Forums > General Industry > Sex sells ! Do you buy it ?

Photographer

Tony Culture Photoz

Posts: 1555

Bloomfield, New Jersey, US

Er'body says it, and most know it - "Sex sells" . Do you sell sex ? Do you buy sex ? Do you buy into the idea that sex does in fact sells ? If so, why all the prudishness about "No nudes, don't even ask" ?

Sex is indeed a strong sales incentive . It has worked, and continue to work with selling cars, liquor, clothes, etc.

I am not trying to persuade prudish models to become nudists, but if you are serious about modeling, then you should be ready and willing to perform as a model at all times.

If you are a "Sunday circular" model, then cool. I don't see any nudity in J.C. Penney's ads. Find an agency who will work with you and get you work there.
If not, stop being a prude, and work, get yo' money, live, and most important walk with your head up

What kind of photographer is any photographer who keeps missing the shot ?

The point here, is not to encourage anyone to shoot nude, it's to remind them that although you are so adamant against nudity, and portraying a "sex selling" image, there are different levels of "sex selling" imagery. Pervs get turned on by many things which are NOT within your control. Research your chosen craft, and do it as your interpretation sees it. Live and let live.
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Apr 19 06 12:55 pm Link

Photographer

Fotticelli

Posts: 12252

Rockville, Maryland, US

Maybe they don't pose nude because they don't want to?

I don't shoot weddings because I don't want to and I don't care what I miss out on.

Apr 19 06 12:59 pm Link

Photographer

Tony Culture Photoz

Posts: 1555

Bloomfield, New Jersey, US

Gregory Garecki wrote:
Maybe they don't pose nude because they don't want to?

Oh that is ok and quite fine too.

Apr 19 06 01:00 pm Link

Model

CristinaLex

Posts: 1970

Silver Spring, Maryland, US

You have to think that these could be models who are just strating or models who dont really feel comfortable revealing thier "wholeself" to the world whether implied nude or full out tits and ass..

I am not doing nudes now, I am not ready for that and plus when that time come i wanna work with a photographer that can capture myself very well..not some cheap shot of me laying on a bed naked...and even when that time comes...everyone aint gonna be seeing my goodies...I personally, dont want images like that to follow me thorough out life...I might change my views WAY later down the road, but that doesnt run cool with ME for the moment.

and some models might say this to stray away the not so good photographers that might write these gorgeous models to try to get them to do nude..whent he right photographer comes along, then they might make that exceptions...

but no model, NO MODEL, shoud advocate that they are not selling sex, because no matter what your modelin some sort of sex appeal is being sold or given.....thatll be naive if some think that way

Cant get upset if there are models who arent interested in that... you cant get mad because thatll just make it seem like you some perv who just want models to grow up be professional and get naked for the camera.....

Apr 19 06 01:01 pm Link

Model

Angie Borras

Posts: 1933

Kissimmee, Florida, US

Not all have to be about sex. There are other things that don't involve nudity that also sells.Some models may want to take their careers that way but others may not. Everybody has diferent opinions and views  in this topic. So overall is the models  choice to  do whatever she wants with her life. If she doesn't want to pose nude   then thats her choice if she feels thats  going to be an obsticle then she is willing  to wait for the right gig  that won't ask for nudity.

Apr 19 06 01:03 pm Link

Photographer

Jose Luis

Posts: 2890

Dallas, Texas, US

yes

Apr 19 06 01:04 pm Link

Photographer

BlindMike

Posts: 9594

San Francisco, California, US

If the shot calls for it then sure. But there are plenty of ways to sell without ripping your clothes off.

Apr 19 06 01:05 pm Link

Model

Angie Borras

Posts: 1933

Kissimmee, Florida, US

why do something that maybe later on in life you might regret.Just because you were pressure. When it comes to posing nude you should be totally comfortable and ready for it.

Apr 19 06 01:07 pm Link

Photographer

Tony Culture Photoz

Posts: 1555

Bloomfield, New Jersey, US

Sex is selling here :
https://www.modelmayhem.com/pics.php?id=5571
For the record, I love this dude's work.

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Apr 19 06 01:08 pm Link

Photographer

Tony Culture Photoz

Posts: 1555

Bloomfield, New Jersey, US

VirtuaMike wrote:
If the shot calls for it then sure. But there are plenty of ways to sell without ripping your clothes off.

This is absolutley true. This may be what some models mean, when they say "I love the way ______ works". When the model feels that the photographer captures her images in ways that shows her sex appeal, without her having to bear all.

Apr 19 06 01:10 pm Link

Model

I am done

Posts: 518

Aldouane, New Brunswick, Canada

Yes, he has very nice work ... and as EVERYONE can tell .. NONE of the girls are NUDE !

Jessica Ryann

Tony Culture Photoz wrote:
Sex is selling here :
https://www.modelmayhem.com/pics.php?id=5571
For the record, I love this dude's work.

https://www.tonyculture.com/GIF/head.GIF

Apr 19 06 01:14 pm Link

Photographer

Tony Culture Photoz

Posts: 1555

Bloomfield, New Jersey, US

Intensity wrote:
why do something that maybe later on in life you might regret.Just because you were pressure. When it comes to posing nude you should be totally comfortable and ready for it.

I agree with you too. NO one should ever feel pressured to do anything at all. Each and every person should recognise that he/she has the right/privelege to take time to think about things and decide against it, if he/she does not agree or see as beneficial to him/her.

Problem is, in the real world, that's not so. It all comes down to having your mind right.

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Apr 19 06 01:14 pm Link

Photographer

Ransomaniac

Posts: 12588

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

My problem is never the one's that say they won't pose nude.  Personally i don't care.  What DOES bother the shit out of me is the ones that say stuffin their profiles like "No nudes!  I have respect for myself!"  "No thongs!  I'm not a whore!  I keep it classy!"

By default they are insulting every model that choses a path THEY don't chose.  Even more stupid is they are saying they "respect themselves" and are "classy" because they have a port full of prudish clothed work, as if whores never take pictures in turtlenecks.

Since when did your clothing or lack there of in a photograph of you MODELING dictate how many peole you sleep with or how much you LOVE yourself?  I've known some of the loosest sluts in the world that look like the girl next door happy go lucky innocent flower.  I've known girls witht he lowest self esteem that walk around in ski suits with full long john underwear.

It just bother's me how JUDGEMENTAL some of these "I don't do nudes" chicks (and photographers) are to anybody that follows a different career choice than them.

Apr 19 06 01:30 pm Link

Photographer

Tony Culture Photoz

Posts: 1555

Bloomfield, New Jersey, US

Ransom J wrote:
My problem is never the one's that say they won't pose nude.  Personally i don't care.  What DOES bother the shit out of me is the ones that say stuffin their profiles like "No nudes!  I have respect for myself!"  "No thongs!  I'm not a whore!  I keep it classy!"

By default they are insulting every model that choses a path THEY don't chose.  Even more stupid is they are saying they "respect themselves" and are "classy" because they have a port full of prudish clothed work, as if whores never take pictures in turtlenecks.

Since when did your clothing or lack there of in a photograph of you MODELING dictate how many peole you sleep with or how much you LOVE yourself?  I've known some of the loosest sluts in the world that look like the girl next door happy go lucky innocent flower.  I've known girls witht he lowest self esteem that walk around in ski suits with full long john underwear.

It just bother's me how JUDGEMENTAL some of these "I don't do nudes" chicks (and photographers) are to anybody that follows a different career choice than them.

Thank you very much ! This is the same thing I am saying. I didn't do this to try to get models to shoot nude, I did it to make the points you express with this statement.

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Apr 19 06 01:38 pm Link

Model

CristinaLex

Posts: 1970

Silver Spring, Maryland, US

Just like the Thread about Booty Shots and why African American Models shouldnt do them...But half the models in there who opposed to doing booty shots said they were going to do swimsuit and or lingerie.LMAO


ahhhDUHHHHH....does it make a difference lol...

Apr 19 06 01:45 pm Link

Model

Yanique

Posts: 328

BRONX, New York, US

*SIGHS* here we go again..b/c you don't pose nude you're a prude??....you don't have to be naked to sell sex...furthermore if one doesn't want to then they just don't some models (such as myself) don't want to put their naked body out there for everyone to see...it's to each its own...that simple.

Apr 19 06 01:50 pm Link

Photographer

Ransomaniac

Posts: 12588

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

CristinaLex wrote:
Just like the Thread about Booty Shots and why African American Models shouldnt do them...But half the models in there who opposed to doing booty shots said they were going to do swimsuit and or lingerie.LMAO


ahhhDUHHHHH....does it make a difference lol...

Exactly.  You have two chicks int he same bikini, one turns around for the back shot one faces the camera, but the one that faced the camera calls the one that did the back shot  a HOE.  LMAO.  Backwards ass yamp.  I swear these "models" kill me.  Especially because puritan right Americans thinks they're whore for posing for ANY pics that could be taken in sexual context in the FIRST place, yet they can cast their judgement on those in the same boat as them just because these people do it different??  BUFFOONERY!

Apr 19 06 01:54 pm Link

Photographer

Ransomaniac

Posts: 12588

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

Yanique wrote:
*SIGHS* here we go again..b/c you don't pose nude you're a prude??....you don't have to be naked to sell sex...furthermore if one doesn't want to then they just don't some models (such as myself) don't want to put their naked body out there for everyone to see...it's to each its own...that simple.

WHo said that?

Apr 19 06 01:54 pm Link

Model

Yanique

Posts: 328

BRONX, New York, US

Ransom J wrote:

WHo said that?

Tony Culture Photoz wrote:
If so, why all the prudishness about "No nudes, don't even ask" ?

I am not trying to persuade prudish models to become nudists, but if you are serious about modeling, then you should be ready and willing to perform as a model at all times.

Tony

Apr 19 06 02:05 pm Link

Photographer

Ransomaniac

Posts: 12588

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

Yanique wrote:

Ransom J wrote:
WHo said that?

Tony

Well he clarified later that what he was gettign at wasn't a problem with those that chose not to do nudes, it's the prudish attitudes of those that judge other that DO do nudes that this post was aimed at.  maybe he didn't address that point well in the begin ning.  I don't think anybody has a problem with a model making her own personal opinions and choise, it's when they pass their public judgement on OTHERS that it becomes a problem.  Read my first post.  That's what Tony was getting at.

Apr 19 06 02:13 pm Link

Photographer

Tony Culture Photoz

Posts: 1555

Bloomfield, New Jersey, US

Ransom J wrote:
WHo said that?

Yanique wrote:
Tony

Ransom J wrote:
Well he clarified later that what he was gettign at wasn't a problem with those that chose not to do nudes, it's the prudish attitudes of those that judge other that DO do nudes that this post was aimed at.  maybe he didn't address that point well in the begin ning.  I don't think anybody has a problem with a model making her own personal opinions and choise, it's when they pass their public judgement on OTHERS that it becomes a problem.  Read my first post.  That's what Tony was getting at.

Thank youk, Ranson J. That is exactly what I was getting at. Sorry about the confusion there, Yanique. I do respect yours and anyone else's choice not to shoot nude. In fact, I do agree, one can be very sexy without nudity.

Apr 19 06 02:32 pm Link

Photographer

David Scott

Posts: 5617

Marion, Iowa, US

since when does sex in "sex sells" have to equate to being naked?

Apr 19 06 02:36 pm Link

Photographer

David Scott

Posts: 5617

Marion, Iowa, US

Actually... I think its better to say  "Emotion Sells"   cuz most of what human beings do.. the decisions they make.. is based on emotion and we just later try to rationalize it with logic.  Think about that one. ;-)

Apr 19 06 02:40 pm Link

Model

joey25

Posts: 62

Washington, District of Columbia, US

Of course, sex sells--this is not merely an "idea."  It is an undeniable reality.  Without this truism, life would be soooo boring...

Apr 19 06 02:40 pm Link

Model

Yanique

Posts: 328

BRONX, New York, US

Tony Culture Photoz wrote:

Ransom J wrote:
WHo said that?

Yanique wrote:
Tony

Thank youk, Ranson J. That is exactly what I was getting at. Sorry about the confusion there, Yanique. I do respect yours and anyone else's choice not to shoot nude. In fact, I do agree, one can be very sexy without nudity.

ok got it now thanks for the clarification smile

Apr 19 06 03:07 pm Link

Photographer

Arizona Shoots

Posts: 28822

Phoenix, Arizona, US

I can understand models who won't shoot porn. That's fine.

I can understand models who are extremely selective about who they will shoot nudes for and only under certain circimstances. That's fine too.

But it makes absolutely no sense whatsoever to have a blanket "No Nudes" policy unless you have some sort of clout in the industry (celebrity status).

A shy model? Come on! That's such an oxymoron.

Although there are some exceptions, I usually pass up models who won't shoot nudes. It's not that I insist on shooting nudes all the time. In fact, lately I haven't been shooting them much at all. But there is nothing worse than having an idea in the middle of a shoot, but you're worried that you might offend the model by asking her to go beyond her stated limits. With a model who openly shoots nudes, it's never an issue.

That is all.

Apr 19 06 07:53 pm Link

Model

MelissaLynnette LaDiva

Posts: 50816

Leawood, Kansas, US

John Jebbia wrote:
I can understand models who won't shoot porn. That's fine.

I can understand models who are extremely selective about who they will shoot nudes for and only under certain circimstances. That's fine too.

But it makes absolutely no sense whatsoever to have a blanket "No Nudes" policy unless you have some sort of clout in the industry (celebrity status).

A shy model? Come on! That's such an oxymoron.

Although there are some exceptions, I usually pass up models who won't shoot nudes. It's not that I insist on shooting nudes all the time. In fact, lately I haven't been shooting them much at all. But there is nothing worse than having an idea in the middle of a shoot, but you're worried that you might offend the model by asking her to go beyond her stated limits. With a model who openly shoots nudes, it's never an issue.

That is all.

Why does this make no sense?  I mean, I understand that it's less convenient for you, but why is it so nonsensical that some people aren't interested in gettin naked?

Apr 19 06 08:00 pm Link

Photographer

Arizona Shoots

Posts: 28822

Phoenix, Arizona, US

Melissa Lynnette wrote:
Why does this make no sense?  I mean, I understand that it's less convenient for you, but why is it so nonsensical that some people aren't interested in gettin naked?

A shy model makes no sense. That's why.

Apr 19 06 08:02 pm Link

Model

Brandy

Posts: 1353

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

John Jebbia wrote:

A shy model makes no sense. That's why.

John you were just getting so spoiled shooting with me... not shy and willing to walk down the side of a well traveled road naked or barely clothed.

Apr 19 06 08:07 pm Link

Photographer

Arizona Shoots

Posts: 28822

Phoenix, Arizona, US

Brandy wrote:
John you were just getting so spoiled shooting with me... not shy and willing to walk down the side of a well traveled road naked or barely clothed.

Yep. We've done that quite a few times. Me in a bikini too.

Apr 19 06 08:10 pm Link

Photographer

D. Brian Nelson

Posts: 5477

Rapid City, South Dakota, US

Fantasy sells.

Fantasy is also what makes people want to be models or photographers.  It's nothing to do with reality, in either case.  Girls see pretty girls on magazine covers and want to be those girls; and boys see swimsuit specials and Playboy and hardcore and know someone took those pictures and want to be that lucky guy.  None of that has anything to do with the reality of commercial photography.

MM has nothing to do with the reality of commercial photography either.

"Models" don't have to buy in to "photographer's" fantasies or vice versa.  It's OK to live your own fantasy as long as you don't impose it on anyone else.

We "photographers" need to quit trying so hard to get the pretty girls to take off their clothes.  It's not their fantasy.  It's ours.

-Don

Edit:  Feel free to swap the gender roles above anyway you want.  I think this covers the majority, but the minority shouldn't be ignored, either.

Apr 19 06 08:10 pm Link

Model

Yanique

Posts: 328

BRONX, New York, US

D. Brian Nelson wrote:
Fantasy sells.

Fantasy is also what makes people want to be models or photographers.  It's nothing to do with reality, in either case.  Girls see pretty girls on magazine covers and want to be those girls; and boys see swimsuit specials and Playboy and hardcore and know someone took those pictures and want to be that lucky guy.  None of that has anything to do with the reality of commercial photography.

MM has nothing to do with the reality of commercial photography either.

"Models" don't have to buy in to "photographer's" fantasies or vice versa.  It's OK to live your own fantasy as long as you don't impose it on anyone else.

We "photographers" need to quit trying so hard to get the pretty girls to take off their clothes.  It's not their fantasy.  It's ours.

-Don

Edit:  Feel free to swap the gender roles above anyway you want.  I think this covers the majority, but the minority shouldn't be ignored, either.

*applause*  BRAVO!!

Apr 20 06 07:56 am Link

Photographer

Lens N Light

Posts: 16341

Bradford, Vermont, US

Ransom J wrote:

Well he clarified later that what he was gettign at wasn't a problem with those that chose not to do nudes, it's the prudish attitudes of those that judge other that DO do nudes that this post was aimed at.  maybe he didn't address that point well in the begin ning.  I don't think anybody has a problem with a model making her own personal opinions and choise, it's when they pass their public judgement on OTHERS that it becomes a problem.  Read my first post.  That's what Tony was getting at.

Are you fearful that those who preach are going to convince all the others to keep their clothes on?

Apr 20 06 08:31 am Link

Model

ANNABELLA

Posts: 1642

Atlanta, Georgia, US

sex sells, so does crack cocaine, so does child prostitution and britney spears' cd's.
Doesn't make it right

Apr 20 06 12:59 pm Link

Model

ANNABELLA

Posts: 1642

Atlanta, Georgia, US

A casting director acted like a total A** towards me when I told him I don't do nudity. He acted like he would not put me in his runway show but then he called 2 days later saying I was selected.

Hah! Not after he called me out in front of everyone and making me feel small for voicing my opinion. Those who do nudity..that's cool. But its not for everyone and nobody should feel like they have to do things they don't feel comfortable doing just to get ahead.

Apr 20 06 01:02 pm Link

Model

Lapis

Posts: 8424

Chicago, Illinois, US

Gregory Garecki wrote:
I don't shoot weddings because I don't want to and I don't care what I miss out on.

Would i pose nude for a wedding shoot? Sure...just waiting for the right client to ask me....

Apr 21 06 01:42 am Link

Photographer

AU fotografia

Posts: 1723

Houston, Texas, US

not only that! i sell it too.. gigolo on call;)

Apr 21 06 01:48 am Link

Photographer

Ransomaniac

Posts: 12588

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

Lens N Light wrote:

Are you fearful that those who preach are going to convince all the others to keep their clothes on?

Absolutely not.  I ind those that preach to be demeaning and their words inflamatory.  much the same way that i find bible thumping christians that run around damn gays to hell as being out of pocket.

Funny thing is i've NEVER not ONCE asked a girl to pose nude or topless.  Contact every girl in my port and ask them yourself.  Apparantly some girls WANT to do it with no coaxing, talking, payment, or coersion.  So what I try to shoot would never get shut down by "preachers" that feel the need to demean and debunk and bash everybody that doesn't do what they do.

Apr 21 06 01:49 am Link