i, as well as a host of other photographers and models are looking at booking work at fetishcon 06 i would presume, with this goal in mind i have had email correspondence with a number of models and photographers, remembering of course that this is fetishcon, an industry and fan event that should attract work and ops for all involved, i was just asked to pay travel for a model, travel for an escort, and provide a room ,for a model that mentioned that she was already going? i pay industry standard fees as well, WHEN IS ENOUGH ,ENOUGH ,folks. i am looking at not going over crap like this.

"No" can be such a happy word.

A short letter to respectfully decline her offer to work with you should suffice.

Bear in mind, that she may have sent this letter in form letter style and be totally oblivious to the world around her. For you to attempt to school her on how things are in the real world, you may open yourself up to unwanted misinterpretation of your meanings and would be better off walking away from this model knowing you did the right thing.