Forums > General Industry > how often, in general, do you feel discouraged?

Model

Angel Tara

Posts: 2214

Charlotte, North Carolina, US

n/m

Jan 18 06 07:12 pm Link

Photographer

lll

Posts: 12295

Seattle, Washington, US

n/m

Jan 18 06 07:28 pm Link

Photographer

TEAM

Posts: 98

Oxnard, California, US

I just came to accept the kiss.  Keep your head up! MUAH!

Jan 18 06 07:31 pm Link

Model

Angel Tara

Posts: 2214

Charlotte, North Carolina, US

lol...silly

Jan 18 06 08:45 pm Link

Photographer

D. Brian Nelson

Posts: 5477

Rapid City, South Dakota, US

Every three years of shooting results in a two-year hiatus due to discouragement.  So the answer is once seriously every five years, on average.

-Don

Jan 18 06 08:50 pm Link

Photographer

Gibson Photo Art

Posts: 7990

Phoenix, Arizona, US

Every damn day...

Jan 18 06 08:54 pm Link

Model

Model Sarah

Posts: 40994

Columbus, Ohio, US

When I go to Chicago and I can only find one decent shoot because everyone is 'out of town', 'got a paid gig', or are a gwc.


sad

Jan 18 06 08:54 pm Link

Photographer

Glamour Boulevard

Posts: 8628

Sacramento, California, US

Only when I realize I am not fully relying on my photography as my sole income. I am about 2 years off on the goal I set for when I would be doing nothing but photography. But I am still working a full time job. Other than that I do not really get discouraged.

Jan 18 06 08:59 pm Link

Photographer

Valkyrur

Posts: 1187

Nelsonville, New York, US

Every time a model does not reply to E-mails ...
Every time a model does not want to shoot nudes ...
Every time a model is a no show ....

But every time that happens I get over it ..
and try it all over again smile

Jan 18 06 09:05 pm Link

Model

StacyJack

Posts: 2297

New Orleans, Louisiana, US

about what? anything in general, or my "modeling"?

Jan 18 06 09:06 pm Link

Model

Model Sarah

Posts: 40994

Columbus, Ohio, US

Louis Braga wrote:
Every time a model does not reply to E-mails ...
Every time a model does not want to shoot nudes ...
Every time a model is a no show ....

But every time that happens I get over it ..
and try it all over again smile

Hello? *waves hand*


Where were you the 54546654 times I was in NY??????

Jan 18 06 09:07 pm Link

Photographer

Glamour Boulevard

Posts: 8628

Sacramento, California, US

Model Sarah wrote:

Hello? *waves hand*


Where were you the 54546654 times I was in NY??????

stop turning east, dammit!but then again, if you go far enough east you can still end up here smile

Jan 18 06 09:08 pm Link

Photographer

Mark Anderson

Posts: 2472

Atlanta, Georgia, US

way too often...  but that comes with the territory I guess...

Jan 18 06 09:11 pm Link

Photographer

BCG

Posts: 7316

San Antonio, Florida, US

i am too damn good looking to be discouraged.

Jan 18 06 09:14 pm Link

Model

Model Sarah

Posts: 40994

Columbus, Ohio, US

Glamour Boulevard wrote:

stop turning east, dammit!but then again, if you go far enough east you can still end up here smile

hahaha

Hey I am coming to California in March. More than likely the 6-10th.

I'll give you a yell and let you know.

Dont 'not answer my email', be 'out of town', 'have a paid gig' or i'll get "discouraged."

wink

Jan 18 06 09:15 pm Link

Model

Prin S lea

Posts: 62

Waynesboro, Virginia, US

Everytime i get on the damn scale!! j/k (or am i ) LOL
nah,im only 1/2 pound heavier than this time last year,went to doc 2day 4 my monthly energy shot,and he showed my how much i weight in jan.05'

so thats my 2 cents ....
xoxoxo i'm bored so sue me

Jan 18 06 09:15 pm Link

Photographer

BCG

Posts: 7316

San Antonio, Florida, US

i am too damn good looking to be discouraged.

Jan 18 06 09:16 pm Link

Photographer

bencook2

Posts: 3875

Tucson, Arizona, US

I get discouraged in my life and in my photography.  As for photography, I never like anything I shoot right after the shoot.  Probably because the standard I hold myself to does not match my skills.  But, after a few days the photos start to grow on me.  Then the discouragement goes away.  But it will be back...right after the shoot.

Jan 18 06 09:17 pm Link

Model

Model Sarah

Posts: 40994

Columbus, Ohio, US

Prin S lea wrote:
Everytime i get on the damn scale!! j/k (or am i ) LOL
nah,im only 1/2 pound heavier than this time last year,went to doc 2day 4 my monthly energy shot,and he showed my how much i weight in jan.05'

Another thing...

The chicks that want to kill me because of the number on that scale after giving birth a few months ago..

Is discouraging the word????

Jan 18 06 09:18 pm Link

Photographer

Glamour Boulevard

Posts: 8628

Sacramento, California, US

Model Sarah wrote:

hahaha

Hey I am coming to California in March. More than likely the 6-10th.

I'll give you a yell and let you know.

Dont 'not answer my email', be 'out of town', 'have a paid gig' or i'll get "discouraged."

wink

My bday is the 8th, my fiances is the 10th,,,,,,so the earlier the better. Which part(s) of Cali?

Jan 18 06 09:20 pm Link

Photographer

Craig Thomson

Posts: 13462

Tacoma, Washington, US

Louis Braga wrote:
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Every time a model does not want to shoot nudes ...
Snip

Every time a model wants to shoot nudes

Jan 18 06 09:22 pm Link

Model

Model Sarah

Posts: 40994

Columbus, Ohio, US

Glamour Boulevard wrote:

My bday is the 8th, my fiances is the 10th,,,,,,so the earlier the better. Which part(s) of Cali?

San Diego the 6-8th and the 9th and 10th in LA (l.a. sucks ass but my fiance is making me go there because he has this jerk friend from college that lives there now)

''the things I do for loooooooooove"

Jan 18 06 09:22 pm Link

Model

BeccaNDSouth

Posts: 1670

Olympia, Washington, US

Prin S lea wrote:
Everytime i get on the damn scale!! j/k (or am i ) LOL
nah,im only 1/2 pound heavier than this time last year,went to doc 2day 4 my monthly energy shot,and he showed my how much i weight in jan.05'

so thats my 2 cents ....
xoxoxo i'm bored so sue me

Oh Lord, I know the feeling! I've gotten to where my weight doesn't discourage me as much as it used to. The only thing that discourages me, is the fact that there are no decent agencies in my area right now, and that no photographers close to me want to shoot. I have to go out-of-state basically, if I want to shoot with anyone. I am hoping I will have a little easier time while in europe finding photographers and all.

Jan 18 06 09:59 pm Link

Photographer

Mark Key Photography

Posts: 1346

HAVERTOWN, Pennsylvania, US

Only on a recent no show/no call. Haven't been at this long, so that's only once in 3 months. I'm trying to focus on the destination rather than the occassional little bump in the road.

Jan 18 06 10:08 pm Link

Photographer

Habenero Photography

Posts: 1444

Mesa, Arizona, US

Louis Braga wrote:
Every time a model does not reply to E-mails ...
Every time a model does not want to shoot nudes ...
Every time a model is a no show ....

+
When my work gets shut out of a venue due to tyrannical puritanism...
Every time I find a great location that requires a 4 hour hike in and 4 hour hike back out that doesn't allow overnight camping...
Whenever my wife decides to ban my little green guys from a trip and I find perfect scenarios to pose them in...
Whenever I go to an art fair and don't sell anything...

Over all, life's too good to remain discouraged for long.

Jan 18 06 10:52 pm Link

Photographer

Travis Feisthamel Photo

Posts: 671

Watertown, New York, US

bencook2 wrote:
I get discouraged in my life and in my photography.  As for photography, I never like anything I shoot right after the shoot.  Probably because the standard I hold myself to does not match my skills.  But, after a few days the photos start to grow on me.  Then the discouragement goes away.  But it will be back...right after the shoot.

I would say I have to agree with Bencook2 here. But sometimes I think I am a terrible photographer, and then I look at others work and I feel a little better. But other times I look at some of the really good stuff on here and feel worse. I can at least say that I am a lot better than I was a year ago. So if every year I get better I guess that is a good thing.

Jan 18 06 10:55 pm Link

Photographer

Valkyrur

Posts: 1187

Nelsonville, New York, US

Craig Thomson wrote:

Every time a model wants to shoot nudes

Dammnn itttt ... How dare they!!!???? smile

Jan 18 06 10:56 pm Link

Photographer

Valkyrur

Posts: 1187

Nelsonville, New York, US

Model Sarah wrote:

Hello? *waves hand*


Where were you the 54546654 times I was in NY??????

You forgot 54546654 times to let me know you were coming ...smile

Jan 18 06 10:59 pm Link

Model

Model Sarah

Posts: 40994

Columbus, Ohio, US

Louis Braga wrote:

You forgot 54546654 times to let me know you were coming ...smile

Well I will definitely let you know this time.

Silly me.

I usually have 45645964 shoots while there so that could be why.

Probably late March or early April. I cant take New York winters... jesus christ the wind feels like knives when it is cold.

Jan 19 06 11:18 am Link

Photographer

nrvphotography

Posts: 1050

Knoxville, Tennessee, US

bencook2 wrote:
I get discouraged in my life and in my photography.  As for photography, I never like anything I shoot right after the shoot.  Probably because the standard I hold myself to does not match my skills.  But, after a few days the photos start to grow on me.  Then the discouragement goes away.  But it will be back...right after the shoot.

Just means you are striving to be better and not CONTENT; a noble endeavor indeed.

Jan 19 06 11:23 am Link

Photographer

Amanda Schlicher

Posts: 1131

Milwaukee, Wisconsin, US

generally I'm a pretty head-up-keep-trying kind of girl.  I get consistent theatre work which I find fulfilling... I feel discouraged sometimes when I'm nearing a deadline and can't find a solution for a costume, but usually that is pretty temporary, as I love going to opening night and being proud of what I managed to accomplish all on my own (I am both designer and stitcher for the companies I work with).  Sometimes I feel discouraged because I wonder how long it should take for me to improve in various areas of photography, but I don't really know how often I shoot or how much instruction I receive compared to other photographers, so it is hard to gauge.  I'm always trying to do one better than the last shoot.  I guess I feel like I should be better by now.  Then again, I guess I should take the criticism and advice of the people who are paying me more seriously than that from people on the internet.

Jan 19 06 11:25 am Link

Photographer

BradyPhotography I

Posts: 464

Gaithersburg, Maryland, US

Every time a model flakes out and ..

1) does not respond to messages
2) does not show up
3) breaks promises

Jan 19 06 11:30 am Link

Photographer

BradyPhotography I

Posts: 464

Gaithersburg, Maryland, US

Every time a model flakes out and ..

1) does not respond to messages
2) does not show up
3) breaks promises

Jan 19 06 11:33 am Link

Photographer

montgomery photographic

Posts: 162

Sunnyvale, California, US

Christopher Brady wrote:
Every time a model flakes out and ..

1) does not respond to messages
2) does not show up
3) breaks promises

ditto.....

Jan 19 06 11:37 am Link

Photographer

Infinite Eye

Posts: 300

New York, New York, US

as frequently as high tide, but it keeps me on my toes.

Jan 19 06 11:38 am Link

Photographer

VWFoto

Posts: 13

Denver, Colorado, US

All the time...fairly constantly. But I'm at a point now where I don't want it to slow me down any more but push me forward. If I keep thinking I'm not good enough, rather than giving up, I will try to do better. (Wow, that was VERY after-school special of me)

Jan 19 06 11:41 am Link

Photographer

nathan combs

Posts: 3687

Waynesboro, Virginia, US

not being able to get a good photo job because i did not have the$$$ to get a internship at high caliber publications because i can not afford to work for free or not getting a photo job because i can not afford the high caliber 4 year photo school

Jan 19 06 11:50 am Link

Photographer

Old Ska Punk

Posts: 2677

Crivitz, Wisconsin, US

I am an optimist. I find every morning that I wake up, encouraging.

After 25 years of photography, every time I still have to shoot some crummy product on a white background. . .that's discouraging (even though it pays the bills).

Jan 19 06 11:54 am Link

Photographer

Monsante Bey

Posts: 2111

Columbus, Georgia, US

The state of Ohio is discouraging, people don't seem to "get it."

So to rectify that, my best friend is sending me an Atlanta apartment guide. I want to be gone before the summer.

Jan 19 06 01:34 pm Link

Model

Angel Tara

Posts: 2214

Charlotte, North Carolina, US

well, since everyone else responded...

about every 10th time someone pities me because I'm short

about every 10th time someone asks why I'm not with an agency, even though I am.

about every 10th time someone calls me an internet model and proceeds to explain how great agency models are, even though I make the vast majority of my modeling money OFF LINE

but I always bounce back smile

Jan 19 06 03:46 pm Link