McMadCow wrote:
UPDATE:  I went to the police to file a missing person report and they won't let me.  Well, they said they won't take it until I've exhausted every other option to get in touch with her through close friends or family.  Now, I consider myself to be a close friend of her's, but I digress.  First off is her roommate, the close friend:  I've called him several times and left a message.  If I can hear back from him I'm sure it will bring an immediate resolution to all of this. I've got a friend I mentioned before who is a whiz at tracking people down, and I'm going to try and find her family on the East Coast tomorrow.  If anyone else has any other resources we might be able to use to help get some information. 
The cop at the station made the perfectly valid point that I'm basically a nobody to her.  Which is fine.  But she's disappeared to others here, too.  Despite our previous friendship and my genuine concern here, I can accept that people may be reluctant to help someone find her that may be stalking her for all they know.  While I can say that it's NOT true- and hopefully her comments about me on her page reinforce that- if anyone has any info in regards to her current state but may be worried about my intentions, I'll settle for a "she's alive and she's ok".  It's better than not knowing. 
I'll continue to search for her roommate and her family.  If I have no luck by Friday, I'll go back to the police.

Typical laziness from the SFPD...