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What is "professional behaviour"?
I take my profession seriously. I wish more photographers did the same, but I think it's clear that many photographers are into photography for the wrong reasons. I've repeatedly heard stories from models I've worked with about "creepy" photographers and basically others in the profession giving photographers a bad name due to unprofessional behaviour. I'm sure this won't change, but it's clear simply from reading some of the shout box comments posted by photographers on this site that some of those creepy photographers are among us. What "professional behaviour" is NOT (in my opinion): PHOTOGRAPHERS: - Hitting on models - Using photography as a way to "find dates" - Making lewd comments to models - Touching models (without permission) during a shoot - Using the "shout box" to post lewd comments, have sexually toned conversations, and talk about being aroused, etc. There's a time & a place for everything, but posting this stuff on a public site where it's recorded shows a lack of good judgement in my opinion. - Continuously talking about how "hot" a model is (guys, if you're really affected by how hot a model is, maybe you should choose a different profession) MODELS: - Showing up late to photo shoots - Cancelling photo shoots at the last minute - Showing up to a shoot with wrinkled, lint, and hair infested clothing - Partying the night before a glamour/fashion/beauty shoot & showing up haggard and unrested I'm sure this will rile somebody up. Anyone care to comment? I'm just baffled by the attitude and behaviour of those in this profession... and also by those who put up with it. Apr 25 05 11:13 pm Link Yeah... Geez, models. If you're going to party the night before, at least invite the shooters. We like to get pissed, too. A little professional consideration is all I'm asking for. Apr 25 05 11:22 pm Link There are at least as many nutcase and low life models as there are creepy photographer dawgs. They deserve one another. Wish they'd leave the rest of us alone. Apr 26 05 12:07 am Link Ummmmmm! Have you not seem the shout box..LOL Posted by Zero Dean: Apr 26 05 12:10 am Link Actions are defined by context. For example, most people would agree that grabbing a model and roughly pulling her towards you with some sexual motive during a shoot would be inappropriate... But... What if you were shooting on a loading dock and she slipped and started to fall off? Now, if you grab her and roughly pull her towards you it is VERY appropriate because your motive is to save her from breaking her neck. So, again, actions are defined by context. Your motives are what make things right or wrong. It's not so much "what you do" as it is "why you are doing it" that makes behaviors appropriate or not. Apr 26 05 02:47 am Link I don't know the style of photography I like If a model showed up after a party and looked haggard it would be fitting still. Apr 26 05 05:03 am Link Zero Dean,... again....I agree with every point you made! This is what I do as a profession, and I hear about some of the "others" who don't all the time.. Yep,... their names keep coming up... the stories are consistant.. and they are told by people who never met each other.. so I and my friends who are serious photographers, who all take this stuff seriously, we know who they are..and "they" know it.. Some of the models who I've had the pleasure of working with are some of my closest friends, and I've never, nor will ever hit on any of them.. JP Apr 26 05 05:20 am Link I agree with all you said. I don't know HOW many times I've heard my girlfriends tell horror stories about photographers ( espeically on OMP) that theyve worked with. I'd like to add to the list of unprofessional behavior for photograhers: -Taking your clothes off during the shoot -Telling the model how "hot" shes making you (ESPECIALLY WHEN SHE'S UNDER AGE!) - Telling the girl to do something shes not comfortable with that stupid line "I'll make you a star" Apr 26 05 05:58 am Link This is modelmayhem, not onemodelplace. There is a place to be professional and place to be casual. Since when was model mayhem a professional website? It's funny, because I noticed that I do some of those things that you've mentioned that are so unprofessional. If I were so unprofessional, why do I have so many models wanting to work with me? I have the next 3 months fully booked with girls all around the damn country. Some with major clients like the W Hotel and some local casinos in vicinity. If you can do it and get away with it, why not? I mean, I guess some people haven't got out in a while. Ever been to industry parties and what not? You're fucking with the industry. You can't change it, work with it. Hell, I used to manage a couple of models. As a manager, it's my duty to weed out the scumbags that contact them. Even the guys of FHM and Maxim hit on the models. I don't hate! lol I guess we do things different in the city. Anyways, I'm in a happy relationship with my current girlfriend. We have a kid together and live together and she's also a photographer herself. Life is great isn't it? Apr 26 05 07:09 am Link Ick....and I have run into some of these said creeps on both sides of the card.Tho no one has been stupid enough to touch me(they know I will not only hurt them physically but mentally as well) I wont publicly say anything about them...but..if I am asked for a referral I will not pretty it up,I am known to be brutally honest:) My fiancee makes sure that if we have a bondage shoot,I tie her.This way there is no "he touched me here" or an uncomfortable feeling. There is now way you will see a flake coming,but if you are aware of who and what you are shooting before the fact,it can save a bunch of trouble. Models who write to you over and over about shooting,call you "sweetie" and book with you just to no show no call are all out there....and they will find you:) Apr 26 05 07:44 am Link Posted by Jenni: Taking your clothes off during the shoot? does that happen? Apr 26 05 08:36 am Link (Visual M - First, I like your work. You have a great eye. I also appreciate your comments, though I don't entirely agree with your perspective. But whatever, it's cool.) This may or may not be a site geared towards professionals, but I think if one is representing themselves as being in a profession, particularly a site where there are links to your work amongst hundreds of your peers and potential clients, there is a certain expectation that one conduct themselves with a certain level of professionalism. What one does in the privacy of a chatroom is one thing, but posting certain "innappropriate" comments to a public web site/page, while at the same time essentially wearing a "Hi, my name is [name], and I'm a photographer" tag is unprofessional and shows a certain lack of maturity. There will always be people who can get away with innappropriate behaviour and still get work. Serial killers do what they do because they can get away with it, too. That doesn't make it right. I also think that anyone with the attitude, "If I can get away with it, why not?" tends to lose some credibility. For example, I'm less likely to give someone the benefit of the doubt when they admit something like that and then they make points about how in demand they are. VM, I'm not saying you're not fully booked for 3 months. Hell, you could be fully booked for 6 months and that'd be great and you have my respect for whatever it is you do that puts you in that position. Obviously if you're fully booked for 3 months, you must be doing something right. I'm just saying that you lose some credibility when you openly admit to endorsing unprofessional behaviour and do so because you can "get away with it". In any case, we may not agree on everything, but I wish you well and look forward to seeing more of your work. I don't take life too seriously (god, my name is Zero, how could I?), but I do take my profession seriously. Why? Because this is my sole source of income and how I make a living. This is how I pay my bills and what I struggle to improve my skills with each time a take a picture. People who are not doing photography as their sole source of income simply do not have the same perspective about it as those who do. I've invested 10's of thousands of dollars for the equipment I own and I pay a good chunk of change each month for the studio space I have. And I pay insurance for that space and liability for my clients while they are in that space. And when all is said and done, 30% of my income goes directly to taxes. I don't care how good you are, it's always a challenge when you are making it as a self-employed/freelance photographer. This is also one of the things I love about it. What I don't like is seeing people being taken advantage of or my clients getting into situations with other photographers that reflect badly on the rest of us. In turn, it makes what I do more difficult. Do I think posting a few lines in the forums here is going to make a bit of difference anywhere? No. Am I so self-important that I think anyone is really going to care? Hell no. This is the internet. ![]() But I at least figured it'd at least be an interesting conversation and it's always cool to read about other experiences and I appreciate everyone's input, regardless of whether I agree with it or not. Respect. Apr 26 05 08:54 am Link Aw, man. I had such an articulate reply earlier in this thread and no one commented on it. Where's the love? (smirk) Apr 26 05 09:50 am Link Posted by EricMuss-Barnes: ::::showing some love:::: Apr 26 05 09:55 am Link Posted by Zero Dean: I care to comment on this!!!! Yes, there are both bad or "creepy" photographers out there and models who really don't give shit about their career. I on the other hand do care about my career and take it very seriously. I am a mother, a wife, a model, help with my husbands business and right now also working back at the law firm temporarily, because of a secretary being out. Remembering that I haven't worked at that firm for over a year and had trained the secretary 2 years prior. I obviously have responsibility. My husband's business we have employees and I swear it is like "babysitting", non dependable people, people who don't care, it seems like it is in every business or company out there. You just have to "weed" those kinds of people out. Another key factor in this is COMMUNICATION. And I don't mean an email here and an email there. I mean talking on the phone, human relations and asking in depth questions whether you are a photographer OR a model. Apr 26 05 10:00 am Link Posted by McKenzie: Surely you're not suggesting that people should stop modeling as a hobby? What about models and photographers who say, "I just do this for fun. I'm not looking to make a career out of it." Apr 26 05 10:27 am Link No, but that is a good comeback question! I think that is the non-serious people that are going to model are going to do this..and if for fun fine....BUT, they should treat this seriously with communication and respect to photographers. The no shows, no calling if things change etc, and if they can't treat it seriously (even if they are doing this as a hobby) and not being professional about it, then yes, they need to step away. They can have fun doing something, but still have a professional attitude to go with it. Same with photographers. Whether hobby or serious in both directions, you still have to have some kind of professionalism, communication and maturity behind it. McKenzie McKenzie Apr 26 05 10:36 am Link You definitely have to figure out how your going to operate on your own. Whether your a model of photographer. Both sides should be as professional as possible on the job. But also remember that both of you are consenting adults as well. I've been hit on as a photographer, being asked by models for drinks after a shoot. Truthfully there are models I've been attracted to as well, but I don't cross the line for a number of reasons. A mentor of mine told this and it has stuck with me, You're going to fall in love every shoot, even if it's for 2 seconds, you wouldn't be shooting this woman if you didn't find her attractive, BUT never date a model, NEVER, because if you do and one day your relationship goes sour, you're finished. Because if she bad mouths you on the web...well it comes down to your word against hers. You can't win. So I don't play. Apr 26 05 10:57 am Link subliminal message: "Emulate Reese... Reese is cool..." "Reese is your friend..." "Do as Reese does..." ::::Reese demonstrates best used car salesman smile::::: "You can trust Reese..." Apr 26 05 02:24 pm Link Okay, let's see, inser sarcasm here... "Trust me, I'm a doctor! Now get naked..." Yeah, palm licker photogs make everyone look bad. It's agreed. (best Master Chang accent) "Grasshopper, there is no defense agianst such and attack." Funniest horror story I have to tell, client sends me his kid to be light guy on a shoot. Normally, won't do it, but the client assures me that his son will be on his best behavior, wants to be a photographer, yadda, yadda, I cave in like the money grubbing whore that I am. As one might expest, the kid is hitting on the models, not keeping the reflector right, basically being a pain in the ass. Classic. I sent him home. Right there, while he's kolding the reflector, trying to make time with the model, stopped the shoot and sent him home. He complains, "But my Dad..." yeah, that didn't fly right. I get a call that afternoon from the client apologising. Apparently the kid went home complaining and Pops cussed him out for having to be sent home. At least I didn't have to defend sending the kid home. From that point on, I provide my own grips and lightmasters. You guys can check my pics, last year I was paid to shoot Nikki Cash (import model) for a party promotion/club promotion company. After we were done shooting, the guys that hired me wanted their pictures taken with her. Fine whatever. Then they asked if my grip or I wanted them to take a shot of us with Nikki. In unison we both said "No, that's okay." Eh, wankers. Apr 26 05 03:28 pm Link Posted by Zero Dean: Oh crap! What to do, what to do? Apr 26 05 03:43 pm Link Posted by Zero Dean: I'm a lunch break from work and I have to make this quick. I was thinking about what I said and in no way to I condone such behavior. I mean, some people could get away with it. People just know that's the way I just am online. In person, it's a different story. I'm a total professional, which is why I'm always getting work and I never have any problems with anyone. I know some people find my actions irritable, but who cares. I've never had a complaint from a model once. The only people that complain are photographers. Apr 26 05 04:28 pm Link It's one thing if the photographer tells the model she looks hot and is a little flirty to lighten the mood, but it's another thing to try to get a girl to go to meet you at a hotel or something because they will "make you a star" or whatever. whether that person has the power to get you somewhere or not, no one should ever have to be put in that situation to get anywhere. If that's how this industry really is, than why bother to try and get anywhere if everything is going to be uncomfortable. And photographers, if your professional, you would know not to make a model uncomfortable and if you want models to be friendly like give you a hug, don't ask for a hug!! You have to earn that respect and that friendship w/o having to push it on someone. And as for models being late or skipping out and all of those things... well, you know that will only backfire on the model anyway so why bother complaining? I have a friend who is a very beautiful model but she has skipped out on so many things and gone late or just didn't bother to call back again and she will never go anywhere b/c of of her behavior but that's her own fault. Eventually no one will want to work with her at all. Apr 26 05 04:45 pm Link Posted by Udo R Photography: I am sure several recipients of lawsuits for sexual harrassment considered their behaviour "fun and playful" at the time also. Try telling that to the judge. Apr 26 05 04:50 pm Link Posted by * Visual Mindscapes *: I would agree with Dean that you are going to get whacked in the nuts one day by a model who doesn't think the same way as you. Apr 26 05 05:00 pm Link Posted by Zero Dean: Posted by Udo R Photography: I am sure several recipients of lawsuits for sexual harrassment considered their behaviour "fun and playful" at the time also. Try telling that to the judge. Well... I am not the one who "starts" this kind of behavious and if you take a look at my comments on my profile, from models I work at those shows... then you will see what I mean. Apr 26 05 05:00 pm Link Udo - no disrespect intended. I do think that if you are friends with several (or any) of your clients, that's a good thing. Having some kind of connection with a client definitely helps a shoot go better and most often raises the quality of the work from both. My point was not directly aimed at you. I just think it's a fine line when one treats their clients as friends. As EricMuss-Barnes so eloquently put, "Actions are defined by context". So it all depends on the situation. I've worked with a few models repeatedly as well. You get to know people, that's part of the fun of the job, and fun & friendly interaction can be a real pleasure during a shoot. But obviously things I would say to someone during the first shoot would be quite different than someone I'd had an extended working relationship with and had gotten to know on a more "friend" level. I'm sure it's the same with you. I wasn't suggesting you are doing anything wrong. Obviously if you are getting great shots and your clients are at-ease when working with you (and working with you repeatedly), that's a good thing. Apr 26 05 05:20 pm Link Posted by Zero Dean: Exactly... things have to be handled according to the situation, and as you can see at the comments I am getting... I do know pretty well how to handle myself... LOL Apr 26 05 05:25 pm Link Posted by MGAphoto (ANT): I don't come on to models, so there is no reason to get whacked in the nuts. Apr 26 05 07:00 pm Link Posted by McKenzie: Ohhhhh. Thanks for clarifying. Yes, I agree with you 1000% there. Even if a shoot is "just for fun" the no-shows and last-minute-cancellations are just plain rude. Apr 26 05 08:23 pm Link Posted by Jenni: Ha! I had that happen once. It was actually pretty funny. It's a photographer I'm pretty good friends with. We were shooting some silly stuff in his bathroom and he said he wanted to shoot some naded. I said "Okay. you can get if you really want." And then we were both too stubborn to call the other out. Apr 27 05 01:53 am Link Posted by Brian Kim: ::::Reese has dead look on her face as she begins taking off clothes:::: Apr 28 05 11:05 am Link Posted by theda: I always joked around about shooting naked. Didn't think other people had the same idea I had. lol Apr 28 05 01:51 pm Link Professional behavior by the photographer is based on mutual respect and principle'd conduct by both. A lousy photographer shoots you as you are, a good one--as you would like to be, but a great photographer shoots you--as you wish you were! You cannot reach that level of interconnected spirits by being coldly or bluntly being Mr. proper and polite. You connect, you understand each other, you share insight, laughter, and passion, and you shoot...or you are wasting both your times. In 30 years of photography I have never touched a model even to reposition a lock of hair. Apr 28 05 05:01 pm Link Posted by Washphoto: Extremely well said. I agree entirely. Apr 28 05 05:16 pm Link |