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"I don't do (fill in the blank) ... so DON'T ASK! (neener-neener)" "don't waste my time or yours" ..... [you a$$hole] (implied) Why do people say these kinds of things in their portfolios and descriptions? Feb 25 06 11:54 pm Link Click Hamilton wrote: Either to : Feb 25 06 11:57 pm Link Elektro_Kandy wrote: Just seems like a funny way of selling something. It says more about the person writing their presentation than some anonymous public or target market they are trying to engage. Feb 26 06 12:01 am Link Elektro_Kandy wrote: More likely, they are just rude, abrasive, and lacking in social skills. Feb 26 06 12:05 am Link Click Hamilton wrote: Means don't send me an e-mail asking for _______ because it is not offered. I think it is reasonable and helps save time, bandwidth, and disappointment. It is easy to state it as a general policy than to make someone feel that their request is being personally rejected. Maybe it should just be an acronym IDDP (I Don't Do Porn)? Feb 26 06 12:09 am Link Elektro_Kandy wrote: Bodyartist wrote: Question: Feb 26 06 12:11 am Link Bodyartist wrote: You win, Scott. That's exactly my point. Feb 26 06 12:13 am Link Jay Dezelic wrote: The problem is that somebody might think "IDDP" means "I Do D.P." Then they would be banned from the site. Feb 26 06 12:19 am Link Bodyartist wrote: Hmm... Ok. I guess this is basic marketing 101. Telling people what you don't do doesn't buy you much. Good points. Feb 26 06 12:32 am Link JT Hodges wrote: What's wrong with Dr. Pepper? Feb 26 06 12:39 am Link The wording is the problem. When they say I do glamour and runway but not nudes or porn' is one hing. When they say "So don't waste my time!' it becomes rude. However-if they had done nudes once or had it listed as a possibility or not mentioned and every Email they get is a 'Wanna ride my orgasm machine baby???' type thing it might really turn them off. model I photoed Thurs had artistic nudes listed in her profile-says she was flooded with guys asking her to do nudes for them. Really made her go 'Hmmm...". I NEVER ask a model to do nudes-never mention it unless they inquire on a project where the project plainly states it involves nudes. So this girl now says 'No nudes' because of the flood, however she wants to do them with me-at her request, because I never asked even knowing she's willing. Approach and attitude is everything on both sides. Want to tell me not to 'waste' your time? Cool I won't waste either. Want to work with me? Great-let's create! Feb 26 06 12:41 am Link ehhh- i dont think you should really be too concerned over the "i dont DO porn." when i first joined the site i had up a bunch of risque pictures from mindblown photographers that i LOVED... and i would get requests from douchebag GWCs that would say the preferred to chat IM, then start asking me about my "limits," and then show me their latest "project," which would be some low-res, badly lit, mongoloidly angled, stupidly composed shot of a faceless girl with a vibrator. and then they'd say, "but you dont actually have to put it in... though it pays more if you do.." ..... so for a brief space of time, i had on my profile "CLEARLY NO PORN." and a lot of the offers stopped. then i took that down, because i realized, hell, id love to do D Brian Nelson porn!!! :-D but i think the quality of my port and the little community ive established here sort of suggests what quality of work i'm willing to do and with whom. but dont take the "i dont DO porn" personally. the girl is probably just fed up. Feb 26 06 12:50 am Link MadamePsychosis wrote: Vibrators can certainly be used in art. There are no stinking rules! MadamePsychosis wrote: Uh, thanks, but maybe you have me confused with Melvin. I do art - Melvin does porn. Feb 26 06 01:45 am Link I used to think the same thing you do - until a model I was shooting (who was new) signed on to her profile and showed me her e-mail. WOW - what a LARGE bunch of porn solicitations. Rude too. I think that most of the problems seem to be at that Other Model Place where there are a large number of Platinum level porn shooters that must be sending out mass mailing to any model that indicates nudity is OK. Feb 26 06 11:14 am Link Porn is too hard to light. The sex organs are in cracks and crevices. During actual sex, it's even worse. Too much work. Feb 26 06 11:23 am Link Jayne Jones wrote: Not at all. It's always good to lay down the rules in a professional manner. Feb 26 06 11:45 am Link I don't know do you say professionally, "No thank you, I really don't want to shoot with a dildo up my butt being penetrated by a finger will being hung from the ceiling with a gag in my mouth." Trust me, a lot of girls get offers like that all the time. Perhaps the problem is as much the people sending offers as the ones posting on their profiles. I think the answer is for the models to forward to the mods all inappropriate requests (and trust me, they get plenty of them). As the mods weed out the porn promoters or the porn promoters start to leave because they are getting banned, the problem will diminish. What you are saying is correct. The language used by models discourages the legitimate offers, while discouraging the inappropriate ones as well. Perhaps you could suggest some more effective language that we could encourage models to use, that still discourages the porn. Feb 26 06 11:53 am Link Click Hamilton wrote: This was a good observation. I think new models often look at the ports of other models to see what the should include. The term is so common, that it is understandable that a newbie would assume that it is a standard statement that should be made. Feb 26 06 12:25 pm Link I won't shoot porn... unless it's really... REALLY good paid... and I must be allowed to use a pseudonym such as "Johnny Longlense" or so... Feb 26 06 12:30 pm Link Part of the problem is the need for an exacting definition of what "porn" is. A recent communication with a model went something like this - Model - "I do artistic nudes, but I don't do porn so don't ask. Here's a link to my portfolio." Me - I click the link, see her port. My reaction is - "Lady, I don't know what you call porn, but after looking at your port, trust me, you do porn." Because of this I guess my opinion is that a model has perfect a right to say "no nudes", "no inplied nudes" etc. But beyond that their just proclaiming "I'm a good girl!!! Really I am." And thrown is a dash of false pretentious modesty/you've offended my feminine dignity/you're a pervert to boot. Look at a photographers work, decide if you're ok with the style. If he/she asks you to do something your uncomfortable with, "just say no." How hard is that? Are you an adult professional, if so than act like one, or are you a little girl? As a photographer I say right up front, I don't do bondage or any image where a woman looks like she's in harms way. That's my line. I've seen images of bondage that are definitely art, I'm just not interested in making them. Feb 26 06 12:32 pm Link I've been on both sides of it. For a while, as soon as I had a picture with as much as a breast showing, I would get offers from really rude photographers who were only interested in shooting nudes, or worse yet expected it and got offended or downright hostile if I politely declined their request. I had a lot of other things checked, they had a lot a lot of other things checked, therefore I didn't nessecarily feel it was professional for them to be saying things "I'll shoot one set with you in lingerie of your choice, one set fully nude- and this will be TFP" when their profile was full of commercial looking pictures and that's what I contacted them for. The assumption that I would get naked for any GWC that contacted me because I had nudes checked or an artistic picture with a bit of flesh showing was grating. So I can very easily see why models finally just say "no porn". You get to a point where you would just rather not deal with the garbage in order to receive one legitimate offer. On the other hand, I started reading other people's profiles and considering the way points were beng made. Because there is always a choice, and there's always more than one way to say things. And there are lots of photographers on here creating really fantastic nude images, that I didn't want to send the wrong signal to. (For example, if I contacted them because I liked their work but then they saw my profile and got an impression I didn't mean to give.) Feb 26 06 12:40 pm Link I post it because im tired of ppl contacting me seeing that i do nudes and then assuming i will do masturbation or soft touching videos and crap.....so i simply put ..I dont do porn of any kind so dont ask! Feb 26 06 01:27 pm Link WhiteBears Visions wrote: It reads even worse. However-if they had done nudes once or had it listed as a possibility or not mentioned and every Email they get is a 'Wanna ride my orgasm machine baby???' type thing it might really turn them off. Then, either deal with the flood of wanna bes (which won't be put off by reading the profile anyway) or risk losing jobs. model I photoed Thurs had artistic nudes listed in her profile-says she was flooded with guys asking her to do nudes for them. Really made her go 'Hmmm...". I NEVER ask a model to do nudes-never mention it unless they inquire on a project where the project plainly states it involves nudes. Well, I would *NOT* work with her for *any* reason. Once they post "no nudes" I'm not even going to waste my time, or deal with a model who sends privately "I only post that to weed out..." Sorry. Professional, upfront, and head-screwed-on-to-the-front. Feb 27 06 10:51 am Link KayleeT wrote: That's cool. But I, and others, wouldn't wast our time contacting you for nude, or other, work. You come across (in this instance too) as having "issues." Feb 27 06 10:56 am Link SKPhoto wrote: Very true! A recent communication with a model went something like this - LOL!! (see below, link coming up!) Because of this I guess my opinion is that a model has perfect a right to say "no nudes", "no inplied nudes" etc. But beyond that their just proclaiming "I'm a good girl!!! Really I am." And thrown is a dash of false pretentious modesty/you've offended my feminine dignity/you're a pervert to boot. "The lady doth protest too much, methinks." , http://www.allshakespeare.com/quotes/287 Look at a photographers work, decide if you're ok with the style. If he/she asks you to do something your uncomfortable with, "just say no." How hard is that? Are you an adult professional, if so than act like one, or are you a little girl? Read my thread here: Feb 27 06 11:02 am Link I just came across a *very* pleasant profile. The portfolio was obviously new, and limited, and said "I don't do nudes, yet at least." So, I went to read their profile, and they had: I am willing to do most types of work, but until I am more knowledgeable within the industry, I'd like to say no full nudity at this point, but anything else is fair game with me! Now *THAT* is about the most professional, and pleasant way of putting it I've seen yet, and this from a YOUNG person, new to it all. Feb 27 06 11:44 am Link The most obvious answer is because they are tired of being asked to do porn shoots. I have to admit, however, that I wonder just how many models really are approached by photogs who want to do porn. Is too much made of this and are the statements merely made to shut down the requests that models think will arrive, or are they really getting bombarded with GWCs or even pro pornographers trying to go for "Penthouse shots?" I would love to hear from the models on this. P.S. - I should have read more of the thread first. Looks like many of the models are being asked to do things that they find to be distasteful. That being the case, I can't say as I blame them for making the point. Maybe the key to it is in the approach - a professional but firm statement that offers for porn will not be accepted, should do the trick. Feb 28 06 04:34 am Link i't not meaning to be rude in anyway it's just that some epople even if you have not filled in the 'nude and erotic' boc they will still ask..I used to get about 4 mails per week asking for porn work.. Feb 28 06 04:37 am Link I'm perfectly happy with "I don't do porn." On the other hand, I tend to steer clear of models who say they don't do nude, when I don't want them to do nude, because it says something about the way they feel about their bodies. Models who do nude modelling tend to be more open and relaxed about their bodies than models who do not. Feb 28 06 05:17 am Link Click Hamilton wrote: Thank Gawd someone wrote something about this because it was starting to annoy the heck out of me too. I think you summarized it well, btw. Half the so-called models who write this I think: "Who would want to shoot you nude anyway!?" There's a lot of wanna-be divas running around MM and internet modeling has spawned its own unique brand of bitchy behavior, only one insignia of which is the dreaded "I don't do porn, so don't ask!" Feb 28 06 05:46 am Link And yet again: Bait-and-Switch - they lure you in with a nude photo of themselves, then hit you with the "I don't do nudes/glamour/erotica/porn" line! JAY carreon PHOTOGRAPHER Feb 28 06 06:41 am Link the only reason i ask (and its not even stated in my port) to bring someone with me is becuase im 17 and i want to be safe (i live in toronto canada) Feb 28 06 06:50 am Link Click Hamilton wrote: Because they copied it from someone elses site. Feb 28 06 06:53 am Link Bodyartist wrote: Dang Scott!!! You are getting all that from "I don't do porn so don't ask"? Feb 28 06 02:44 pm Link I don't do porn either! But for those that do that is your business. Now if you need a photographer then it becomes my business. ok ok there is no easy answer. let people put what they want on their site and out of the 100,000 people on here if a few ligitimate professionals get turned off by a statement made for whatever reason, you would think they could find a few others to work with. not much different than real life really. i'm from NY and live in KY. Conversation is slightly different here. lol I have my site marked- I am not looking for the largest fan club, I am looking for a few people who are serious about networking with other professionals. So how does that read? oh I see that's why you didn't comment on my images posted. thanks, david Feb 28 06 03:35 pm Link William Coleman wrote: Ain't it the truth! Feb 28 06 11:18 pm Link Gregory Garecki wrote: Yeah, actually I am. Feb 28 06 11:23 pm Link Gregory Garecki wrote: Some people read a lot more than what's written; some read less. Mar 01 06 02:46 am Link "I don't do porn so don't ask," but email address is [email protected]. Mar 01 06 07:36 am Link |