that on this heterosexual(ist?) portfolio site. Aug 09 05 12:59 am Link Gabriel Rodz wrote: Gabriel... for this fetish you need to look away from western society ["...When did we start considering it art?..."] to that of Japan. Rope bondage is a high art form in a segment of Japanese society. It has been practised as "living art" for many many years and rendered in photography and, before that, in paper art (painting, drawing, sketching) for several HUNDRED years. Aug 09 05 01:02 am Link Lapis wrote: Well I was planning something revolving around a man done up in shibari for our next shoot...But we've discussed before how hard it is to get a male "model" to do anything out of the [very] ordinary. Aug 09 05 03:47 am Link Hmmm...well having shot and sold bondage and fetish sets for years, long before it was trendy, I find most models treat it as just another shoot, others are into bondage and fetish stuff personally and it can be more involved, more elaborate ropework, tighter corsets higher shoes, etc. I've never had a model turn down a shoot, walkout, or not shoot with me again over these themes. The only thing I notice now is more of my stuff gets sold because it's a trendy thing and has a broader market. Paul Aug 10 05 07:54 pm Link Gabriel Rodz wrote: I'd be more than happy to discuss the motivations and emotions behind my own fetish work, but I really don't think you're interested in hearing them. The fact that you freely associate fetish/bondade imagery with words like "sick" and "sadistic" tells me that you are much more interested in hearing from people who share your pre-existing [negative] mindset rather than those of us who are different. Perhaps someone else will pick up the thread and engage you, but most of the people I know are no longer interested in this sort of debate/trap. Aug 10 05 08:58 pm Link Melvin Moten Jr wrote: Well said Melvin.... Aug 10 05 09:05 pm Link I like knots... I think a woman is a gift and I like my gifts wrapped... Having said that, yes there are increasing numbers of images, fetish... whatever you want to call it that are hateful... and reflective of an increasing attitude of misogyny towards women in society in general... liberal use of the word 'bitch" as a synonym for female is a symptom... and yes I am old enough to have seen this attitude devolve... I try to make my stuff erotic and aesthetically pleasing, that the model is almost caressed by her bondage... i'll leave the torture, dehumanizing to others and try not to be judgmental about it... but to some an image should shock and I guess ultimately that can be good... just so long as a basic humanity is respected. Now as far as all bondage/fetish work being "sick and sadistic"... it may not be for you, but to throw that kind of blanket over it indicates a real closedmindedness... I dare you to go to my page and then call what I do sadistic or sick... not your cup of tea perhaps... but I offer no apologies or excuses... and I seek to harm no one. Aug 10 05 09:16 pm Link Melvin Moten Jr wrote: I'm gonna have to disagree Melvin. Your work is one of those that I mentioned I like. Calling me close minded is very close minded from your part, and from Cyndie, for I have stated clearly, several times, that there's fetish work indeed that has artistic merit and I personally like. In your work there's a language. There's caring. There's production work. There's a difference between being different and wanting to be different, and you must know about that. You're an artist and we can see that in your portfolio. So if I'm gonna judge your work is going to be in a positive way. Aug 10 05 10:48 pm Link >>What I want to say is how offensive I find that people with no >>knowledge or interest whatsoever in art, suddenly get excited >>by tying and controlling people to satisfy their low esteem and >>then selling it as art. I hate to write anything because I dont think it will make a difference, but Ill try, soo here we go. To sum things up Gabriel, After reading all the other posts by Udo, Makayla, and Lapis, your opinion is still that bondage is only practiced by people with "low esteem". To me this does seem a little close minded Gabriel. Ohh, but Melvin dosent have "low esteem" because his work "is one of those that I mentioned I like". So It seems that if YOU like the work and YOU think its art then its ok, but if not it was done by a sick person with low esteem. The same thing can be said for the photographers that do bikini shoots and nude shoots just to see naked women, who otherwise probably never would. Id say there are a lot more photographers that fall into this category and that they are more of a "detriment of our craft" than anything else. I guess to sum it all up: I ENJOY women in bondage, women ENJOY being put in bondage(the women I know anyway), I ENJOY photography(It dosent matter whether Im good or bad). Whether or not its art is just everyone's own personal opinion. PS, You might want to do a little research on BDSM. It might help you to understand a little more of the pshycology involved. Aug 11 05 12:30 am Link The whole bondage/piercing/fetish thing is trendy in our culture and hence it gets reflected in photography. "All the cool kids are doing it." It's most definitely NOT a new thing. Bettie Page did bondage shoots 50 years ago. But it has become very trendy in the last 10 years or so and therefore you see it more often. Why has it become trendy? I have no idea. I could sit here and come up with 1001 theories like an armchair psychologist and try to explain away the thought-processes of our culture ... but why on earth would I waste my time with that? Aug 11 05 01:16 am Link Gabriel Rodz wrote: I get what you're saying, Gabriel (I think). Aug 11 05 01:27 am Link Aug 11 05 04:44 pm Link Again, well said Paul. I fall into the category that heavy bandage (hard Trade) is not my "cuppa .." But I believe that there is no set reason for anybody to do anything. You cannot totally dismiss the "loss of control" "Abuse of women" "Topping from the Bottom" or any other reason for these actions. There is the old joke, "My wife and I played Woreld War II last night. She dressed up like Poland and I inviaded her." You could just as easily ask why some people wear blue? Fashion? Passion? It's their color? It was HIS color? Some people who possess great control in their lives desire to experience the opposite as a release from the strain of being in charge. Others who great power secretly believe they are unworthy. The bondage, etc. brings them to that place they feel they belong. We all know beautiful women who are sure they are ugly, people just don't see the REAL them. Could this not feed into that. What about the constant barrage of anti-male images in our society? Who's always wrong or stupid in commercials, TV and movies? The white guy. Maybe this is a reaction to those whose constant degradation is accepted in our culture. The complex rope tricks? Could that also be the desire to bring order and precision to a chaotic world? Or, on the opposite side of the knot, the desire to have someone bring order to their life? I think the main reason I'm not into knots is that I was never a Boy Scout: I don't know a half-hitch from a ... uh. ... can't think of another knot, but you get my drift. I'm of the opinion that anything done by two consenting adults is cool and NUNYA! as in nunya damn business Aug 11 05 05:20 pm Link Gabriel Rodz wrote: Lots of crap is sold as art. In our capitalist system, the marketplace has as much to say about what is successful art as do critics...just look at all of that Thomas Kinkade stuff that was QVC big up until a few years ago. Aug 12 05 04:46 am Link Having grownup in the bible belt area of the midwest, where there is a church on every corner I could be damned by such images. Yet there is a place for just about everything out there, but if we grown in that we want clients to view this site for resource for hiring us we need to think how this is viewed upon us as a whole. It is not something I want to enforce, but it takes the sense of what we do down. Aug 12 05 05:11 am Link Eric Muss-Barnes wrote: It is not more trendy lately as it is more accepted therefore more photographers who have been shooting it all along are nolonger scared to exhibit their fetish photography work. Aug 12 05 05:21 am Link Alex Alexander wrote: I am a preachers kid, myself,lol. I never feared my family seeing anything I do. I have gotten plenty of compliments from my entire family about my nude work and some of them have some of my nude prints hanging on their walls as we speak. Aug 12 05 05:24 am Link Glamour Boulevard wrote: I think you've hit the nail on the head. One of the best things about the internet is that it's empowered and exposed thousands of fetish photographers and lifestylers to each other, allowing the artists to grow their work without fear and participants to explore their desires without stigma. The fact is, we've always been here, but the land-based "industry" chose to lock us out and marginalize us. Thanks to the internet, that's no longer possible, though many people seem to wish it was. Aug 12 05 06:34 am Link Disclaimer: I skimmed the responses in this thread, as I didn't want them to color my own comments too much. Several of the respondents have posted very insightful thoughts... Particularly the people that aren't "into" fetish or bondage photography. Udo was (as usual) particularly well spoken. As to the motivations behind my work? (Obviously, I enjoy bondage photography or my avatar would look a great deal different!) I found myself shooting bondage photography purely by accident... I had taken and posted several photos of my girlfriend on a bondage-related web site and people really liked the photos. Add a friend that asked me to escort her to FetCon last year and here we are... My goals are few - I want my bondage work to look significantly different than anyone else's; I want my models to feel as though the photos that I've taken capture them at their most beautiful; I want to take photos that are 'edgy' but NOT pornographic in any sense. I like the interplay of the light and shadow. The rope and the skin. The freedom and the restraint. The symmetry and the chaos. All of my work is done in a respectful fashion and I consider my model's comfort and experience to be the most important issue at any shoot. I hope that this bit of rambling was at least a bit helpful. E. Aug 12 05 09:47 pm Link Gabriel Rodz wrote: I think that fetish work "became art" around the same time that these types of photos (found in your portfolio)"became art". Same subjuect matter (sex), different viewpoint. Aug 13 05 08:39 am Link Hel Inferna wrote: I can state from personal experience that the idea of carrying liquid [wine, honey, saliva, chocolate, milk, etc] from one person's mouth to another looms large in the repetoire of many Domme/Dominas [both professional and lifestyle]. You're engaging in an intense bit of fetish content yourself...perhaps without realizing it...or is there another force at work behind this image? Aug 13 05 08:48 am Link I think that models who do bondage modeling, do it because it pays very very well. I wouldn't make any judgement about the model otherwise, any more than I'd judge a pro-football player who hurts people and gets hurt for a living! And we sit in arenas with 50,000 people cheering on the football players every time they inflict pain! Aug 13 05 09:02 am Link Dark Matter Zone wrote: You make a good point, but money isn't all that motivates people in fetish/erotic art. All of my work is done TFP/CD...the reasons my subjects work with me are as diverse and personal as the reasons photographers do this sort of thing. Aug 13 05 10:10 am Link Justin N Lane wrote: Does it? Aug 13 05 10:11 am Link Melvin Moten Jr wrote: Diffuse glow. Aug 13 05 10:21 am Link I do bondage and fetish work just to offend narrow minded people and make them uncomfortable. OK, OK...maybe not...but my two cents worth won't count for much I know however here I go, I don't have extensive bondage images but the ones I have I do consider unique and beautiful. I, for one, am motivated by art and by what I find moving. A reflection of my lifestyle...sure. But violent or demeaning...no. Do I do it for money...anyone that knows me can tell you definitely not. Do I ever make money from it, Of Course but that's definitely not my motivation. If you'll look at my limited bondage images you'll see that I look content...definitely not tortured! Aug 13 05 10:26 am Link Melvin Moten Jr wrote: I think the reason people work with Melvin is because he is one of the best photographers in the genré. Someday, his images will be coveted* in the same way people collect the prints of E. J. Bellocq. I've already started my collection of Melvin Moten Jr. prints, and I recommend that anyone interested in fine art erotica do the same. Aug 13 05 10:46 am Link Justin N Lane wrote: Hmmmm... I dunno about that. I can point to at least half a dozen producers here on MM that have very different styles and methods to their fetish photography (myself included.). Mine is pretty much the "Detective Magazine" cover style albeit with much simpler backgrounds. Melvin Moten's photos are darker, but again has more eroticism to it and his photos are more complicated. Viva Van Story's photos have a 1950s/1960s feel to them, although with some definite modern hints to them. Aug 13 05 11:02 pm Link Delete Aug 14 05 03:35 pm Link J Merrill Images wrote: But what if your partner really, really wants to be controlled? (Maybe just for an hour or two.) Aug 14 05 04:21 pm Link |