Forums > General Industry > What is "professional behaviour"?

Photographer

Zero Dean

Posts: 139

San Diego, California, US

I take my profession seriously. I wish more photographers did the same, but I think it's clear that many photographers are into photography for the wrong reasons.

I've repeatedly heard stories from models I've worked with about "creepy" photographers and basically others in the profession giving photographers a bad name due to unprofessional behaviour.

I'm sure this won't change, but it's clear simply from reading some of the shout box comments posted by photographers on this site that some of those creepy photographers are among us.

What "professional behaviour" is NOT (in my opinion):

PHOTOGRAPHERS:

- Hitting on models
- Using photography as a way to "find dates"
- Making lewd comments to models
- Touching models (without permission) during a shoot
- Using the "shout box" to post lewd comments, have sexually toned conversations, and talk about being aroused, etc. There's a time & a place for everything, but posting this stuff on a public site where it's recorded shows a lack of good judgement in my opinion.
- Continuously talking about how "hot" a model is (guys, if you're really affected by how hot a model is, maybe you should choose a different profession)

MODELS:

- Showing up late to photo shoots
- Cancelling photo shoots at the last minute
- Showing up to a shoot with wrinkled, lint, and hair infested clothing
- Partying the night before a glamour/fashion/beauty shoot & showing up haggard and unrested

I'm sure this will rile somebody up. Anyone care to comment?

I'm just baffled by the attitude and behaviour of those in this profession... and also by those who put up with it.

Apr 25 05 11:13 pm Link

Photographer

Steven Stone Photo

Posts: 315

Salt Lake City, Utah, US

Yeah...
Geez, models.  If you're going to party the night before, at least invite the shooters.
We like to get pissed, too.
A little professional consideration is all I'm asking for.

Apr 25 05 11:22 pm Link

Photographer

Herb Way

Posts: 1506

Black Mountain, North Carolina, US

There are at least as many nutcase and low life models as there are creepy photographer dawgs.  They deserve one another.  Wish they'd leave the rest of us alone.

Apr 26 05 12:07 am Link

Photographer

LaMarco

Posts: 904

Berwick, Maine, US

Ummmmmm! Have you not seem the shout box..LOL


Posted by Zero Dean: 
I take my profession seriously. I wish more photographers did the same, but I think it's clear that many photographers are into photography for the wrong reasons.

I've repeatedly heard stories from models I've worked with about "creepy" photographers and basically others in the profession giving photographers a bad name due to unprofessional behaviour.

I'm sure this won't change, but it's clear simply from reading some of the shout box comments posted by photographers on this site that some of those creepy photographers are among us.

What "professional behaviour" is NOT (in my opinion):

PHOTOGRAPHERS:

- Hitting on models
- Using photography as a way to "find dates"
- Making lewd comments to models
- Touching models (without permission) during a shoot
- Using the "shout box" to post lewd comments, have sexually toned conversations, and talk about being aroused, etc. There's a time & a place for everything.
- Continuously talking about how "hot" a model is (guys, if you're really affected by how hot a model is, maybe you should choose a different profession)

MODELS:

- Showing up late to photo shoots
- Cancelling photo shoots at the last minute
- Showing up to a shoot with wrinkled, lint, and hair infested clothing
- Partying the night before a shoot & showing up haggard and unrested

I'm sure this will rile somebody up. Anyone care to comment?

I'm just baffled by the attitude and behaviour of those in this profession... and also by those who put up with it.

Apr 26 05 12:10 am Link

Photographer

- null -

Posts: 4576

Actions are defined by context.

For example, most people would agree that grabbing a model and roughly pulling her towards you with some sexual motive during a shoot would be inappropriate...

But...

What if you were shooting on a loading dock and she slipped and started to fall off? Now, if you grab her and roughly pull her towards you it is VERY appropriate because your motive is to save her from breaking her neck.

So, again, actions are defined by context. Your motives are what make things right or wrong. It's not so much "what you do" as it is "why you are doing it" that makes behaviors appropriate or not.

Apr 26 05 02:47 am Link

Photographer

Jeremy Brotherton

Posts: 217

Dayton, Ohio, US

I don't know the style of photography I like If a model showed up after a party and looked haggard it would be fitting still.

Apr 26 05 05:03 am Link

Photographer

John Paul

Posts: 937

Schenectady, New York, US

Zero Dean,... again....I agree with every point you made!

  This is what I do as a profession, and I hear about some of the "others" who don't all the time..  Yep,... their names keep coming up... the stories are consistant.. and they are told by people who never met each other..  so I and my friends who are serious photographers, who all take this stuff seriously, we know who they are..and "they" know it..

  Some of the models who I've had the pleasure of working with are some of my closest friends, and I've never, nor will ever hit on any of them..


  JP

Apr 26 05 05:20 am Link

Model

Jenni

Posts: 189

Chicago, Illinois, US

I agree with all you said. I don't know HOW many times I've heard my girlfriends tell horror stories about photographers ( espeically on OMP) that theyve worked with.

I'd like to add to the list of unprofessional behavior for photograhers:
-Taking your clothes off during the shoot
-Telling the model how "hot" shes making you
(ESPECIALLY WHEN SHE'S UNDER AGE!)
- Telling the girl to do something shes not comfortable with that stupid line "I'll make you a star"


Apr 26 05 05:58 am Link

Photographer

not here anymore.

Posts: 1892

San Diego, California, US

This is modelmayhem, not onemodelplace.  There is a place to be professional and place to be casual.  Since when was model mayhem a professional website?

It's funny, because I noticed that I do some of those things that you've mentioned that are so unprofessional.  If I were so unprofessional, why do I have so many models wanting to work with me?  I have the next 3 months fully booked with girls all around the damn country.  Some with major clients like the W Hotel and some local casinos in vicinity.

If you can do it and get away with it, why not?  I mean, I guess some people haven't got out in a while.  Ever been to industry parties and what not?  You're fucking with the industry.  You can't change it, work with it.

Hell, I used to manage a couple of models.  As a manager, it's my duty to weed out the scumbags that contact them.  Even the guys of FHM and Maxim hit on the models.  I don't hate!  lol I guess we do things different in the city.

Anyways, I'm in a happy relationship with my current girlfriend.  We have a kid together and live together and she's also a photographer herself.  Life is great isn't it?

Apr 26 05 07:09 am Link

Model

Cyndiemyst

Posts: 635

Newark, New Jersey, US

Ick....and I have run into some of these said creeps on both sides of the card.Tho no one has been stupid enough to touch me(they know I will not only hurt them physically but mentally as well) I wont publicly say anything about them...but..if I am asked for a referral I will not pretty it up,I am known to be brutally honest:)
My fiancee makes sure that  if we have a bondage shoot,I tie her.This way there is no "he touched me here" or an uncomfortable feeling.
There is now way you will see a flake coming,but if you are aware of who and what you are shooting before the fact,it can save a bunch of trouble.
Models who write to you over and over about shooting,call you "sweetie" and book with you just to no show no call are all out there....and they will find you:)

Apr 26 05 07:44 am Link

Photographer

Shawn Kuck

Posts: 407

Columbia, Tennessee, US

Posted by Jenni: 

I'd like to add to the list of unprofessional behavior for photograhers:
-Taking your clothes off during the shoot
-Telling the model how "hot" shes making you
(ESPECIALLY WHEN SHE'S UNDER AGE!)
- Telling the girl to do something shes not comfortable with that stupid line "I'll make you a star"


Taking your clothes off during the shoot? does that happen?

WowI need to get lessons from some of these guys. LMAO

Ohhhyeah I remember why I came in here. Some of us take ourselves a little too seriously.

Shawn

Apr 26 05 08:36 am Link

Photographer

Zero Dean

Posts: 139

San Diego, California, US

(Visual M  - First, I like your work. You have a great eye. I also appreciate your comments, though I don't entirely agree with your perspective. But whatever, it's cool.)

This may or may not be a site geared towards professionals, but I think if one is representing themselves as being in a profession, particularly a site where there are links to your work amongst hundreds of your peers and potential clients, there is a certain expectation that one conduct themselves with a certain level of professionalism.

What one does in the privacy of a chatroom is one thing, but posting certain "innappropriate" comments to a public web site/page, while at the same time essentially wearing a "Hi, my name is [name], and I'm a photographer" tag is unprofessional and shows a certain lack of maturity.

There will always be people who can get away with innappropriate behaviour and still get work. Serial killers do what they do because they can get away with it, too. That doesn't make it right.

I also think that anyone with the attitude, "If I can get away with it, why not?" tends to lose some credibility. For example, I'm less likely to give someone the benefit of the doubt when they admit something like that and then they make points about how in demand they are.

VM, I'm not saying you're not fully booked for 3 months. Hell, you could be fully booked for 6 months and that'd be great and you have my respect for whatever it is you do that puts you in that position. Obviously if you're fully booked for 3 months, you must be doing something right.

I'm just saying that you lose some credibility when you openly admit to endorsing unprofessional behaviour and do so because you can "get away with it".

In any case, we may not agree on everything, but I wish you well and look forward to seeing more of your work.

I don't take life too seriously (god, my name is Zero, how could I?), but I do take my profession seriously. Why? Because this is my sole source of income and how I make a living. This is how I pay my bills and what I struggle to improve my skills with each time a take a picture.

People who are not doing photography as their sole source of income simply do not have the same perspective about it as those who do. I've invested 10's of thousands of dollars for the equipment I own and I pay a good chunk of change each month for the studio space I have. And I pay insurance for that space and liability for my clients while they are in that space. And when all is said and done, 30% of my income goes directly to taxes.

I don't care how good you are, it's always a challenge when you are making it as a self-employed/freelance photographer. This is also one of the things I love about it.

What I don't like is seeing people being taken advantage of or my clients getting into situations with other photographers that reflect badly on the rest of us. In turn, it makes what I do more difficult.

Do I think posting a few lines in the forums here is going to make a bit of difference anywhere? No. Am I so self-important that I think anyone is really going to care? Hell no. This is the internet. wink All the models here are probably 60 year old men anyway... and the photographers teenage boys.

But I at least figured it'd at least be an interesting conversation and it's always cool to read about other experiences and I appreciate everyone's input, regardless of whether I agree with it or not. Respect.

Apr 26 05 08:54 am Link

Photographer

- null -

Posts: 4576

Aw, man. I had such an articulate reply earlier in this thread and no one commented on it.

Where's the love?

(smirk)

Apr 26 05 09:50 am Link

Makeup Artist

Reese

Posts: 1136

Newport News, Virginia, US

Posted by EricMuss-Barnes: 
Aw, man. I had such an articulate reply earlier in this thread and no one commented on it.

Where's the love?

(smirk)

::::showing some love::::


I thought it was a good response ('course though...I'm a no-body.)

Apr 26 05 09:55 am Link

Model

McKenzie

Posts: 310

Fort Myers, Florida, US

Posted by Zero Dean: 
I take my profession seriously. I wish more photographers did the same, but I think it's clear that many photographers are into photography for the wrong reasons.

I've repeatedly heard stories from models I've worked with about "creepy" photographers and basically others in the profession giving photographers a bad name due to unprofessional behaviour.

I'm sure this won't change, but it's clear simply from reading some of the shout box comments posted by photographers on this site that some of those creepy photographers are among us.

What "professional behaviour" is NOT (in my opinion):

PHOTOGRAPHERS:

- Hitting on models
- Using photography as a way to "find dates"
- Making lewd comments to models
- Touching models (without permission) during a shoot
- Using the "shout box" to post lewd comments, have sexually toned conversations, and talk about being aroused, etc. There's a time & a place for everything, but posting this stuff on a public site where it's recorded shows a lack of good judgement in my opinion.
- Continuously talking about how "hot" a model is (guys, if you're really affected by how hot a model is, maybe you should choose a different profession)

MODELS:

- Showing up late to photo shoots
- Cancelling photo shoots at the last minute
- Showing up to a shoot with wrinkled, lint, and hair infested clothing
- Partying the night before a glamour/fashion/beauty shoot & showing up haggard and unrested

I'm sure this will rile somebody up. Anyone care to comment?

I'm just baffled by the attitude and behaviour of those in this profession... and also by those who put up with it.

I care to comment on this!!!!  Yes, there are both bad or "creepy" photographers out there and models who really don't give shit about their career.  I on the other hand do care about my career and take it very seriously.  I am a mother, a wife, a model, help with my husbands business and right now also working back at the law firm temporarily, because of a secretary being out.  Remembering that I haven't worked at that firm for over a year and had trained the secretary 2 years prior.  I obviously have responsibility.  My husband's business we have employees and I swear it is like "babysitting", non dependable people, people who don't care, it seems like it is in every business or company out there.  You just have to "weed" those kinds of people out.  Another key factor in this is COMMUNICATION.  And I don't mean an email here and an email there.  I mean talking on the phone, human relations and asking in depth questions whether you are a photographer OR a model. 

   Photographers need to start weeding out the models who just do this for fun, or have no goal whatsoever in this kind of career path.  Models who are not serious and do this without goals, should step down and go do something else.    Models who do those things mentioned above, make it harder for the ones who are very serious, and go out there and pursue this career aggressively.  Models who do care should always take someone with them to a shoot, especially since there are those "creepy" photographers out there.  It all really goes back to communication, which in many cases, is the key to a lot of things.  Instinct in also good, if you don't mesh well enough through communication, odds are it isn't going to work out.  If you have any doubts about a shoot, don't do it.  It will show in the images!!  Anyway, I had to respond to this posting.  It is an ongoing problem with both photographers and models.  And to be honest, there are bad on both sides. 

McKenzie 

Apr 26 05 10:00 am Link

Photographer

- null -

Posts: 4576

Posted by McKenzie: 
Photographers need to start weeding out the models who just do this for fun, or have no goal whatsoever in this kind of career path.  Models who are not serious and do this without goals, should step down and go do something else.

Surely you're not suggesting that people should stop modeling as a hobby? What about models and photographers who say, "I just do this for fun. I'm not looking to make a career out of it."

Are you saying that such people shouldn't be allowed to do that? That the only people who should be models and photographers are the ones who want to make a living off of it?

Apr 26 05 10:27 am Link

Model

McKenzie

Posts: 310

Fort Myers, Florida, US

No, but that is a good comeback question!  I think that is the non-serious people that are going to model are going to do this..and if for fun fine....BUT, they should treat this seriously with communication and respect to photographers.  The no shows, no calling if things change etc, and if they can't treat it seriously (even if they are doing this as a hobby) and not being professional about it, then yes, they need to step away.  They can have fun doing something, but still have a professional attitude to go with it.  Same with photographers.  Whether hobby or serious in both directions, you still have to have some kind of professionalism, communication and maturity behind it.

McKenzie

McKenzie

Apr 26 05 10:36 am Link

Photographer

Michael Barrett

Posts: 1149

Upland, California, US

You definitely have to figure out how your going to operate on your own. Whether your a model of photographer. Both sides should be as professional as possible on the job. But also remember that both of you are consenting adults as well. I've been hit on as a photographer, being asked by models for drinks after a shoot. Truthfully there are models I've been attracted to as well, but I don't cross the line for a number of reasons. A mentor of mine told this and it has stuck with me, You're going to fall in love every shoot, even if it's for 2 seconds, you wouldn't be shooting this woman if you didn't find her attractive, BUT never date a model, NEVER, because if you do and one day your relationship goes sour, you're finished. Because if she bad mouths you on the web...well it comes down to your word against hers. You can't win. So I don't play.

Apr 26 05 10:57 am Link

Makeup Artist

Reese

Posts: 1136

Newport News, Virginia, US

subliminal message:

"Emulate Reese... Reese is cool..."

"Reese is your friend..." 

"Do as Reese does..." 

::::Reese demonstrates best used car salesman smile:::::

"You can trust Reese..."

Apr 26 05 02:24 pm Link

Photographer

Brian Kim

Posts: 508

Honolulu, Hawaii, US

Okay, let's see, inser sarcasm here...

"Trust me, I'm a doctor! Now get naked..."

Yeah, palm licker photogs make everyone look bad. It's agreed. (best Master Chang accent) "Grasshopper, there is no defense agianst such and attack."

Funniest horror story I have to tell, client sends me his kid to be light guy on a shoot. Normally, won't do it, but the client assures me that his son will be on his best behavior, wants to be a photographer, yadda, yadda, I cave in like the money grubbing whore that I am.

As one might expest, the kid is hitting on the models, not keeping the reflector right, basically being a pain in the ass. Classic. I sent him home. Right there, while he's kolding the reflector, trying to make time with the model, stopped the shoot and sent him home. He complains, "But my Dad..." yeah, that didn't fly right. I get a call that afternoon from the client apologising. Apparently the kid went home complaining and Pops cussed him out for having to be sent home. At  least I didn't have to defend sending the kid home. From that point on, I provide my own grips and lightmasters.

You guys can check my pics, last year I was paid to shoot Nikki Cash (import model) for a party promotion/club promotion company. After we were done shooting, the guys that hired me wanted their pictures taken with her. Fine whatever. Then they asked if my grip or I wanted them to take a shot of us with Nikki. In unison we both said "No, that's okay." Eh, wankers.

Apr 26 05 03:28 pm Link

Photographer

udor

Posts: 25255

New York, New York, US

Posted by Zero Dean:
What "professional behaviour" is NOT (in my opinion):

PHOTOGRAPHERS:

- Hitting on models

Oh crap! What to do, what to do?

When I am at shoots or fashionshows... there are several models I know for quite a while now... we flirt, we hit on each other, we laugh... we tease...

During breaks, those friends (yeah, we all became friends over time) lean on me, coming over kiss me on my cheeks, just for fun...

It's a great atmosphere, it's fun and playfull... now I have to remind them that they can't do that to me anymore, and I won't flirt and tease anymore either, because I want to be a professional and just can't take that lovie dovie stuff anymore.

Apr 26 05 03:43 pm Link

Photographer

not here anymore.

Posts: 1892

San Diego, California, US

Posted by Zero Dean: 
(Visual M  - First, I like your work. You have a great eye. I also appreciate your comments, though I don't entirely agree with your perspective. But whatever, it's cool.)

This may or may not be a site geared towards professionals, but I think if one is representing themselves as being in a profession, particularly a site where there are links to your work amongst hundreds of your peers and potential clients, there is a certain expectation that one conduct themselves with a certain level of professionalism.

What one does in the privacy of a chatroom is one thing, but posting certain "innappropriate" comments to a public web site/page, while at the same time essentially wearing a "Hi, my name is [name], and I'm a photographer" tag is unprofessional and shows a certain lack of maturity.

There will always be people who can get away with innappropriate behaviour and still get work. Serial killers do what they do because they can get away with it, too. That doesn't make it right.

I also think that anyone with the attitude, "If I can get away with it, why not?" tends to lose some credibility. For example, I'm less likely to give someone the benefit of the doubt when they admit something like that and then they make points about how in demand they are.

VM, I'm not saying you're not fully booked for 3 months. Hell, you could be fully booked for 6 months and that'd be great and you have my respect for whatever it is you do that puts you in that position. Obviously if you're fully booked for 3 months, you must be doing something right.

I'm just saying that you lose some credibility when you openly admit to endorsing unprofessional behaviour and do so because you can "get away with it".

In any case, we may not agree on everything, but I wish you well and look forward to seeing more of your work.

I don't take life too seriously (god, my name is Zero, how could I?), but I do take my profession seriously. Why? Because this is my sole source of income and how I make a living. This is how I pay my bills and what I struggle to improve my skills with each time a take a picture.

People who are not doing photography as their sole source of income simply do not have the same perspective about it as those who do. I've invested 10's of thousands of dollars for the equipment I own and I pay a good chunk of change each month for the studio space I have. And I pay insurance for that space and liability for my clients while they are in that space. And when all is said and done, 30% of my income goes directly to taxes.

I don't care how good you are, it's always a challenge when you are making it as a self-employed/freelance photographer. This is also one of the things I love about it.

What I don't like is seeing people being taken advantage of or my clients getting into situations with other photographers that reflect badly on the rest of us. In turn, it makes what I do more difficult.

Do I think posting a few lines in the forums here is going to make a bit of difference anywhere? No. Am I so self-important that I think anyone is really going to care? Hell no. This is the internet. wink All the models here are probably 60 year old men anyway... and the photographers teenage boys.

But I at least figured it'd at least be an interesting conversation and it's always cool to read about other experiences and I appreciate everyone's input, regardless of whether I agree with it or not. Respect.

I'm a lunch break from work and I have to make this quick.  I was thinking about what I said and in no way to I condone such behavior.  I mean, some people could get away with it.  People just know that's the way I just am online.  In person, it's a different story.  I'm a total professional, which is why I'm always getting work and I never have any problems with anyone.  I know some people find my actions irritable, but who cares.  I've never had a complaint from a model once.  The only people that complain are photographers. 

Anyways, to make a long story short.  Not anyone could get away being like me.  Especially if you're old.  Please please don't try this at home.

By the way, some people just look like creeps.  Don't try to fit the profile.

Another thing, I don't hit on or flirt with models.  It's called having good public relations.

Apr 26 05 04:28 pm Link

Model

Megan Melinda

Posts: 3

Los Angeles, California, US

It's one thing if the photographer tells the model she looks hot and is a little flirty to lighten the mood, but it's another thing to try to get a girl to go to meet you at a hotel or something because they will "make you a star" or whatever. whether that person has the power to get you somewhere or not, no one should ever have to be put in that situation to get anywhere. If that's how this industry really is, than why bother to try and get anywhere if everything is going to be uncomfortable.

And photographers, if your professional, you would know not to make a model uncomfortable and if you want models to be friendly like give you a hug, don't ask for a hug!! You have to earn that respect and that friendship w/o having to push it on someone.

And as for models being late or skipping out and all of those things... well, you know that will only backfire on the model anyway so why bother complaining? I have a friend who is a very beautiful model but she has skipped out on so many things and gone late or just didn't bother to call back again and she will never go anywhere b/c of of her behavior but that's her own fault. Eventually no one will want to work with her at all.

Apr 26 05 04:45 pm Link

Photographer

Zero Dean

Posts: 139

San Diego, California, US

Posted by Udo R Photography: 

When I am at shoots or fashionshows... there are several models I know for quite a while now... we flirt, we hit on each other, we laugh... we tease...

During breaks, those friends (yeah, we all became friends over time) lean on me, coming over kiss me on my cheeks, just for fun...

It's a great atmosphere, it's fun and playfull...

I am sure several recipients of lawsuits for sexual harrassment considered their behaviour "fun and playful" at the time also. Try telling that to the judge.

This aint the corporate world, but it doesn't mean you can't be slapped with a lawsuit anyway.

What you do with your friends is one thing, what you do with your clients is another. If you are in a position to be friends with your clients, that's great, but it's a fine line.

To each their own, but I stand by my comment that hitting on models is not professional behaviour.

I know of a part-time photographer that was a nurse as well as a "certified masseus" (so he claimed). The "nurse" part made models trust him (a male nurse, how "sensitive")... and the "masseus" claim definitely came in handy when we offered to rub down the models to help them relax. I'm sure he felt he was just being a friend also.

What happened to the guy? He was finally reported to the police by a parent of one of the under age models he worked with... and during the investigation that ensued, several models were contacted concerning his behaviour and they discovered it was wide-spread and it was worse than most people suspected.

He also made a habit of taping his models during his studio shoots (for his "protection", he claimed), but would let the the camera run while the girls were changing in the studio (he encouraged this by asking if they wanted to change and then he'd leave the room while they did so).

Come to find out, the name he was using wasn't even his real name and he had a previous record.

I don't know what happened to the guy. He basically disappeared. Funny thing is, he was married and ran the studio out of his own home. He also did weddings. Seemed pretty legit.

I met him once (did a group shoot with him once). He seemed like a nice enough guy. Gave off a bit of a weird vibe  though... like something just wasn't quite right with the guy.

Never worked with him again.

Apr 26 05 04:50 pm Link

Photographer

Mgaphoto

Posts: 4982

San Diego, California, US

Posted by * Visual Mindscapes *: 
If you can do it and get away with it, why not?  I mean, I guess some people haven't got out in a while.  Ever been to industry parties and what not?  You're fucking with the industry.  You can't change it, work with it.

I would agree with Dean that you are going to get whacked in the nuts one day by a model who doesn't think the same way as you.

Apr 26 05 05:00 pm Link

Photographer

udor

Posts: 25255

New York, New York, US

Posted by Zero Dean: 

Posted by Udo R Photography: 

When I am at shoots or fashionshows... there are several models I know for quite a while now... we flirt, we hit on each other, we laugh... we tease...

During breaks, those friends (yeah, we all became friends over time) lean on me, coming over kiss me on my cheeks, just for fun...

It's a great atmosphere, it's fun and playfull...

I am sure several recipients of lawsuits for sexual harrassment considered their behaviour "fun and playful" at the time also. Try telling that to the judge.

This aint the corporate world, but it doesn't mean you can't be slapped with a lawsuit anyway.

What you do with your friends is one thing, what you do with your clients is another. If you are in a position to be friends with your clients, that's great, but it's a fine line.

To each their own, but I stand by my comment that hitting on models is not professional behaviour.

Well... I am not the one who "starts" this kind of behavious and if you take a look at my comments on my profile, from models I work at those shows... then you will see what I mean.

I think you are jumping the fence here a little bit too fast, at least what concerns me.

I NEVER EVER, make any kind of suggestions, or promises as NoirHalo described.

Fact is that people feel very comfortable around me and that is a reason why I am so good at portraiture. I don't put any pressure on anybody and respect all the people around me...

I am VERY sensitised to sexual harrassment situations, since I used to be a corporate CEO... for a long time...

I will never do anything even remotely, even physical contact with any girl that is not one of my friends and otherwise keep a lot of distance...

The line is not as fine as you think it is... it's only fine if you are oblivious about the law and about feelings and boundaries of other people... basically, if you are not truly professional.

Also... I am not a "chick photographer", I am more interested in faces of people, instead of half nekkid bodies!

I love photography and portraits of people that are interesting. Fashion and runway photography is only ONE segment of what I am doing. And that part works just fine the way how it is.

Apr 26 05 05:00 pm Link

Photographer

Zero Dean

Posts: 139

San Diego, California, US

Udo - no disrespect intended. I do think that if you are friends with several (or any) of your clients, that's a good thing.

Having some kind of connection with a client definitely helps a shoot go better and most often raises the quality of the work from both.

My point was not directly aimed at you. I just think it's a fine line when one treats their clients as friends.

As EricMuss-Barnes so eloquently put, "Actions are defined by context". So it all depends on the situation.

I've worked with a few models repeatedly as well. You get to know people, that's part of the fun of the job, and fun & friendly interaction can be a real pleasure during a shoot.

But obviously things I would say to someone during the first shoot would be quite different than someone I'd had an extended working relationship with and had gotten to know on a more "friend" level. I'm sure it's the same with you.

I wasn't suggesting you are doing anything wrong. Obviously if you are getting great shots and your clients are at-ease when working with you (and working with you repeatedly), that's a good thing.

Apr 26 05 05:20 pm Link

Photographer

udor

Posts: 25255

New York, New York, US

Posted by Zero Dean: 
Udo - no disrespect intended.
But obviously things I would say to someone during the first shoot would be quite different than someone I'd had an extended working relationship with.

Exactly... things have to be handled according to the situation, and as you can see at the comments I am getting... I do know pretty well how to handle myself... LOL

What Noir wrote, is actually exactly what kind of behaviour I was thinking of reading your post.

Unfortunately... there are photographers who are using that artform and craft as a ticket to get laid.

Apr 26 05 05:25 pm Link

Photographer

not here anymore.

Posts: 1892

San Diego, California, US

Posted by MGAphoto (ANT): 
I would agree with Dean that you are going to get whacked in the nuts one day by a model who doesn't think the same way as you.

I don't come on to models, so there is no reason to get whacked in the nuts.

Me and a few photographers have told models to shut up in the past.  We've also told a few models that they were acting like bitches.  The wierdest thing about it, is that it just turned them on, lol.  Anyways, I have no problem with telling models no.  I have total self control.

Apr 26 05 07:00 pm Link

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Posts: 4576

Posted by McKenzie: 
No, but that is a good comeback question!  I think that is the non-serious people that are going to model are going to do this..and if for fun fine....BUT, they should treat this seriously with communication and respect to photographers.  The no shows, no calling if things change etc, and if they can't treat it seriously (even if they are doing this as a hobby) and not being professional about it, then yes, they need to step away.  They can have fun doing something, but still have a professional attitude to go with it.  Same with photographers.  Whether hobby or serious in both directions, you still have to have some kind of professionalism, communication and maturity behind it.

Ohhhhh. Thanks for clarifying. Yes, I agree with you 1000% there. Even if a shoot is "just for fun" the no-shows and last-minute-cancellations are just plain rude.

Even if models and photographers are total newbie amatures, just out having fun, they need to treat each other with a respectful professionalism by returning calls and not flaking and things like that. Yeah. I agree with you completely once you clarified it.

Apr 26 05 08:23 pm Link

Model

theda

Posts: 21719

New York, New York, US

Posted by Jenni: 
I'd like to add to the list of unprofessional behavior for photograhers:
-Taking your clothes off during the shoot

Ha! I had that happen once. It was actually pretty funny. It's a photographer I'm pretty good friends with. We were shooting some silly stuff in his bathroom and he said he wanted to shoot some naded. I said "Okay. you can get if you really want." And then we were both too stubborn to call the other out.

For future reference, this is not something I would appreciate at most shoots.

Apr 27 05 01:53 am Link

Makeup Artist

Reese

Posts: 1136

Newport News, Virginia, US

Posted by Brian Kim: 
Okay, let's see, inser sarcasm here...

"Trust me, I'm a doctor! Now get naked..."

Yeah, palm licker photogs make everyone look bad. It's agreed. (best Master Chang accent) "Grasshopper, there is no defense agianst such and attack."

::::Reese has dead look on her face as she begins taking off clothes::::

Apr 28 05 11:05 am Link

Photographer

not here anymore.

Posts: 1892

San Diego, California, US

Posted by theda: 
I had that happen once. It was actually pretty funny. It's a photographer I'm pretty good friends with. We were shooting some silly stuff in his bathroom and he said he wanted to shoot some naded.

I always joked around about shooting naked.  Didn't think other people had the same idea I had.  lol

Apr 28 05 01:51 pm Link

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WASH-HI PHOTO

Posts: 174

Honolulu, Hawaii, US

Professional behavior by the photographer is based on mutual respect and principle'd conduct by both.  A lousy photographer shoots you as you are, a good one--as you would like to be, but a great photographer shoots you--as you wish you were!  You cannot reach that level of interconnected spirits by being coldly or bluntly being Mr. proper and polite.  You connect, you understand each other, you share insight, laughter, and passion, and you shoot...or you are wasting both your times.  In 30 years of photography I have never touched a model even to reposition a lock of hair. 

Apr 28 05 05:01 pm Link

Photographer

Zero Dean

Posts: 139

San Diego, California, US

Posted by Washphoto: 
A lousy photographer shoots you as you are, a good one--as you would like to be, but a great photographer shoots you--as you wish you were!  You cannot reach that level of interconnected spirits by being coldly or bluntly being Mr. proper and polite.  You connect, you understand each other, you share insight, laughter, and passion, and you shoot...

Extremely well said. I agree entirely.

Apr 28 05 05:16 pm Link