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Photographer

Tim Baker-fotoPerfecta

Posts: 9877

Portland, Oregon, US

Jigo wrote:
My wedding contract states no other professional photographer will be taking pictures. Most wedding phtoographer contracts state this. If you are shooting with your pro equipment, you may be asked not to.

So what do you do if a second photographer was hired and they had the same clause in their contract ... and no one thought to tell you two?

Jan 13 07 07:32 pm Link

Photographer

Tomi Hawk

Posts: 1649

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

Flat Earth Arts wrote:
I actually had a family member LOUDLY proclaim that I didn't know what I was doing because my lens was so small (a f/1.8 50mm), and suggested that the b&g sue for their money back and give it to him to finish out the photographs with his HP point & shoot which is 'Just as good without the fancy flash and such'.
  I had to stop the session, upload to the laptop and give them a preview, at which point I offered to stop taking photos and give a partial refund, or have them quiet the offending family member.  They had the fellow kicked out, and sent me a $100 tip a few days later for the nightmare I'd endured.
  As horrid as it sounds, this is really the only time I've had a problem like this.  Most times, they hover about and snap photos at will, but rarely get in my way.

Funny stuff .. and I believe every word of it ..

I've done over 5000 Weddings .. no more .. I'm done with the relatives, friends, and other hacks that hang on my shoulder to get what I'm getting ..

I now take the Bride and Groom out on location about 3 months before the actual event even takes place .. and get what I need to get, for them .. and then I simply bid them a great Wedding, and leave it that ..

Its like escorts during a models session .. I do NOT allow any cameras around my Brides, while I'm working .. period!

Its simple .. really .. it's my job ..

Jan 13 07 07:33 pm Link

Photographer

Campbells Photography

Posts: 196

Troutman, North Carolina, US

Glad this came up I did a wedding last saturday and I was the hired photog well protocol for me is that the bride find out from the preacher if flash is allowed(some churches will not allow a flash in the church dont know why) and to find out what my limits are during the wedding as far as moving around,,,,,,,,,,well another photographer was sitting in the crowd she just got a new lense and a flash bounce cover for Christmas and was wanting to try it out.
         I use my canon 580 with out a bounce so it is more direct during the ceremony wellllllllllllll she had a bounce cover that is omni directional(allows light to blast 360 degrees) well thats exactly what it did it completely destroyed several shots of mine threw out the whole ceremony threw off my focus, only if she snapped during my frame also it threw hard shadows across my subjects simply because she was shooting from the side and I was shooting straight on.
To say the least I would prefer nobody was taking pictures during the actual ceremony unless it is a throw away camera that is not throwing out alot of power but she to was a proffesional and came representing the true paparazzis of the photog world,,,,,after the ceremony was over I told her how it was affecting my shots and from there on it was like I was always having to wait on her so I could do what I was paid to do.
Next time I will let the bride know in advance to nicely let her guest no that cameras would be allowed during the reception but not during the ceremony simply because she has hired a photographer and was paying alot of money and would not like any interferance from other flashes.
          Another thing that happens is the guest all know either the bride or the groom and if they are taking a picture chances are whoever they are taking the picture of will be directing there attention towards them since they no them.
When it comes to weddings I am a photojournalistic style photographer (I dont like posed shots) so therefore when I am taking pictures I dont want to see people in my images looking another direction posing for aunt Sue........enough rambling hope this helps ,,,Darren

Jan 13 07 07:44 pm Link

Photographer

Mickle Design Werks

Posts: 5967

Washington, District of Columbia, US

They are called "Uncle Bob"s...the guy with pro gear and does it as a hobby and will have a Canon 30D, the 580 speedlite with bracket, lightsphere and external battey pack shooting at 1/125 and f/11 all day long.

[b]ecker has a great post on this very subject on his photographer's blog

http://thebschool.typepad.com/b/2006/12 … th_un.html


That's the reality of these days of digital photography.  Unless you plan on shooting a Hassy tethered to a laptop on a backpack you are not going to have an equipment advantage.  The reality is that the camera now are so good that a 3 year old can make a great pic (in fact my son, 3 and half, does shoot good pics - lots of happy accidents...lol).

The only advantage that you can cultivate is service and artistic and creative vision/abilites. That's what you sell to your clients.  Show them that you respect their guest.  I actually set up images for them so that they get good ones.  I've already been paid before I shoot one image so what do I care what they shoot? smile I'm remebered at the good guy and when they see that my pics will turn out better than theirs they further apprecaite the value of having a pro there for the pics.

Jan 13 07 07:56 pm Link

Photographer

maryfatima

Posts: 345

American Canyon, California, US

Tim Baker wrote:

So what do you do if a second photographer was hired and they had the same clause in their contract ... and no one thought to tell you two?

I would think that would void the contract.  That would be a conflict of interest and burden of frustration.  Chance are you'd be able to sue the client based on that circumstance.  Both photogs would lose business this way... bad situation!

Jan 13 07 08:04 pm Link

Photographer

BlindMike

Posts: 9594

San Francisco, California, US

Searcher wrote:
Oooh, I have a question...

What's the protocol for suggesting to your friend's obvious hack wedding photographer, who is using a flat flash for every shot of the wedding party, that he is in a church absolutely blooming with stained-glass-filtered natural light, and he might get better images by taking advantage of that?

I don't think it's my responsibility to tell someone how to do their job. That's just not kosher.

Jan 13 07 08:05 pm Link

Photographer

Patrick Walberg

Posts: 45475

San Juan Bautista, California, US

Tim Baker wrote:

So what do you do if a second photographer was hired and they had the same clause in their contract ... and no one thought to tell you two?

The couple could be sued by both photographers.  I had a nightmare bride who pulled that on me.  She was trying her best to get out of the contract but ended up paying me and the other guy both. 

Some photographers heckle me about being too escort friendly ... they have nothing to complain about compared to the war stories I can tell you about brides and the mothers of the brides!  I do have a contract which has rescued me from some potential bad issues.  But I have had many bad experiences with couples doing drugs, drinking too much or getting into fights on their wedding day. Some of these caused me to nearly give up on photography! Then there are those that are such a pleasure ... and I want to do it again!   Weddings are like shooting a war.

There was one wedding that I was at where the groom and the father of the bride got into a fist fight. They started a small riot and the cake got knocked over on the floor!  The bride was in tears! People left early before the police came!  I was not the one shooting at this one, so I was outa there!

Actually I've had some great enjoyment in shooting weddings.  I've shot weddings for other photographers, models or musicians, simply getting the gig by word of mouth.  Those are the best!  The ones where I'd advertise and get hired are rough.  No wonder I've slowed down on doing weddings!  LOL

Jan 13 07 08:19 pm Link

Photographer

Patrick Walberg

Posts: 45475

San Juan Bautista, California, US

Searcher wrote:
Oooh, I have a question...

What's the protocol for suggesting to your friend's obvious hack wedding photographer, who is using a flat flash for every shot of the wedding party, that he is in a church absolutely blooming with stained-glass-filtered natural light, and he might get better images by taking advantage of that?

You must of seen me at one of the weddings shooting?  ROFL .. naaaaw  I'm kidding!  Half the time, my flash don't work!  LOL some more!

BlindMike wrote:
I don't think it's my responsibility to tell someone how to do their job. That's just not kosher.

You are right!  The couple hired that person and they most likely have seen that persons work.  The wedding day is NOT the time to tell either the photographer or the couple what they "should" do.  Go with the flow, take some candid shots, laugh and be happy!  Don't start fist fights!  LOL

Jan 13 07 08:24 pm Link

Photographer

Searcher

Posts: 775

New York, New York, US

BlindMike wrote:
I don't think it's my responsibility to tell someone how to do their job. That's just not kosher.

Oh, great. Now I want Nathan's hotdog with everything on it, and I don't have anyone around with a car to cart me to Coney Island tonight. Arrrg.

Jan 13 07 08:30 pm Link

Photographer

MB Photography

Posts: 164

Puyallup, Washington, US

My rule is "as long as you don't get in my way, have at it" Shooting a wedding is as much customer service and PR as it is getting the images. I"ll turn off my lights and invite the family up to take snapshots during the formals. There not using my camera's or my strobes so I know my images are going to look better, but they will have there photo. I make sure that my brides and grooms know that it's there wedding and there the ones paying me so we work as a team, so when uncle Larry or aunt Jenn comes up and get's in my way or starts dictating the way the images should be I can politly say that "the bride and groom and I have talked about what they expect" or "I'll give everbody a chance to take there photo's so have a seat and I"ll let you know when to come up" So in answer to your question bring your camera talk to there photographer and be polite..

Jan 13 07 08:51 pm Link

Model

Pamela Hunter

Posts: 205

Detroit, Michigan, US

Our friends spent 3g on a supposed "incredible" wedding photographer and the guy was crap. Literally amateur. He'd bought the name of the company and the studio and was making bookings off a rep that was not his.

IMHO (we're planning our wedding) the more the merrier and the better the chance for good shots. Every friend I have with an SLR is welcome and encouraged to augment the experience.

Our friends also provided disposables at each table and sadly many of THOSE pics turned out nicer than the pro ones. sad

In terms of "etiquette" I think telephoto lenses are the way to go, no elbowing the photographer at that point tongue and then shooting some candids at the reception, during the vows, etc.

THat's just me and what I want though. I sure as hell won't hire the turkey my friends used, and I've made note of photographers with shitty attitudes toward wedding photography who yet will still take someone's cash and shoot them.

Jan 14 07 01:44 am Link

Photographer

Jeremy I

Posts: 2201

Charlotte, North Carolina, US

Tim Baker wrote:

So what do you do if a second photographer was hired and they had the same clause in their contract ... and no one thought to tell you two?

Either I or the other photgrapher would leave, and keep the money as I require payment before the wedding day.

Jan 14 07 06:11 am Link

Photographer

Jeremy I

Posts: 2201

Charlotte, North Carolina, US

MB Photography wrote:
My rule is "as long as you don't get in my way, have at it"

I feel pretty much the same way. I've had times where I setup for a shot with perfect framing and some guy jumps in front of me with his canon rebel and snaps away. Most people by far stay out of the way. But there is always a gear head shooter at every wedding these days it seems.

Jan 14 07 06:14 am Link

Model

!Tiger!

Posts: 4978

New York, New York, US

jon mmmayhem wrote:
mostly, i'm just waiting for the reception.
there will be open bar, and i can't wait to get picture of everyone tanked off their asses while dancing to the Cro-Mags and Misfits.
it's that kind of party, that kind of couple, and it'll be those kinds of pictures, i'm sure.

I'm late here

but is this the one with the COOOOOOL JACKET

and the pants and shoes I helped ya pick out and encouraged that you wear as u bike thru the noisy streets of...........

;-)
have funnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

Jan 14 07 06:21 am Link