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*rant* Escort screwed things up *rant*
So, for my other job I needed a couple of models to work a promo party at a restaurant/club, just walk around, look pretty, and pass out shots for a few hours. It was an Mardi Gras/kink themed party, but at a mainstream restaurant, not an adult venue, and it was just a theme, not an actual kink event (in other words, there were some people in corsets waving crops but there was no actual bondage or BDSM activity going on). I looked thru here & OMP, narrowed it down to a couple in the area of the event, and sent out e-mails. I got a few replies & got it down to 2 girls. I gave them the details of the event. This was a closed charity function, you had to have been invited & pay a $50 entry fee. I descirbed the theme of the event. Both models confirmed (OMP people, btw, not MM). So call time comes & I meet the girls at the venue to give them display bottles & instructions. One of them starts freaking out & asks the other to use her cell phone. She makes a frantic call then comes back & asks a few more questions & makes another call. She suddenly tells us that she was driven to the event by her very straight edged military boyfriend, who she also lives with. She says they didn't realize it would be a closed event (I told her) and her bf was waiting outside. He had planned to come in to monitor her at the event (a crowded venue at a staffed restaurant!). The manager wasn't thrilled but said he could come in if he paid the entry fee. She said she would go outside to talk to him. She proceeds to walk out and just NOT COME BACK. Apparently bf told her it was not acceptable. This was a girl who told me she was experienced at doing these sort of promotions (I've done a lot of them) and that she was a professional. ARGH. I just needed to rant a little. I'm going to bed now. Mar 05 06 02:04 am Link I suppose that BF factor was a part of this but it really sounds like to me that she would have been a mess anyway. As much as I love this thing we do, there is no doubt that it attracts flakes on both sides of the lense. Sorry you had to be the one who was the recipient of someone's unprofessional behavior. Mar 05 06 02:12 am Link you hired a net model what did you expect? Mar 05 06 02:25 am Link KARLOS MATTHEWS wrote: Ugh. This one had experience doing this sort of thing with references. I was a little surprised under the circumstances. Mar 05 06 02:30 am Link SLE Photography wrote: And, just like any job interview, you did follow-up on her references right???? Mar 05 06 06:09 am Link Sometimes things work out. Sometimes they don't. Sorry this one didn't work out. On to the next. I've had a time or two where I thought I was very clear on everything, just to make sure everything was OK, and then there's some surprise element that just leaves me scratching my head. It's life. Every day is a gift. Some gifts are nice, some are crappy, but you accept it and move on. Mar 05 06 08:14 am Link KARLOS MATTHEWS wrote: What ??? I thought that's what we all were - net photographers, net models, net make up artists, net-whatever. Mar 05 06 11:11 am Link MurphyMurphy Studios wrote: Yes, as a matter of fact I did check references. Mar 05 06 11:13 am Link KARLOS MATTHEWS wrote: Hey! I resent that. I happen to be very professional..ask anyone I've worked with. Mar 05 06 11:13 am Link we told you, we told you. the BF always causes girls to lose money and appointmants. sorry, man , but we have sob BF stories coming out of our butts. well I have my own GF story that is giving me a migraine! sorry nother rant. I have a list of "never call again". get one! Mar 05 06 11:20 am Link I think it's time we all re-evaluate who we will hire for the important jobs. I am in the process of re-vamping my selection criteria as well. As the days go on, it just seems that all of the petty bullshit gets worse and worse. This model not only lost out on a paid gig, but at the same time made you look incompetent to your client. From now on, I would only offer important jobs to models you have worked with before who you know will act professionally. I'm seriously considering doing the same thing. I sympathize with you. I'm going through the same headaches myself. Mar 05 06 11:27 am Link KARLOS MATTHEWS wrote: I beg to differ on that comment. Not all net models are flakes. There are models in OMP, MM what have you that are out there busting their ass and working very hard to get to places that they want to be. There are models on the net that not only do work through the net but also in real life. There is a difference. The goals...the accomplishments....what end result are they wanting to get out of modeling. Of course, stories like this don't help the models out there who are in it for the right reasons and really have goals to acquire. I have NEVER once not shown up to a job and flaked out. I have ALWAYS kept all communication lines open at all times and if there was a shoot or event that I couldn't make, it was taken care of in advance. I maintain good relationships with the people I work with....that is important to me. Maybe it makes me different...who knows. But that is who I am. There are models that need to learn how to communicate better and there are photographers that need to learn how to communicate better. In the end, the communication is the key factor. If you don't take the time in learning who you will be working with....you can only assume what may or may not happen. I know that time isn't always a luxury....but I am sure there are things that stand out in one's work that would help you make decisions about the people you hire. Mar 05 06 01:47 pm Link OK round 2 I would never and I repeat never hire a net model that I have not personally work with for any paying gigs, period. Every model says they are prompt, shows up 15 min early, good attitude whatever. When a model doesn't show the photographer is left looking very stupid. The client looses money and he won't be happy about that. As a net model you can flake on photographer whenever you like, there are 30 more photographers to take his/her place. As a land base agency they can't afford to have models flake, photographers will hire models from the next agency. Which is why I alway say if your a net model looking for paid work get an agent! A photoshoot cost too much money to have ruin by a flaky model, if its from a land based agency then you can atleast call the agency and have the model replaced. The worst that may happen would be a photographer filing a lawsuit aganst the agency for the lost of money and damages caused. If a "net" model belongs to an agency good I'll go through his/her agency then simple as that. Reputation is everything in the real world but it's not in the internet world. ding ding Mar 05 06 02:12 pm Link John Jebbia wrote: never a truer word spoken, and excellent timely advice. Mar 05 06 02:20 pm Link KARLOS MATTHEWS wrote: I agree on the never hiring a model that you have not personally worked with or maybe even communicated with on a regular basis. Again, that is your decision. But for the hundreds of people out there hiring models everyday...whether it be through agencies or online.....there are good models out there that are not like that. Sure...every model can say that are angels....well, check their references...check their history. Mine is up on my site for the whole public to see. I have nothing to hide. Then again...there are photographers out there as well who would say they are complete angels as well...and they aren't. Mar 05 06 02:23 pm Link Sure the bf may have been an controlling bastard, but I still blame the "model". She's the one who chose to let someone dictate her life, so she should be blamed. If she lives with him then she knew what his response would be before she agreed. She should be tarred and feathered ANYBODY WITH ME SAY "AY"!!!!! Mar 05 06 02:28 pm Link Mckenzie I see your point I had many many models flake on me and they didn't break a sweat. All I am saying is that land based agencies are more reliable that's all. If a net model flakes she may or may not care she won't loose anything either way. As far as why I use sites like MM and OMP because I am far from perfect so I do TFP shoots to better myself. I never join sites like this to find work as many models do. Real work real jobs I call agencies. Mar 05 06 02:34 pm Link KARLOS MATTHEWS wrote: Thank you..... Mar 05 06 02:44 pm Link Unless the b/f dragged her away, it is the models fault/chioce not to stay and work. Afraid to make her own choices, that's what I think. Thankfully I have not had a problem with anyone who has chosen to work with me, either models or their escorts. Mar 05 06 04:05 pm Link McKenzie wrote: Bravo McKenzie - You are one of the reasons I would not hire an agency model. I love the collaborate with newer models as well as the seasoned ones. Mar 05 06 04:13 pm Link should have called me and my girls... Mar 05 06 04:18 pm Link Bravo Mckenzie!! Anyone who looks at your portfolio knows you're working hard to achieve your dream!! I wouldnt hesitate to work with you at all!! :-) You're one of my favorite girls on here! :-) Keep Rockin Darlin!! :-) *SouthernGent* Mar 05 06 04:25 pm Link Ouch, I'm sorry that that happened. It's funny how models go and date really really strict, conservative people who probably secretly think that all models are skanks, even if they're not doing nudes or anything of that sort. And then, lo and behold, the SO has a problem with what the model is doing. *shakes head* Mar 05 06 04:34 pm Link UnoMundo Photography wrote: Oh, she goes on the "never call" list. She didn't have anything in her profile about an escort, and in 3 weeks of e-mail exchanges hammering out all the details there was never any mention of an escort. I've been booking promo liquor event models for some time & I've had other incidents where I've had to kick one out or where one has no-showed (hence why they get paid AFTER the event, as there have been a few times when one's had to be removed from the event part way thru), but this i the FIRST time I've ever had one show up with a boyfriend/escort. Mar 05 06 06:38 pm Link John Jebbia wrote: I usually try to work with people I know, due to the aofrementioned issues. in this case, the event was outside of the markets I normally work in, so the agencies I book thru and the models I normally work with weren't available as it was some distance away. I asked around & the closest booking agency was an hour from the venue & they had no one available. The larger companies that can afford $$$ per hour plus expenses (we were paying reasonably, but were on a smaller budget) have people on retainer for that, but between budget and this being a new company we didn't have those resources. That's why I went thru online services to look for people. Mar 05 06 06:42 pm Link KARLOS MATTHEWS wrote: As noted in the post I maade a moment ago, and in my original, this was for a promo event & not a shoot and there was no booking agency in the market where I was staging the event to handle this, so I was tight on options. Mar 05 06 06:45 pm Link Iridal Loveland wrote: You're BIT too far from the event venue Mar 05 06 06:48 pm Link phoenixsansfyr wrote: What bogles me in this case, as mentioned, is that it's not like this was for a photo shoot in some out of the way place or a sleazy club somewhere, this was in a well known established restaurant in the middle of the downtown area with security at the door, police check ins, etc etc and plenty of people around. Plus she knew all the details of the event well in advance & the BF wasn't mentioned until after she showed up. I did check & she has worked previous liquor promo events. I've been doing them for 8+ years and this is the first time I've ever had a girl showo up with an escort who expected to be able to attend. That's why I was ticked enough to rant, it caught me off gaurd. Mar 05 06 06:51 pm Link SLE Photography wrote: cool some agencies have girls that do promos. I just speaking my mind that's all. If I am responsible for talent showing up guess what I am going through an agency and if one decides to flake, well the agency doesn't get paid even if the other girls show up and does a great job. They can pay the reliable model out of their own funds. I write checks ( net 15 ) I don't pay cash. They can considere it a freebie and fire the flakey models on staff. Now with that said that's why I say agencies can't afford flakes which is the reason to choose agency girls over net models. That's all I am saying nothing more Mar 05 06 06:58 pm Link SLE Photography wrote: KARLOS MATTHEWS wrote: I'm not disagreeing. Like I said, in my regular (larger) markets I have agencies I work with. This was my first time in this market (we're doing a statewide rollout in zones) for this product & it was a smaller community without a nearby agency. Mar 05 06 07:28 pm Link Have a no escort rule, and stick to it. Escorts are a HUGE red/black flag, whether anyone wants to agree or not. It's a sign of trouble on the horizon, and here is a prime example. The "Do I pay for an airplane ticket for the escort" was another that had me both laughing and getting real angry that photographers even *entertain* this BS. I don't shoot with escorts. I don't use models for mission critical work unless I *KNOW* they will perform. I don't use models for paid work (any more) unless they've worked with me TFP at least once, preferably more, so I know they are "worth" it. Models see this from a different POV, but as the one writing checks, and who's reputation is on the line booking and using models, *YOU* (I) need to set the rules then stick by them. If you deviate, you'll get burned. No good deed goes unpunished, etc. You learned a lesson, I hope others learn the *right* lesson as well. BTW: For something like this, get the contract signed ahead of time, for what the models need to do. If they flake on you, sue them for breach of contract. Don't let them get away with this. This sort of thing you should not depend on their word alone. Anyone who won't/can't sign, find a replacement. It's *NOT* simply "business as usual." To be a professional, and to be considered a professional, you need to ACT professional. These girls ruin it for everyone, since you'll be less likely to "trust" the models from now on, this affects other "models" who feel they are professional and should be trusted, etc. It's a ripple effect, and in this on-line pond, it's becoming pretty choppy waters. Scott aka Bodyartist Mar 06 06 05:30 am Link I've had things like that happen before a little different though, 3 years ago this model calls me out of the blue and tells me her whole story how she's been a model for 3 years, has done this done that and was referred to me by her friend who i had just shot a month ago for a ad campaign. I had just got hired 2 days earlier by a boutique designer out of LA and decided that after I met with or saw her port I would hire her if she fit what we were looking for. I met with her a few days later for 10 min because I was in a hurry and scanned through her port which was beautifully presented and you know someone had taken the time to put it together, I got a list of refrences from her and parted. I was planning to call her refrences in the next day or two but my client called and rushed the shoot up to 2days. I had forgotten all about calling the refrences and had my 3 assistants running around LA picking up equipment that I needed and the small little doo dads. The shoot comes and she arrives on time I meet with all the art directors from the magazine and my client. We're just waiting for the models to go throught the motions of hair, makeup, styling.....etc. she checks the models and sends me out the first one, the one I had found. While we're doing our light checks she starts crying and breaking down and becomes a complete spaz. Can you imageine the eyes of 25-30 odd people on set looking at you with a, "what the fuck...where did you find her look?" I know it was partly my fault that I didn't check her refrences. She told me later that she had never been in a major shoot...blah blah blah. Anyways not that much harm done we just shot all the models and while I was shooting them we called another one in they had on standby. I have a rule, if your BF or Friend comes along to the shoot they sit in the yellow chair I provide which all my crew know thats the tag-along chair and they don't interact with that individual. P.S. Worst part I was still slightly pissed the next day and called the model that she had refrenced as her friend that recomended that she call me and the girl that I shot told me that she didn't know the person personally but she lived in her dorm and was in one of her classes at the college she attended, but she did tell one of her friends to call me but it wasn't her. The girl must have over heard my number through one of her conversations with her friend or found my card on the ground. Mar 06 06 06:58 am Link Yep, So many wanna be models with no dedication, no talent and no experience ruining it for so many really good models. Mar 06 06 07:04 am Link Not disagreeing with you on most of this, but in this case some of it wasn't practical as it was event modelling not photo modelling & not in an area I usually work, so some things like "shoot TFP first" weren't practical in this case. As for the escort, I didn't even think to ask as she had nothing listed & I have never had someone try to bring one for this sort of event & it's generally known that it's not permitted, which I would have expected her to know with her experience. My bad for not spelling it out, lesson learned there. The contract thing is a good idea, but since I am booking for a client I'm not sure what the mechanics would be in this state for a contract & suit for no shows. I'll look in to it tho. Bodyartist wrote: Mar 06 06 10:25 am Link |