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Model

Wynd Mulysa

Posts: 8619

Berkeley, California, US

So, a photographer contacted me a little while ago about a shoot.  He's out-of-state and wants to buy me a plane ticket.  I would be staying with him for about four days.  Of course I asked for references.

He acted like a model had never asked him for a reference before.  He said that he had not really been in contact with any of the two models he gave me contact information for - That they were onlymodels and not friends.  So, it was full of "I don't know if this is still her e-mail address" and things like that.  He did give me one of the girl's MP#, so I thought that would be the safest bet.  However, the profile had a different name on it.  I sent the girl a message anyway, and it was not who he said it was.  I wrote back telling him that.

He said that he had not been in contact with her since she left, but she's his friend on myspace, so "if I can find his site..."
"If you can track her from this fine, if not this is starting to become more trouble than it might be worth though I understand your concern even if it is unfounded."
Why not send me a link?

"She is also on Model Place under ####" .. The number is different this time.  And it really is her.

It's a little frustrating because he's not really cooperating.  I think he's a nice guy.  Maybe just made a mistake with the number the first time. 

What do you think?
Has anyone else had any problems with getting references from models or photographers?

Jul 20 06 01:41 pm Link

Photographer

One Eye Blind

Posts: 547

San Martin, California, US

Is this the mutual acquaintance we've discussed before?

Jul 20 06 02:08 pm Link

Model

Wynd Mulysa

Posts: 8619

Berkeley, California, US

Randall Fox wrote:
Is this the mutual acquaintance we've discussed before?

No, he gave about a dozen references and they all checked.  This is someone else..

Jul 20 06 02:18 pm Link

Photographer

One Eye Blind

Posts: 547

San Martin, California, US

Good, I'm glad to hear that. Does this one have a portfolio with credits to the models. Maybe that would be a way to check him out. He sounds kind of flaky but then I'm just an old fart that tends to be over protective...

Jul 20 06 02:25 pm Link

Model

Ellynyn

Posts: 350

Bristol, Connecticut, US

This guy sounds like a major flake. If I work with a photographer, I know their name and it's easy enough to look them up. Same thing the other way around. Type in "Neyrissa" on Google, for example, and there I am. Simple.

Jul 20 06 02:50 pm Link

Model

Wynd Mulysa

Posts: 8619

Berkeley, California, US

I haven't tried to google him.
He's on a couple modeling sites and uses the names of the models, but not any ID numbers or anything.
Maybe I could google some of the models he's worked with, but wouldn't it be easier if he just gave me some more information?  I'm not a detective this week.

Well, anyway, I'm just waiting to hear back from the model on MP.

Jul 20 06 07:01 pm Link

Photographer

RayAndrews

Posts: 321

Dallas, Texas, US

A photographer should be willing to offer references at any moment, and they should be a mix of recent and others that answer emails promptly.  I know model acquaintances that say if they have a bad vibe about a photographer they usually don't shoot with them. 
This person has a couple of red flags already...and you're asking for our input, that alone should tell you something.

Jul 20 06 07:14 pm Link

Model

Wynd Mulysa

Posts: 8619

Berkeley, California, US

RayAndrews wrote:
A photographer should be willing to offer references at any moment, and they should be a mix of recent and others that answer emails promptly.  I know model acquaintances that say if they have a bad vibe about a photographer they usually don't shoot with them. 
This person has a couple of red flags already...and you're asking for our input, that alone should tell you something.

No, I have not recieved any bad vibes about this guy.  I'm just frustrated that it took so long for him to give me a good reference.
And I'm not asking for your input, either.  I was venting out of frustration and asking if anyone else has any similar stories to share. :0).

Jul 20 06 07:30 pm Link

Photographer

CaliforniaCamera

Posts: 26

Marina, California, US

You should get a real job and go back to kiddygarden

Jul 20 06 07:32 pm Link

Model

Wynd Mulysa

Posts: 8619

Berkeley, California, US

CaliforniaCamera wrote:
You should get a real job...

I have a job that I recieve a paycheck for, with  taxes taken out, if that's what you mean.

CaliforniaCamera wrote:
..and go back to kiddygarden

And I really don't know what that is.  Is that some kind of slang for kindergarten?

Jul 20 06 07:36 pm Link

Photographer

CaliforniaCamera

Posts: 26

Marina, California, US

Your bright as a dull black light..another KIDDY topic..handle it freaky earth-ling

Jul 20 06 07:38 pm Link

Photographer

RayAndrews

Posts: 321

Dallas, Texas, US

[  I was venting out of frustration and asking if anyone else has any similar stories to share. :0).

smile noted

Jul 20 06 07:39 pm Link

Model

Wynd Mulysa

Posts: 8619

Berkeley, California, US

CaliforniaCamera wrote:
..handle it freaky earth-ling

:0).

Jul 20 06 07:48 pm Link

Photographer

Bjorn Lumiere

Posts: 816

Asheville, North Carolina, US

If the guy isn't willing to cooperate by providing you with references, then it's probably not a situation you really want to be a part of.

This won't be your only modeling opportunity, it's not as though you're asking for anything unreasonable.

Listen to your tummy kid, you're intuition is there for a reason. If something doesn't make sense in your gut & in your head...just walk or run away from it.


Whatever you do, good luck!
-Bearz

Jul 20 06 08:21 pm Link

Model

A BRITT PRO-AM

Posts: 7840

CARDIFF BY THE SEA, California, US

IM SORRY BUT NO MATTER HOW LOVELY AND AWESOME YOU ARE,
ÁND YOU ARE,
THERES NO WAY YOU WOULD EXPECT THESE UNPROVEN  'PHOTGRAPHER'S TO BUY PLANE TICKETS AND HAVE YOU STAY WITH THEM
ITS JUST NOT KOSHER

NOT THAT IT Never ever ever is IT JUST REALLY RARELY EVER IS!

you get tons of work locally
so can the photog - or let him come to you!

IMO    ITS NOT WORTH EVEN CONSIDERING IT
UNLESS  ... THEY ARE bIG nAMES
YOU CAN SEE THEIR WORK & REPUTATION - LIKE THEY ARE IN PROFESSIONAL ORGANISATION ETC
AND you HAVE PERSONAL RECOMMENDATIONS

OTHER WISE
IF AY OF YOU INSIST ON CO OPERATING WITH SUCH UNKNOWNS
(WHO OF COURSE WILL URGE YOU TO THINK YOU ARE BEING A NUISANCE ASKIMG FOR MORE INFO OR REFS AND JUST GIVE IN - THATS IF THEY are  UP 2 NO GOOD)

STAY IN A MOTEL not NOT not WITH THEM
PLEEEEEEEEEEEZE


ANOTHER POINT
ACTUALLY talk TO THE GIRLS GIVEN AS REFS
OK
AS E-MAIL ... EVEN A  WHOLE PROFILE, REALLY COULD BE anybody 

gOOD lUCK

sorry its capitals i didnt look up until the end!!

Jul 22 06 03:55 am Link

Photographer

- null -

Posts: 4576

Wynd Mulysa wrote:
What do you think?
Has anyone else had any problems with getting references from models or photographers?

Do not shoot with him. Period.

I have testimonials on my site and links to the models sites so anyone can email them or contact them. Photographers with nothing to hide, who have actually taken the photos they display, will never have a problem with giving you references.

There are only 3 types of photographers who will NOT give references:

1 - Those who kill all their models while playing Q Lazarus.

2 - Pretentious "professionals" who think they should be so "well-known" that they don't need to give references.

3 - Disorganized nimrods who may not be jerks, but they have their heads so far up their butts they can't keep track of names and email addresses.


You don't want to shoot with any of those 3 types of photographers. Therefore, the rule is simple - They don't give references, you don't shoot with them.

Jul 22 06 04:03 am Link

Photographer

Archived

Posts: 13509

Phoenix, Arizona, US

You know, if a photographer works with 100 models, and kills 90 of them and stuffs the dead bodies into the deep freeze out in the shed, he's still got 10 solid references. That's more than enough, right?

Jul 22 06 04:20 am Link

Model

Bunnie Page

Posts: 1161

Dallas, Texas, US

Dave Wright Photo wrote:
You know, if a photographer works with 100 models, and kills 90 of them and stuffs the dead bodies into the deep freeze out in the shed, he's still got 10 solid references. That's more than enough, right?

I would also do a criminal offender database look up...so I'll know if they were arrested at 15 for drug possession.

Jul 22 06 04:31 am Link

Photographer

J C ModeFotografie

Posts: 14718

Los Angeles, California, US

Why are you staying with someone you don't even know?  He could have been a decent guy to the 10 models he uses as references and then turn around and decide to start his career as a rapist-torturer-murderer with you. 

REFERENCES - USELESS

COMMON SENSE - PRICELESS

JAY carreon
PHOTOGRAPHER

Jul 22 06 04:33 am Link

Photographer

BlindMike

Posts: 9594

San Francisco, California, US

CaliforniaCamera wrote:
Your bright as a dull black light..another KIDDY topic..handle it freaky earth-ling

This coming from a guy that shoots trees . . .

Jul 22 06 04:38 am Link

Photographer

Craig Thomson

Posts: 13462

Tacoma, Washington, US

BlindMike wrote:

This coming from a guy that shoots trees . . .

Maybe it's a Cali!! thing.

His reply Seemed a bit harsh to me

Jul 22 06 04:56 am Link

Photographer

Craig Thomson

Posts: 13462

Tacoma, Washington, US

Wynd Mulysa wrote:
So, a photographer contacted me a little while ago about a shoot.  He's out-of-state and wants to buy me a plane ticket.  I would be staying with him for about four days.  Of course I asked for references.
Snip
What do you think?
Has anyone else had any problems with getting references from models or photographers?

Four days?
Who can shoot the same model that many days in a row? (no offence to you Wynd)
That sounds more like a date then a shoot.

Yes check references all the time. I love to hear that a new model has checked my references when they show up to shoot. And it reminds me how small the world is as well as how small of a community this photography/modeling thing is.

I'd tell you to pass without looking back.

Jul 22 06 05:03 am Link

Model

Carmilla

Posts: 357

Highland, California, US

Craig Thomson wrote:
Maybe it's a Cali!! thing.

His reply Seemed a bit harsh to me

I think pretty much all of the trees out here are ugly hmm Don't see why you'd want to photograph those when you seem to have a wide variety of beautiful girls willing to work with you. Seemed a bit harsh to me too. Maybe someone had a bad day and had to let it out on an innocent person...?

Jul 22 06 05:04 am Link

Model

Nemi

Posts: 27413

Jamaica, New York, US

Wynd,
After your very rocky start here, you have almost proved that your not a total asinine dunce.

Try not to die okay kiddo?

Jul 22 06 07:58 am Link

Photographer

Jay Bowman

Posts: 6511

Los Angeles, California, US

Dave Wright Photo wrote:
You know, if a photographer works with 100 models, and kills 90 of them and stuffs the dead bodies into the deep freeze out in the shed, he's still got 10 solid references. That's more than enough, right?

I see we're definitely making some headway with those photographer/model trust issues.



Nice.  Reeeaal nice.

Jul 22 06 10:09 am Link

Photographer

Star

Posts: 17966

Los Angeles, California, US

CaliforniaCamera wrote:
Your bright as a dull black light..another KIDDY topic..handle it freaky earth-ling

Wow, I hope you get banned

Star

Jul 22 06 10:13 am Link

Model

Keeper

Posts: 293

Glen Burnie, Maryland, US

You could not pay me enough to stay with some strange man, out of state, alone, for four days.

It seems you're a little uncomfortable about this, and if you go out there and aren't comfortable, any images aren't going to be that good; nothing is as unflattering as discomfort.

Just my two cents.

~Keeper

Jul 22 06 10:39 am Link

Photographer

Emeritus

Posts: 22000

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

E|||B wrote:
There are only 3 types of photographers who will NOT give references:

1 - Those who kill all their models while playing Q Lazarus.

2 - Pretentious "professionals" who think they should be so "well-known" that they don't need to give references.

3 - Disorganized nimrods who may not be jerks, but they have their heads so far up their butts they can't keep track of names and email addresses.

I really don't want to get into this again.  We continue to have the conversation on the forum.  All the Internet people (models and photographers) line up on one side, all the (primarily) non-Internet people line up on the other, and the shooting begins.

So I'm not going to reply to this thread after this post.  Suffice it to say that the "everyone must be willing to give references" notion is not true, is not universally applicable, does not apply to people with little Internet experience but lots of professional experience.  That is, the very best photographers will not give references.  It's just that they also, mostly, are not on the Internet.

That said, this still sounds like a flaky deal, and I don't mean to be seen as recommending it.

Jul 22 06 02:52 pm Link

Photographer

Robert Randall

Posts: 13890

Chicago, Illinois, US

TXPhotog wrote:
I really don't want to get into this again.  We continue to have the conversation on the forum.  All the Internet people (models and photographers) line up on one side, all the (primarily) non-Internet people line up on the other, and the shooting begins.

So I'm not going to reply to this thread after this post.  Suffice it to say that the "everyone must be willing to give references" notion is not true, is not universally applicable, does not apply to people with little Internet experience but lots of professional experience.  That is, the very best photographers will not give references.  It's just that they also, mostly, are not on the Internet.

That said, this still sounds like a flaky deal, and I don't mean to be seen as recommending it.

C'mon TX, you and I haven't had a good fight since we decided to become friends. Marcus Klinko and Indrani are on here. Doesn't get much more successful than that in the pro game.

Waiting for the shelling to commence smile

Jul 22 06 03:00 pm Link

Photographer

Vector One Photography

Posts: 3722

Fort Lauderdale, Florida, US

I have to say I've had some problems finding email addresses for some models I've used.    Internet models seem to come and go, change their email addresses or delete their profiles from where they used to be.  One of my problems is I hate bothering a model for a reference after it's been six months or a year that I've shot with her.  She got paid to stand in front of my camera for so many hours, not to answer emails about me for the next two years.

But I don't like the fact of staying with him for four days or him giving  you URL's that aren't the names he said it should be and then it getting even stranger.  Sometimes a photographer can just be having trouble keeping contact wth his references,  but in this case I'd say he's trouble.

Jul 22 06 03:41 pm Link

Photographer

Done and Gone

Posts: 7650

Chiredzi, Masvingo, Zimbabwe

When in doubt, put forth worst-case scenarios and weigh the results. What is the worst thing that can happen if you DON'T go? You will not make that money (a drop in the bucket in a lifetime) and he will be pissed off but you will be safe and ready to move on. What is the worst thing that can happen if you DO go? We don't know the answer and it might not be pretty (like you). Why do references have to be from other models? Surely he has references with regards to his charector, criminal record if any etc? No references, you stay home. The world isn't done with you yet ,;~}
Best wishes,
Michael

Jul 22 06 03:58 pm Link

Photographer

dissolvegirl

Posts: 297

Northampton, Massachusetts, US

Granted, I've never paid a model to come see me, but you'd think if a photographer could spring for a plane ticket during peak vacation season, that photographer could also spring for a couple nights at a Super 8.

Jul 22 06 06:06 pm Link

Photographer

J Schumacher

Posts: 1220

Gustine, California, US

Trust your instincts. I'd recommend not going, unless you have a good escort.

Jul 22 06 06:36 pm Link

Model

Wynd Mulysa

Posts: 8619

Berkeley, California, US

Craig Thomson wrote:
Four days?
Who can shoot the same model that many days in a row? (no offence to you Wynd)

None taken.  But it's very common for a photographer, who is buying a plane ticket for a model, to shoot with that model for more than one day.  Heck, I worked with a photographer for nine hours today and we're trying to schedule another shoot ASAP.  There are a lot of ideas running through the minds of artists.

Thanks to almost everyone who replied for 1. Assuming I'm going to shoot with this photographer.  2. Giving me advice that I didn't ask for.  I was trying to start a thread about references.  Not this one photographer's references.

I was thinking today about the people on this website.  I really like posting on the forums because I have a big mouth and free time.  There are a lot of very enertaining, nice, smart, funny, etc. people here.  However, there are way too many people who think that their way is the only way.  In a business like this, everyone goes about things in their own way.  They do whatever makes them feel comfortable.  There are models here who don't go to shoots without an escort.  There are photographers here who don't allow escorts.  There are photographers here who think paying a model $150 an hour is fair.  There are models here who think paying photographers $400 a day is fair.  There are people who only do TFP.  There are people who only work for hire.  There are people who don't do nudes.  There are people who do bondage.

Would you ever pose nude with the photographer?  Would you allow physical contact?  Have you seen Click Hamilton's port?  [I love that guy.]

It's ridiculous to force the rules you set for yourself because of your own personal comfort levels on someone else who does not have the same comfort levels as you do.  And further, to belittle someone because they do not share the same ideas as you fucking stupid.

Thanks again.

Jul 23 06 03:05 am Link

Photographer

Archived

Posts: 13509

Phoenix, Arizona, US

In all fairness, nobody can force their rules on you, Wynd. But, this is an open forum and people are pretty much allowed to express their opinions, open their big mouths, all that kind of stuff. You're also allowed to call people fucking stupid if you don't like what they have to say... but when it comes down to it, it's just two people expressing opposing views on a particular situation - two sides of the same coin.

Wynd Mulysa wrote:
It's ridiculous to force the rules you set for yourself because of your own personal comfort levels on someone else who does not have the same comfort levels as you do.  And further, to belittle someone because they do not share the same ideas as you fucking stupid.

Jul 23 06 03:24 am Link

Photographer

Tony Culture Photoz

Posts: 1555

Bloomfield, New Jersey, US

Wynd Mulysa wrote:
So, a photographer contacted me a little while ago about a shoot.  He's out-of-state and wants to buy me a plane ticket.  I would be staying with him for about four days.  Of course I asked for references.

He acted like a model had never asked him for a reference before.  He said that he had not really been in contact with any of the two models he gave me contact information for - That they were onlymodels and not friends.  So, it was full of "I don't know if this is still her e-mail address" and things like that.  He did give me one of the girl's MP#, so I thought that would be the safest bet.  However, the profile had a different name on it.  I sent the girl a message anyway, and it was not who he said it was.  I wrote back telling him that.

He said that he had not been in contact with her since she left, but she's his friend on myspace, so "if I can find his site..."
"If you can track her from this fine, if not this is starting to become more trouble than it might be worth though I understand your concern even if it is unfounded."
Why not send me a link?

"She is also on Model Place under ####" .. The number is different this time.  And it really is her.

It's a little frustrating because he's not really cooperating.  I think he's a nice guy.  Maybe just made a mistake with the number the first time. 

What do you think?
Has anyone else had any problems with getting references from models or photographers?

I am merely but an apiring professional photographer (if there is such a thing). Anyway, as a professional, I maintain files of models with whom I have worked. Information like source of which I was first contacted with model, membership #, phone number, email address, etc. Granted, people do change info, contact #'s and such. If I were to be asked for references, I ought to take it upon myself to check with the references I intend to give you, as the person asking for it. I would contact the reference to be sure it's ok for you to check with him/her about me, etc. That way, I would have confirmed the status of the contact info which I would be passing to you. You are taking on too much work to make sure of the legitimacy of the photographer's "references". That ought to be his/her job. You must really want to shoot with this photographer. Consider your safety first. Then again,
I am only Tony Culture,   https://www.tonyculture.com/storage/Portal/tc.gif
the safe bet.

Jul 23 06 03:50 am Link

Model

Catriona

Posts: 3674

Portland, Oregon, US

Wynd, considering the threads you have previously started concerning photographers touching you inappropriately, and a photographer suddenly springing on you at the last minute that it's a bondage shoot and they want to include your escort in the shots too, and you going along with this stuff and not leaving or saying anything until later, is it shocking that people are assuming that you need advice because you don't always make the smartest decisions regarding your personal safety?

You've been okay so far...because you've been lucky. ONLY because of that. As such, I'm not sure it's your place to be calling other people "fucking stupid," especially when they're trying to look out for you and you've shown again and again that you're not doing a great job of that yourself.

Jul 23 06 04:15 am Link